Im NEVER doing NoFap again! NoFap almost ruined my LIFE!!!

[NYCDodge Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NYCDodge]

After a few weeks of edging my EQ is coming back stronger and healthier. Although It’s not fully back the way it was a few months ago it’s definitely much stronger than it was last month in MAY....which was a disastrous time for me in my sex life


In March I foolishly decided to try NoFap...thinking it would enhance my sex life even further. I stopped masturbating and would just focus on having sex. The first few months were great, but in May, like a light switch my libido shut off and was totally unresponsive. I was depressed and knew something was wrong.

I don’t watch porn and I don’t masturbate so it made zero sense as to why I would have terrible libido that month. After a few weeks of edging my EQ has jumpstarted again and I am able to perform well on the bedroom. Though I still have moments where I lose it. I quickly get it back and finish the job.

The first 11-12 days I was edging pretty roughly and the head/frenulum of phallus was sore...I don’t recommend this. This may be the reason why my EQ may have suffered a bit and gave me DE. I simply stimulate the mid-shaft now and it actually feels much more pleasurable...I edge for about 45-60 mins and rely only on imagination and bikini pics/vids of models. I don’t like hardcore XXX stuff so I stay away from that (I know that’ll definitely give you ED)

I’ve learned that NOFap has been more of a burden than a blessing. If it works for you great, but I will never do NoFap again. Edging is a crucial exercise in phallus development that goes backs hundreds of years and I learned that the hard way. I never would’ve thought that this was the reason behind my problems.

I will continue to do this through the month of June and observe results. Also going to visit a urologist the end of the month and get a blood test

[mistergeorge Senior Member Member of the Month June 2021 Find all posts View Profile Close mistergeorge]

Really glad to hear you turned a corner with that situation. Sounds like you're finding your stride and allowing your sexual energy to flow more naturally.

[Starting_Somewhere Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Starting_Somewhere]

Good post! Yeah, I have also put NoFap behind me. I think penis enhancement has encouraged me to have a more positive perspective on sexual activities. I do some hanging/stretching, jelqing, and edging.

I also like to use a little bit of porn but nothing extreme and not too much per day. NoFap is very all or nothing about porn, which I think is an oversimplification. With porn, I think it's important to draw the line somewhere, but NoFap doesn't leave room to acknowledge that some porn may be healthier than others, and that someone could just make healthier choices.

Recently I started learning to edge without ejaculating, and my EQ is getting even better. PE routines make the sexual activities a lot more constructive. So, I really appreciated your post today, it is a good fit for where I'm at too.