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[Jackxxx Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Jackxxx]

Don't be an ass, Jackxxx. He is handling this just right -- in a thoughtful way. Your macho manly comment is just plain mean-spirited. I guess if your plan is to make him question himself and his girl just so you can feel all good and superior, then you did the right thing. But to actually help him? Nope.

Wrong. It is HER fantasy. And a fantasy will ALWAYS stay in the back of her mind. Thinking and advising that drunk is not a good idea and care for her is cute and everything, but she has a dirty side. And the vast majority of girls these days are that way. And I know you won't believe me, but I have been with TONS of girls cheating on their boyfriends because they suck in bed. They love to be choked, hair pulled and anally raped. IS NOT MY STYLE, but if a girl ask for it, I'm all about pleasing them. Call me macho or superior, I only say "thanks" to that. That is the real world. There will be a day for all those girls to settle down once they grow up. While they are young, they wanna enjoy life. If for her enjoying is having anal sex while drunk, let it be. Please her. If you accept her the way she is, make her fantasy come true. The result will be only one: Pleasure for both.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Sorry, saying that "they loved to be choked, hair pulled, and anally raped" tells me all I need to know about you and your attitudes: yuck. "TONS of girls".... right. Oh, I forgot, you're a porn star. Lots of interactions with well-adjusted normal women, have you? Somehow I doubt it.

The question at hand was how to proceed with a girlfriend (and when someone uses that term, presumably they care for the girl) who was interested in but nervous about anal sex. I think all the other answers here are much more helpful than yours, Jackxxx.

[hawkua Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hawkua]

I am afraid Jackxxx there is a bit of truth in his statement the fact that young girls have taken to the bottle is undeniable also young girls in their teens want to break away for the adult's yoke and think of themselves as young dirty sluts they like the term and they dress like them but that doesn't mean they have no jobs and work as prostitutes they do have jobs, money,careers, and are affluent they know they can get away and not afraid to use their looks and sex appeal they just want to live a fantasy that makes them feel good. These days are much more promiscous thanks to the internet and mobile/cell phones many would have at least 20 plus partners in their early 20s and they brag about it to girlfriends.
When I talk to them they don't want to have sex they talk about fucking each other for fun of it not money, use toys and yes they want to be sluts in the privacy of their own bedrooms Quite a generational change from women in their 30 and 40 something.

[Jackxxx Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Jackxxx]

Sorry, saying that "they loved to be choked, hair pulled, and anally raped" tells me all I need to know about you and your attitudes: yuck. "TONS of girls".... right. Oh, I forgot, you're a porn star. Lots of interactions with well-adjusted normal women, have you? Somehow I doubt it.

The question at hand was how to proceed with a girlfriend (and when someone uses that term, presumably they care for the girl) who was interested in but nervous about anal sex. I think all the other answers here are much more helpful than yours, Jackxxx.

Can you read English? I specifically said, is not my style. It is what THEY like and what THEY ask for. Having said that, yes, I have had TONS of sex with normal average girls who do not like that, and I enjoy it because my personal style is not aggressive.
I know you discreetly try to manipulate words to erase your misconception, but I understand the attitude of people who wish to control everything. Unless you have more sex with young women than me, Then your perception and experience of the universe in question is not accurate.

"I think all the other answers here are much more helpful than yours, Jackxxx." <== Wrong again.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Well, have you ever had anal sex on the receiving end, Jackxxx? Until you have, I am not sure you are the best reference for telling us what it is like for a girl.

[insight Member Find all posts View Profile Close insight]

Well, have you ever had anal sex on the receiving end, Jackxxx? Until you have, I am not sure you are the best reference for telling us what it is like for a girl.

It seems no one has answered my previous questions regarding what you just said.

If your girlfriend said she would ONLY have anal sex with you on the conditions she gets to do anal on you (via a sex toy, aka dildo), would you do it?

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

I would say, here's the door, get out.

Edit: Of course I wouldn't, I wouldn't want to have anal sex with a woman that doesn't want anyways. And I do this if you do that games are childish.

