Please Help Me!!! Facing a serious problem

[Sanju32 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sanju32]

Hi Guys,

I am 32 Years old guy and I have serious Issue with my Dick. I have been masturbating for the past 5 years(App 5 to 6 Times in a week some times more than that) due to which my penis drops/hangs in few seconds after erection. Not in a position to wear a condom.
I have been masturbating on the floor with my face facing towards the ground due to which I put lot of pressure on my dick during ejaculation.I arouse my self by watching porn and some time remembering the past relation ship with my GF.
I don't have any habit like smoking , booze nor do I take any drugs.
I am trying my best not to stop but in the night when I am in deep sleep i couldn't control. It has become a habit due to which I am facing a big problem. Now that I got married and due to this ED I am not able to enjoy my SEX life.
I am not sure weather my dick muscles got ruptured or what could have really happened? Now I am facing really a serious problem in my life. I think that I had a very strong Sexual desire but now I fell that I have lost that due to this masturbation.
Please advise me what should i do to over come this.I would request you to please help me out from his situation.

Thanks a Lot!!!

[007 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 007]

Hey bro glad to have you here.

I'm not sure exactly what the issue is here...is it erection quality (EQ)?

Too much ejaculation can tax your system, if you are saying you ejac.ed almost everyday for the last 5 years...uh yeah that's a bit much, may I suggest learning dry or multiple orgasm as a way to sate your pleasure appetite...we have a group here dedicated to that.

You say you mastubated in a prone position lying on top of your little buddy while watching porn? Is that what I heard?You may have to help me with this picture a bit 'cuz that is sounding a little odd to me unless you happen to be rubber man.

How is your diet? Are you in good shape? Have you done any P.E. ing yet?
There are many threads here on poor erection quality...which is what it sounds like your experiencing.

I would say a clean diet, physical exercise and some light p.e. will work wonders. I would lay off porn and anything sexual for a week or two while at the same time exercising and getting qualitative nutrients into your body and see how you feel then. Barring any physical issues, I surmise you will see an improvement after a bit of a de-stress period.

[calixto ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close calixto]

LAY OFF THE PORN, NO PORN NO PORN NO PORN, it will destroy your arousal capabilities because you begin to trick your brain with fantasies.

Your idea of using mental porn of an ex girl is a WAY BETTER idea, "fo sho"!

007 is right, begin a light PE routine (you will find what you need on here if you look around) and focus on jelqing, it will give you rock hard boners!

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

I am with Calixto and 007 on this: No Porn.
Also, I can't quite picture they way you describe your masturbation posture and postion. Please elaborate.
Last, how are your pc muscles?

[calixto ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close calixto]

Well Pirate, I haven't seen him respond, so I will say what I think.

He is basically burying his head (not his dick head but his actual face) into the carpet, and beating off in a "laying sideways" fashion.

He is burying his head/face in the carpet as to keep a mental image of his "mental porn" as to keep "focus" rather.

I am guilty of this too, but just when I was coming off of some rather good stimulants after long and extended study periods during my grad school writing phases. Man, jacking off was sometimes the only reason I ever got to sleep.

I think this is what is going on, but correct me if I am wrong.

[luweesz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close luweesz]

Well Pirate, I haven't seen him respond, so I will say what I think.

He is basically burying his head (not his dick head but his actual face) into the carpet, and beating off in a "laying sideways" fashion.

He is burying his head/face in the carpet as to keep a mental image of his "mental porn" as to keep "focus" rather.

I am guilty of this too, but just when I was coming off of some rather good stimulants after long and extended study periods during my grad school writing phases. Man, jacking off was sometimes the only reason I ever got to sleep.

I think this is what is going on, but correct me if I am wrong.

was that that his head is on the floor and his legs are on the couch? wow, that's a lot of pressure! but that's messy, your jizz would splurt on your face

Hi Guys,

I am 32 Years old guy and I have serious Issue with my Dick. I have been masturbating for the past 5 years(App 5 to 6 Times in a week some times more than that) due to which my penis drops/hangs in few seconds after erection. Not in a position to wear a condom.
I have been masturbating on the floor with my face facing towards the ground due to which I put lot of pressure on my dick during ejaculation.I arouse my self by watching porn and some time remembering the past relation ship with my GF.
I don't have any habit like smoking , booze nor do I take any drugs.
I am trying my best not to stop but in the night when I am in deep sleep i couldn't control. It has become a habit due to which I am facing a big problem. Now that I got married and due to this ED I am not able to enjoy my SEX life.
I am not sure weather my dick muscles got ruptured or what could have really happened? Now I am facing really a serious problem in my life. I think that I had a very strong Sexual desire but now I fell that I have lost that due to this masturbation.
Please advise me what should i do to over come this.I would request you to please help me out from his situation.

