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I am 24 years old. Starting 4 months ago, I started having ED. I have a girlfriend and we just have normal sex with missionary, girl on top, and doggy style. I have very weak erections that are at best 80% of what they used to be. In the mornings, I wake up about once a week with a 20-30% erections with the rest of the week being soft. The overall change in my erection is that the length is probably only half an inch shorter and the girth is much more thin and then angle is a little under horizontal. I could push the erection down without pain or much resistance. It's like there is no base to my erection. My erections require physical stimulation or else they will turn flaccid within seconds. I kind of just thought I was in a slump and that I would get over it, but at this point, I am starting to feel panicked/stressed/depressed which I know is just making my situation worse. Oh and I don't always get erections. For example, this entire day, I've tried maybe 8 times to get hard and got maybe one 40% erection. The best way for it to happen for me is if I am getting hot and heavy with my girlfriend at which point I average about 60-80% and the success rate with this method is maybe 70% of the time.
Also, when flaccid, my penis is much much smaller than it used to be. It's just shriveled up and feels cold to the touch. It is easily 1/2 to 1/3 the size that it used to be. When I hold it to pee, it feels weightless, like its just flesh and there's no blood flowing through. This is super depressing because when I am just walking around work or sitting in my cubicle it feels like a button dick or like I am dickless.
Things hit a really low point for me last night because I was going from mouth to vagina last night with my girlfriend. In the time it took to maneuver from her mouth to her vagina, I went soft. And of course my girlfriend says its her fault when I know there is something wrong with my penis. It just kills me because I can't satisfy my girlfriend and she thinks she is unattractive and unsexy.
Another thing that may or may not be related are my testicles. It could be just in my head, but I really believe that they have shrunken. In addition, my left testicle used to always hang lower and now, it's my right testicle that hangs lower. It's just weird and I don't know if my left testicle went up, or if my right testicle just dropped lower. Oh yea, and last thing, my testicles are almost always sagging (like how they are supposed to when the temperature is warm). It doesn't matter if I am feeling cold or hot, they just feel like they are hanging low when they don't need to be. So basically, in addition to my dick problems, my testicles flip flopped in which hangs lower, they are shrunken, and they are always sagging.
Anyone have any feedback on this? I am definitely going to see a urologist next week but if someone could give me some input, it might ease my mind and also help me prepare with some questions to ask the doctor.
I know this is a long read so thanks to whoever reads and responds.
I am 24 years old. Starting 4 months ago, I started having ED. I have a girlfriend and we just have normal sex with missionary, girl on top, and doggy style. I have very weak erections that are at best 80% of what they used to be. In the mornings, I wake up about once a week with a 20-30% erections with the rest of the week being soft. The overall change in my erection is that the length is probably only half an inch shorter and the girth is much more thin and then angle is a little under horizontal. I could push the erection down without pain or much resistance. It's like there is no base to my erection. My erections require physical stimulation or else they will turn flaccid within seconds. I kind of just thought I was in a slump and that I would get over it, but at this point, I am starting to feel panicked/stressed/depressed which I know is just making my situation worse. Oh and I don't always get erections. For example, this entire day, I've tried maybe 8 times to get hard and got maybe one 40% erection. The best way for it to happen for me is if I am getting hot and heavy with my girlfriend at which point I average about 60-80% and the success rate with this method is maybe 70% of the time.
Also, when flaccid, my penis is much much smaller than it used to be. It's just shriveled up and feels cold to the touch. It is easily 1/2 to 1/3 the size that it used to be. When I hold it to pee, it feels weightless, like its just flesh and there's no blood flowing through. This is super depressing because when I am just walking around work or sitting in my cubicle it feels like a button dick or like I am dickless.
Things hit a really low point for me last night because I was going from mouth to vagina last night with my girlfriend. In the time it took to maneuver from her mouth to her vagina, I went soft. And of course my girlfriend says its her fault when I know there is something wrong with my penis. It just kills me because I can't satisfy my girlfriend and she thinks she is unattractive and unsexy.
Another thing that may or may not be related are my testicles. It could be just in my head, but I really believe that they have shrunken. In addition, my left testicle used to always hang lower and now, it's my right testicle that hangs lower. It's just weird and I don't know if my left testicle went up, or if my right testicle just dropped lower. Oh yea, and last thing, my testicles are almost always sagging (like how they are supposed to when the temperature is warm). It doesn't matter if I am feeling cold or hot, they just feel like they are hanging low when they don't need to be. So basically, in addition to my dick problems, my testicles flip flopped in which hangs lower, they are shrunken, and they are always sagging.
Anyone have any feedback on this? I am definitely going to see a urologist next week but if someone could give me some input, it might ease my mind and also help me prepare with some questions to ask the doctor.
I know this is a long read so thanks to whoever reads and responds.
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