Stamina Training Unit

[on_a_mission2day Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close on_a_mission2day]

Hi all,

I was just wondering if anyone has used the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit. From what I have heard it can assist greatly when practising alone to overcome pre-e.

Anyone have any insight as to whether this works?

cheers

[TheSnitch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TheSnitch]

Pretty sure the "stamina training unit" is the same thing as the regular Fleshlight, which I and many members here have used. If it gets you practice in holding off on cumming, then it's useful.

[nibbles Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close nibbles]

I've got it

Never had a normal fleshlight but yes it's supposed to be designed to be more intense than a vagina therefore when you have sex you should last longer.

It says that if you can last 10 minutes with the fleshlight you can last 20 minutes with sex. I've only just started using it in my edging routine so can't say it's greatly helped me as of yes but it's much better than using your hand

[on_a_mission2day Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close on_a_mission2day]

Thats great guys. I only got mine two days ago and have used it twice. I lasted 30secs to 1 minute the first time, it was intense and i couldnt believe how good it felt.

The second time i used it i was aiming for slow and steady strokes and worked up to 7 mins with maybe 2 start/stops.

Promising...

Anyone with real success stories???

[IClone Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close IClone]

I don't have it but I would like to hear if anybody really got stamina in bed by using fleshlight.

[JoshLuvins Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JoshLuvins]

I too am interested in this not for orgasm though just to edge insanely! (10+ start/stop)

[on_a_mission2day Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close on_a_mission2day]

i think we need to bump this thread for answers and feedback from people with real success from this. I read online somewhere that a gf had bought her bf the STU and he was a 30 sec popper but after using the device for 4-6 weeks he could then have sex with her for 10 mins (of penetration)...

Anyone else?

[hopefuldude Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopefuldude]

I used a ribbed anal. Not SO extreme as the STU but I find it feels REALLY good and can mute the feelings from sex. What's hard to replicate is the warmth.

[alex553 Member Find all posts View Profile Close alex553]

Fellas, I have a lot of practice with the fleshlight. I don't want to write a book here, so if you have any more questions shoot me a message, but a couple of pointers and things I've noticed:

1. Try to mimic sex as much as possible with the fleshlight. I can last for an hour with the fleshlight if I lie or sit down, but its much harder in the positions where you do the work such as doggy,on top, etc. To do this, get 2 or throw towels and wrap it around the fleshlight so it doesn't poke your stomach too much, and do the thrusting yourself. For doggy, stick it in between your mattress and box spring.

2. I've had much more success doing multiple shorter sessions than a longer session. My theory is that when I do long sessions I have to stop 10+ times because of the PONR, thus making my body used to it and more prone to do it during sex. My new method helped me much more,which is try to do a session that stops when my body reaches the PONR and build that time up. This started with around 5 minutes and went on to around to 12 or 13 minutes. Think about it- when you start off sex badly, you have that "feeling" that you won't last long, and that leads to you blowing your load too quickly. If you "know" that you can last 12 or 13 minutes no matter what, you've already won because that's not even that bad, but then you can last even longer! Literally for around 3 weeks, I STOPPED the session when I reached the PONR, SLOWLY increasing both the duration and how fast I thrust (the latter reached my goal faster though, I don't want to be a jackhammer).

3. You need to have a long-term approach guys. NOBODY is going to reach there goal in just on week, if it was that easy everybody would be a god in the sack. What happened with me is that I could only have a routine for a couple weeks before I lost my privacy between traveling, school, and work (hopefully this changes once I move out) so I never got to practice as much as I wanted. Unfortunately, your gains won't stay with you. What I noticed that each time I had a couple weeks to use the fleshlight and then stopped, I would lose about 90-95% of my progress, but SOME of it would stay in me. Since I've had about 3-4 times that I was able to use the fleshlight for a couple weeks, my base is better than before, but not anywhere near what I achieved after a couple of weeks of practice. So point is, keep practicing fellas, don't get discouraged. If you stop after 2 weeks because you're not doing well, you're going to fail. Think of it this way, if you last longer by ONLY ONLY 1 MINUTE per week, you well last 52 minutes after one year. Ya, one year is a lot of time, but how long have you guys been dealing with premature ejaculation? A hell of a lot longer than that, so just bite the bullet, put in your work, and take a long-term approach.

