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Im 38 years old and I've never had a strong sex drivel..ve experimented with many illegal and legal drgs with mild success..I have other issue though, I have a kink and I need it to get horny enough to have sex..vanilla sex does not do much for me ..since i have particular kink I went yo porn sites and my perfect fantasies are right there..beautiful women involved with almost perfect scenarios! Then I. Try to meet a woman and I can find them attractive but without a certain attitude or willingness to do my kink, sex just is not happening..this ends up hurting them big time..i do have ED but im not sure if it's because everyday women can't get me hard or if it's due to physical problems..I can get much harder watching my porn clips than with a normal woman even if she tries my kink out..
I mean, I do not look at porn very often so it's not a compulsion..how can regular women compete with these perfect kink scenarios? Should I just stop all porn and keep trying with actual women?
I have the kink though that needs to be involved..has anyone here been able to somehow try to have sex without adding elements of their kink involved?regular sex just bores me tbh so not sure if this can be changed
As for boosting sex drive I've tried yohimbine but the side effects are harsh..my T levels are above average too so my case is frustrating..I feel like im missing out big time in terms of not having a sex life..
I mean, I do not look at porn very often so it's not a compulsion..how can regular women compete with these perfect kink scenarios? Should I just stop all porn and keep trying with actual women?
I have the kink though that needs to be involved..has anyone here been able to somehow try to have sex without adding elements of their kink involved?regular sex just bores me tbh so not sure if this can be changed
As for boosting sex drive I've tried yohimbine but the side effects are harsh..my T levels are above average too so my case is frustrating..I feel like im missing out big time in terms of not having a sex life..