I am starting a blog so I can vent about things. This way I hope to avoid out bursts similar to my recent posts in my Borderline Personality thread. I feel like a failure in my life. I made it a point in life never to get a divorce. Now I can't find one reason to continue with that goal. I married a woman who has a personality disorder. I have tryed to accept that her behaviors are related to that disorder, but it still means that her behaviors are unacceptable. I have lost a great deal of perspective because I allow myself to expect my needs to be important to her, and they are not. When we rationally discus them she says they are important to her, but when she lives her life...