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Last edited by someone_like_u; 12-27-2011, 09:52 PM.Be a reflection of what you'd like to see in others.
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Thanks S_L_U! Just out of interest, roughly how often do you and your partner do it this way?Originally posted by someone_like_u View PostIvor, I still consider myself a newb with anal but so far, I've had no issues afterward. I know you're asking about long term issues, but I honestly don't have an answer for ya.
Just sort of giving the thread a bump until BW can give us her insight
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I'd say once, sometimes twice a wk. We just started about two months ago so it's new and exciting.
Ivor, we never do it roughly
. LOL! Sorry, couldn't resist!
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Ha, very good!Originally posted by someone_like_u View PostIvor, we never do it roughly. LOL! Sorry, couldn't resist!
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I'm here! Sorry I'm a bit late, I guess I was busy with my kids when the Batsignal went up!
I've been having anal sex for several years, although not very often. But it is very intense when we do it. He does not hold back at all (which I love) so although I would not say it is rough, it is certainly quite.... athletic, with full penetration. Anyway, I have never had the slightest hint of any problems or long-term negative results from our anal escapades. He always warms me up really well and uses lots of lube. We never do it unless I am really ready, relaxed, and into the moment -- begging for it, basically. It is easy for me to imagine some tearing or other problems if one did anal without the receiving partner being ready since that would involve forcing against tight muscles and tissues. But when it is done right (and she is ready for it each and every time) then there is no reason to think it will harm her.Comment
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Thanks for the reply, Batwoman! Yeah, when we get into it, we often both get quite 'into it', if you see what I mean - sometimes going in nearly all the way and going as fast as we do when I'm in her pussy. But that's only when she's as in the mood for it as I am. Anyway, that's great to know!Comment
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I'd never noticed this before, but, if you look at the white areas of the Batsignal, instead of the black, it's kinda naughty... or my mind is! Batwoman rules!Originally posted by someone_like_u View PostComment
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The other day my girlfriend said that in the event of us moving in together (which may be on the cards at some point), she'd be comfortable doing up to about once a week, which suits me as I want it to retain that taboo feel, which I think it might lose if it ended up becoming something we did every other night.
We've found that the optimal way to do it is for her to lie on her front with a pillow under her hips and to use her small 'bullet' vibrator on her clit as I fuck her from behind while gently probing her arsehole with my finger and some lube. Then when she's ready I enter her that way very slowly, taking several minutes to get about halfway in. By that time she's really into it and I can move slowly in and out. Then once she's come I can gently get her up on all fours and fuck her until I come insider her, which predictably doesn't take very long.
Interestingly she said that when she comes that way, her orgasms seems to start from her g-spot, as it does when she comes while I'm fucking her and she's got no direct clitoral stimulation. Whereas when she's rubbing or vibing her clit while I'm fucking her the normal way, it seems to start mainly from her there. Just goes to show how closely 'wired up' all that anatomy is, I guess.Comment
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Ivor, your last paragragh, that's exactly how it is for me
Are they more intense, as well? They are for me. Whoa, good stuff!
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I'm not sure they're always more intense, but it does seem that they are quite often, perhaps most of the time. I suppose it's just a more intense kind of stimulation all round! But however it works, I'm thrilled that she enjoys it and can have great orgasms that way, and that it's much easier for her since we discovered the magical properties of anal lube (thanks again, BW). I mean, it goes without saying that I enjoy it, but I enjoy it much more knowing she's getting as much out of it as I am - or maybe more, who knows! I'd hate to think she was doing it as a 'favour' to me, but then she's not the kind of girl that does 'favours' anyway.Originally posted by someone_like_u View PostIvor, your last paragragh, that's exactly how it is for me Are they more intense, as well? They are for me. Whoa, good stuff!Last edited by Ivor; 01-05-2012, 02:16 PM.Comment
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Just bumping this thread 'cause I like it.
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Pretty much how my wife and I approach anal. Anal is definitely not for everyone. Similar to PE, it takes commitment and patience along with an open mind. Going into it with anxiety, or fear of it "going to hurt" only makes it more challenging. She prefers to be on her back with a pillow under her lower back. Her legs up toward her head and scooted toward the edge of the bed. After we warm her up (team effort) and that includes giving her an orgasm first, I begin making my entry. Nice and slow, lots of lube. She prefers that I just inch in, hold it there, move in a little more and so on. Rather than going in a little and backing back out. We have found doing that can in fact make it all take much longer and make it more uncomfortable, because the muscles tend to have a chance to relax. It's the proverbial "one step forward, two steps back". When my wife is truly in the mood for anal, it's better than "steak and blowjob day". She has actually had orgasms from anal with no clitoral, or vaginal stimulation.Originally posted by Batwoman View PostComment
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Anal is one of those things I always wanted to try with a woman, but I don't think it will ever happen. I'm constantly amazed by how many actually do try it, and even more-so by those who enjoy it. How does it usually come up? Do you guys ask or is it requested by the lady?Start: BPEL: 7.5" MSEG: 7"
Current: BPEL: 8" MSEG: 7.5"
Goal: BPEL: 9" MSEG: 9"
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Most women I know won't ever do anal with their boyfriend or husband."We live to make the impossible possible that is our focus!"- Lightning
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