4. For anybody that has tried but just cant get any gains using the fleshlight, I have another method that may help you. First, NEVER use porn for edging, it overstimulates your mind and WILL make you blow in probably 10% of the time that you can actually reach. My method is that you use distractions while edging and gradually ween off of them. In the start, watch your favorite show or movie so that you can get distracted but still reach your duration goal and get some confidence. After a couple weeks, maybe only watch it half the time, etc. until you do your whole sessions without distracting yourself. You can also use music, which helps me a lot. You can even use your thinking, in the start just think about school or your last night our or the game last night, and gradually transition it to a mindset where you realize you're training to have sex.


Sorry if this isn't too clear, feel free to ask me any questions.

[alex553 Member Find all posts View Profile Close alex553]

Sorry for highjacking this thread, just one more problem. Fleshlight uses a lot of lube and you don't want to waste hundreds of dollars, here is a post I had in another forum about Xanthan gum, a cheap, homemade lube. Moderators, let me know if you want me to make this in another thread, or move it yourselves if that's possible.
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You will have to make this lube yourself, but it will end up being INCREDIBLY cheap and better than normal lube in my opinion. It includes xanthan gum, which is some kind of thickening powder used in foods and I believe can be found in the ingredients of some lubricants. Optional but suggested is (liquid) glycerin, which will give a better texture to the lube, make the lube last longer without reapplying, and it's MUCH easier to make the lube without having to stir forever or wait overnight for the chunks to dissolve. If you are making a big batch, you should add some preservative, the two popular ones being Grapefruit seed extract (GSE) or methylparaben. Finally, you should add anywhere between half a cup to 2 or 3 cups of water, depending on how much you want to make.

This is my formula. You can mess around with this, IE some people use Guar gum instead of Xanthan, some people don't use Glycerin, some decide to put it in the fridge instead of adding the preservatives, ETC. Obviously, this is in proportions- if you make a bigger batch with more water, you will need to use more of the ingredients, and vice versa.

-1/2 teaspoon of xanthan gum
-3 teaspoons of glycerin
-4 drops of GSE
-half a cup (4 ounces) of warm water

To make this, first add the xanthan gum with the glycerin in a bowl and mix it for a minute or so. Then, add the water and the preservative and mix again for 3-4 minutes. You want to store it in some kind of bottle/ squeeze bottle, and you should shake it in it as well. You can mess around with this formula- if you want it to be thicker, add more xanthan gum or less water. If you want it to be more slick, put less xanthan gum or add more water. Using warm water will make the process faster.

If you decide not to use glycerin, it will be a bit harder to make- there will be more clumps and you will need to do more stirring and let it sit overnight for them to disappear. If you just decide to mix the water and xanthan gum, you will need to stir for a long time until there are no more chunks and let it sit over night. If you use hot water, this will go faster. A lot of people add the water and xanthan gum on a pan with low heat and stir it there, which will take less time.

The 3 ingredients are relatively inexpensive and will easily last your months or years. Xanthan gum costs 5-10 dollars and all you need is a couple ounces because so little is used in the recipe. Glycerin is also around the same price, and the preservative should only be a couple dollars. You can find xanthangum in the baking section of your grocery store- Giant in my area didn't have it, I had to go to a place called MOM's organic market to find it. You may have trouble finding it- just look online for grocery stores, especially the healthy/organic ones, and call them to ask so you don't have to make 5 trips to find it. I found glycerin in the same place- you MAY have some trouble finding this but make some calls to check if they have it. You want a little bit more of glycerin since more is used in the recipe, 6-18 ounces. Again, I found the GSE in the same place. You can find all of these things way cheaper online, especially on amazon, but I didn't want to wait so I just got them in store.

Let me know what you guys think. By the way, I got most of this information from the fleshlight forums, where they need to use way more lube. Google fleshlight and xanthan gum if you want to read more about it. This lube is great and you guys will love it. I love being able to use as much lube as I want without worrying about how expensive it is. On top of that, I really do think this is better than some of the normal lubes like astroglide and KY. It stays on without getting too dry, and never gives the sticky feeling that some lubes give.

Just a note- some people may be allergic to these ingredients, but you would probably already know because they are in some foods. Also, REMEMBER TO ADD THE PRESERVATIVES if you plan on using a batch for more than 2-3 days. You should add something like 4-6 drops of GSE (make sure its GRAPEFRUIT, not Grape seed extract) for a half cup-cup batch, and more if you make more. You can use less if it causes any irritation, or less if you store it in the fridge, but even then you must add some.

(Personally, I just use the xanthan gum and glycerin and only use it for 2-3 days to make sure it doesn't build up any mold and ditched the preservative.)

[hopefuldude Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopefuldude]

Albolene. Big in porn and is a tasteless, odourless lube. It's great.