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[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

Misty, I'm sure no-one here is trying to denigrate or deny your experiences, but can we just accept that different people like different things and that some women - including some women who post here, clearly - genuinely enjoy anal sex and do it for their own pleasure, rather than merely to please their partner? Batwoman certainly doesn't seem the timid, downtrodden type who'd let her partner make her do something she found painful or humiliating.

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

Well I am sad to say I didn't get to explore anything last night. She had a OBGYN visit yesterday morning with a new doctor and she didn't like him at all. She said her body wasn't feeing very happy after the Dr. Visit. I could't blame her for feeling that ways. It will happen soon enough. But I am glad I was able to get everyone else in the anal exploration mood! :-)

Well you're not the only one. My dear husband was exhausted last night and by the time I got out of the shower and in bed, he was fast asleep. Darn hunting and getting up too early to climb a tree

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Well you're not the only one. My dear husband was exhausted last night and by the time I got out of the shower and in bed, he was fast asleep. Darn hunting and getting up too early to climb a tree

See... He needs to quite hunting white tail. When he has all the tail he needs waiting for him at home! :-)

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See... He needs to quite hunting white tail. When he has all the tail he needs waiting for him at home! :-)

LOL! I'm trying to be cool about it as he hasn't been much and I have I'll try again tonight I get my way eventually

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

My current girlfriend we tried it once long ago, she said it hurt but seemed to love it I thought it was lots of effort but enjoyable, and she was the one that kept begging and pressuring me after to do it again But after a while it got a lot easier to do and prepare for. So I guess like some of the women here say, once they do it and like it they want it again and again I figured she was too sore from it but I suppose a good type of sore..

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I endured through the pain, which I happen to believe most women do.

Misty, you're way tougher than I was to endure the pain. Hell, I couldn't handle it those first few tries and had to stop. I honestly had no pain from beginning to end this last time, which was a very pleasant experience I think I'd be turned off from it as well, had I continued those first times

[insight Member Find all posts View Profile Close insight]

Yep, Batwoman pretty much said it right. I do believe men pressure the women (they like to call it motivation). We all know Women do things to please their man.

You degrade me as a male when you say things like this. I have never pressured my girlfriend into anything unless it benefits the both of us (like when she said she hated plums though never tried it, so I bought her one and now she loves it). I have the greatest respect for my girlfriends feelings/thoughts and I tell her to her face whether my views are different or not and tell her that I respect her feeling and never pressure her, in fact I generally stop the conversation right there unless SHE continues with it.

My girlfriend was against anal and I respected that and never brought the conversation up again (actually I think she was the one who brought up every anal conversation, because she didn't understand why my views were different to hers). She told me why she didn't like it and I respected that. Now she tells me she's keen to try but I'm not so sure.

You said yourself that women do things to please their man and this is EXACTLY the reason why I have tried talking her OUT of HER decision as I refuse to do something that she truly is not comfortable with. I don't see how you can say that I'm pressuring her when you say things like you do. Maybe you've just had bad experience with males but that doesn't mean all males are like that, some men have respect for women and their thoughts/feelings.

I also don't see how you can let your experience judge those of other women as well. It's like your flat out calling all these women on this forum who have experienced anal (at their own decision) and enjoyed it liars.

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Anyways, my girlfriend hasn't mentioned anything about anal in the last 24 hours and I'm hoping it stays that way. She still thinks I'm browsing the internet looking for some anal lube to buy, but I'm hoping not to push her into something unless she truly wants it.

[BigRooster Senior Member Member of the Month Apr 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigRooster]

Well you're not the only one. My dear husband was exhausted last night and by the time I got out of the shower and in bed, he was fast asleep. Darn hunting and getting up too early to climb a tree

I'm not a hunter but I think this is the time of year where. A lot of men prefer to hunt four legged deer instead of the two legged one. I prefer the two legged one.

[Brian98 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Brian98]

Been doing bumsex with my gf recently quite a few times, we have did it 3 or 4 times now cause she knows i love it, problem is she just doesnt enjoy it, is there anything i can do because ive did everything possible, have sex with her normally until she cums to relax her, lots of lube, play with it for a bit to loosen it up but she just can't take it, can only take my head and a lil bit, im too big. Last time i agreed it would be the last, do some girls just not like it, is it just that some girls like it and some don't, even if your doing it properly?

[funflyer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close funflyer]

Been doing bumsex with my gf recently quite a few times, we have did it 3 or 4 times now cause she knows i love it, problem is she just doesnt enjoy it, is there anything i can do because ive did everything possible, have sex with her normally until she cums to relax her, lots of lube, play with it for a bit to loosen it up but she just can't take it, can only take my head and a lil bit, im too big. Last time i agreed it would be the last, do some girls just not like it, is it just that some girls like it and some don't, even if your doing it properly?

It's about as natural for a girl to receive anal sex as it is for a guy. Do you think you would love it and want it all the time? Personally I think it can be quite fun a times to have the misses play around with me. I don't think it would be fun all the time nor do I think I would want a guy pounding away at it. Just kind of take a step back and look at it from her perspective is all I'm saying. It's definitely not for everyone. She may have had a really bad experience as has been mentioned by another poster that turns her off to all attempts at it or left such an unpleasant memory that she is unable to enjoy it due to emotional scaring. If it's not for her enjoy vaginal and oral mix in a handjob or have her squeeze her breasts together while you stroke in and out. There are plenty of things to do together that you all can find something you BOTH enjoy! The worst thing you can do is force an unpleasant experience time after time until the idea of having sex with you is revolting and your cut off altogether!

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[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

No, the women aren't liars. However, I do believe Batwoman has said she does not have anal orgasms

But a sensation doesn't have to lead to orgasm by itself to be pleasurable, does it? Unless I'm super, super horny and haven't come in a while, I can't make it purely from oral stimulation, so when my girlfriend's sucking me I usually get there from a combination of her hand and mouth, sometimes helping a little with my own hand. Doesn't make it any less amazing. And when we're having anal sex, she can get there from a combination of anal and clitoral stimulation.

I can't have an orgasm purely from kissing, but it's still, you know, nice...

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

It's certainly not a prerequisite for enjoying anal.

And for that matter, most women can't orgasm purely from vaginal penetration - does that mean it's not a worthwhile activity from a woman's POV?