Thanks a Lot!!!

i second the motion with the other guys... stop the porn. i can't tell you if you have the fixation of masturbating as your form of sexual relief but you didn't tell us how the sex with your wife if it had been hard on you. try this one: i was terribly addicted to masturbating when i was in my teens that i have to go to the restroom (even public) to jack off --- and for now, i just concentrated myself with sports. at first, it was really hard, i'm having a hard-on but now, i feel great!

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I'm having a hard time teasing apart the issues here too.... but I certainly agree that porn and too much masturbation can lead to problems. Here are some good threads on those topics, and what to do about them:
https://www.pegym.com/forums/erectil...y-lead-ed.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/erectil...-erection.html
It's not easy to wean yourself off of bad habits, but the benefits can be huge.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

You are now married and your life has changed. Now is a great time to break some habits.
Try to organize your life for a while such that you do not have the privacy to masturbate but do have plenty of time alone with your wife. My guess is that within a few days, you will find that getting erect with her is much easier.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

The big problem here is that he is a matress fucker, except he uses the floor so therefore he is a floor fucker. Fucking the floor has caused temporary ED. Either get to know your hand and stop humping the floor or your going to have serious problems. I say this in love son, not to condem you but to wake you up.

[catchup Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close catchup]

This is a form of masturbation. You rub your penis on something, like a mattress, or in this case, the floor. Not sure where I read it, but it can have some negative effects.

[Sanju32 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sanju32]

Thanks guys for the suggestions, I was busy with my work so i couldn't reply to your postings. Sometimes with my work I get only 6 to 7 hours of sleep may be that adds to ED. I surely agree with you guys that PRONE has really spoiled my arousal capabilities. Since past three months I have stopped watching prone and kept busy with my work and going out.
Hope I am not clear in my explanation of my position. It just simple, I sleep straight on the floor with my face facing towards the floor(up side down).
My diet is good. I am healthy I go for gym do running. No problems at all apart from ED. I am sure I am facing this problem just because of my masturbation that really got me into trouble, I am in a worse situation, I feel ashamed of my self of doing such activities.
Can any of you please suggest me in a right way. Can jelqing help me in resolving the problem or do I need to go see a Urologist????
Please let me know.
Thanks

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

take note

The big problem here is that he is a matress fucker, except he uses the floor so therefore he is a floor fucker. Fucking the floor has caused temporary ED. Either get to know your hand and stop humping the floor or your going to have serious problems. I say this in love son, not to condem you but to wake you up.

Want to bump this, have seen some posts on this before. We here think masturbation is healthy and no cause for shame.
However we are worried that your method could cause problems.
This method has caused physical problems for others.

[calixto ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close calixto]

The big problem here is that he is a matress fucker, except he uses the floor so therefore he is a floor fucker. Fucking the floor has caused temporary ED. Either get to know your hand and stop humping the floor or your going to have serious problems. I say this in love son, not to condem you but to wake you up.

ohhhHAHAHAHheeheeheeheehohohohohohhahahahahahhaOMG OMG OMG, this is the best ever OMG OMG LMMFAO!!!!!!!!!!

AH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, KP OH MAN I CAN BARELY TYPE, "mattress fucker" "Floor Fucker" Oh shit I am about to piss my pants, I wish I has seen this earlier!!!!!!

[calixto ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close calixto]

Thanks guys for the suggestions, I was busy with my work so i couldn't reply to your postings. Sometimes with my work I get only 6 to 7 hours of sleep may be that adds to ED. I surely agree with you guys that PRONE has really spoiled my arousal capabilities. Since past three months I have stopped watching prone and kept busy with my work and going out.
Hope I am not clear in my explanation of my position. It just simple, I sleep straight on the floor with my face facing towards the floor(up side down).
My diet is good. I am healthy I go for gym do running. No problems at all apart from ED. I am sure I am facing this problem just because of my masturbation that really got me into trouble, I am in a worse situation, I feel ashamed of my self of doing such activities.
Can any of you please suggest me in a right way. Can jelqing help me in resolving the problem or do I need to go see a Urologist????
Please let me know.
Thanks

Sorry man, I just read your latest post, this one ^

Yes, sounds like you just need some kegels and a good jelqing routine. Start slow, and don't overdo it. Just go til your dick feels good and "worked".

And don't worry about the humor, we like to have fun here. I do hope you will stay with us and enjoy the many other humorous posts that there are on here to read!

And start a PROGRESS LOG in the Progress forum, post what you did in it each day, this will make it easier for the veterans here to track down what it is you need to be doing.

Good luck and welcome to the "Gym"!!!

[Panther Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Panther]

Yup - read about that somewhere too. Also read that it can damage your dong and result in trouble with partnered sex later. Specially if you are putting more pressure and harder strokes on your dick than a nicely lubed kitty can do. Nothing wrong with a little solo play but I'll take a kitty over the hand any day of the week.