[Grendel08 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Grendel08]

Sure, anal sex is even more stimulating for men due to the presence of the prostrate, other than that the nerves present are exactly the same. If it feels good, it feels god, no reason to not do it. I would just expect her to have the sane patience and take the same considerations with me that I would with her...

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I think anal play is good both ways -- many men love to be touched, fondled, caressed, and penetrated there. It is one of the more intimate sex acts where both partners can have a similar experience.... hence worth exploring, if both partners agree. It would seem odd to me for a man to ask to have anal sex with me, yet be unwilling to let me touch him there, or at least play a bit with him. But penetration? Everyone has the right to say "no" to that. And I don't like the hard line tit-for-tat in a girl requiring her lover to do something so she will. That speaks to a lack of understanding and/or trust.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I'll go watch football. Yea that's what I 'm going to do!

[mvergasioin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mvergasioin]

exploring, if both partners agree. It would seem odd to me for a man to ask to have anal sex with me, yet be unwilling to let me touch him there, or at least play a bit with him there

I can't imagine asking for anal and not being available for her Playing with me down there. Why discriminate a
Among who can be touched and who can't. If you want something you should be willing to reciprocate.

[Jackxxx Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Jackxxx]

Well, have you ever had anal sex on the receiving end, Jackxxx? Until you have, I am not sure you are the best reference for telling us what it is like for a girl.

I am sorry to be honest again, but that question is absolutely stupid. May I ask: Have you ever experienced a seminal ejaculation in order to understand premature ejaculation?

The issue here is not about judging by what you like/what you want. That is selfish. My opinions are based on my experience with multiple partners of all ages and that is what I hope, can help people asking these questions. It is not about what conditions I put neither. It is strictly in reference to what women like/want/expect from a man in bed. I have no problem pleasing a woman in anything she ask. In my personal my girl HAS to like anal sex. And double penetration. But I would never try to change anybody into that, or try to convince somebody into try that, or break up for that. Is just a matter of compatibility, and choosing partners is a matter of personal freedom.

So again for the OP, PLEASE HER. Get the drinks and let the anal extravaganza begin. Make it special for her. She will be absolutely happy.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

Final tip: buy some good anal lube, too. It is very much worth it, and will make it much easier for both of you.

Hello, sent you a PM.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

I am sorry to be honest again, but that question is absolutely stupid. May I ask: Have you ever experienced a seminal ejaculation in order to understand premature ejaculation?

It's not as stupid as all that - both women and men have arseholes, after all, and before we start talking about g-spots and prostates, the sensation of having a finger or whatever else stuck 'up there' is bound to be the same for either sex. If a guy gets to learn first-hand just how sensitive his own body is in that area (which could just be from a gentle probing with his partner's finger, rather than penetration with an actual life-sized dildo), it could help him approach his ladyfriend's back door with the necessary degree of care.

Batwoman was simply asking you if you knew what it was like to be penetrated - no-one's saying you have to bend down and take it from a huge strap-on before you've "earned the right" to ask a woman for anal sex.

[Rando Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rando]

OK I'll guess I'll bite and point out that I'm a straight guy that has been strapon fucked by a girl before (never had any intimate contact with a guy). The main reason I was so interested in it is b/c I've been using the Aneros prostate massagers for a couple years with unbelievable results. Being strapon fucked is definitely a different and intense feeling, I think it takes a couple sessions to really get into it, but it is definitely something that I would be very disappointed if a future girlfriend wouldn't be willing to do to me.

It's my belief that every guy would be 100% into anal play (on himself) if they could know for sure word wouldn't get out (and thus the fear of them being called "gay") and if you could somehow let them experience what a true prostate orgasm is all about. Most guys will not try it b/c of the gay "thing" or b/c it feels funny the first couple times, and also it takes a lot of time to "awaken" your prostate, but believe me when I say that if you go in with an open mind and understand that it will take time and patience, the results will be mind blowing.