Leafygreen's Journey to 7.5/5.5

[LeafyGreens Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close LeafyGreens]

Been a while, so quick update:

With exceptions of breaks when I travel to see my wife and have LOTS of sex for a while, I've been sticking pretty well to JP90.

Mid girth remains at around 5.375", sometimes a little more, but never consistently hitting 5.5".

BPEL is between just a shade over 7" and 7.25" depending on arousal level. Never reach that 7.5" i was seeing during the first month of PE. I think it's because I was jelqing at a low erection level for that month.

Erection difficulties are basically gone but left me with some insecurities about it. Just need time for them to go away, I think.

Had a little surprise last night. I always measure mid girth, but was curious about base girth.
I think I've been gaining there, because I was surprised at the measurements.

At base where my scrotum skin connects, I'm a solid 6" At base down even lower, at the fat pad, which takes some effort to measure because I need to get the scrotum skin out of the way... i'm at least 6.25, maybe even 6.5 (don't know exactly right now because my tape measure is only 6" long). Which is pretty awesome.

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I've been thinking about all this and why there is such discrepancy in anecdotes about problems related to girth size.

Some guys say "I'm 6" inches girth and never had a problem," others say that it's interfered with their sex life quite often.

And depending on where I measure, I could say my girth is anywhere from 5.25" (near the tip) to ~6.5" (all the way down deep at the base).

In my case, I've had few problems due to girth size (a little bit of blood occasionally from my wife) and needing to work it in slowly if she's not super wet. Both my ex and my wife occasionally complain about some "soreness near the entrance." Never really understood that, why it's always at the opening of them and never complaints about pain deeper in.

Also explains why reactions were generally always better when I'd go deep (which I always attributed to my length, which isn't too shabby), and why i really enjoy deep penetration the most too.

But now I guess I see why. My base has always been considerably thicker than the mid. And now after PE, it's starting to reach a pretty substantial size, and likely will always be that way. Because I have nooooo plans to get my mid girth up over 6"

So my thought about anecdotes is that you just a) really have no clue how and where a guy is really measuring on his dick, and how accurately and b) dick shape is another factor that can't be ignored but is very very rarely discussed

[LeafyGreens Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close LeafyGreens]

One final thought.

I initially thought i did not want much, if any, more length. Because I was bottoming out on my wife (and still do).

But after more thought, I've decided I really want to recover that 7.5" maybe even go up to 7.75" because I only bottom out in certain positions if I reaaally grind myself deep on her at 90-100% EQ. I want some extra length for more creative positions or positions that just naturally need more length (i.e. spooning) and for times with EQ is less than stellar. And I can control my depth on missionary. Legs near the ears is already a no-go (sad, because I LOVE that position). But DEFINITELY not more than 7.75"

[theswinger Member Find all posts View Profile Close theswinger]

excellent "insights" Leafy!
looking at your impressive length (from my 6.5ish bpel), I would have thought that you should "fill" any woman, from any position. But I guess it depends also on the woman's "size" - their average is about 7", from what i' ve read

[LeafyGreens Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close LeafyGreens]

Strange and frustrating measurement tonight.

BPEL was back up to 7.50 (from 7.25)
But girth was down to 5.25 (from 5.375+)

So what I thought was a girth gain may have just been some kind of trade-off with length. Frustrating. Maybe no real improvement for many months.

Last couple days I didn't do any real PE, but I spent hours and hours of edging (probably 3 hours 2 days in a row) to the point where my dick hurt from it.

Not sure how that is impacting.