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[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

OK I'll guess I'll bite and point out that I'm a straight guy that has been strapon fucked by a girl before (never had any intimate contact with a guy). The main reason I was so interested in it is b/c I've been using the Aneros prostate massagers for a couple years with unbelievable results. Being strapon fucked is definitely a different and intense feeling, I think it takes a couple sessions to really get into it, but it is definitely something that I would be very disappointed if a future girlfriend wouldn't be willing to do to me.

It's my belief that every guy would be 100% into anal play (on himself) if they could know for sure word wouldn't get out (and thus the fear of them being called "gay") and if you could somehow let them experience what a true prostate orgasm is all about. Most guys will not try it b/c of the gay "thing" or b/c it feels funny the first couple times, and also it takes a lot of time to "awaken" your prostate, but believe me when I say that if you go in with an open mind and understand that it will take time and patience, the results will be mind blowing.

Wow. I'm up for this by the way, and I suspect if my last gf hadn't turned out to be ... whatever she is ... then I would have got her to. I even mentioned it a while back, but not with enough commitment on my part.

Should I try those Aneros thingas then? cos I've tried with my fingers and had no success, it felt like the only arousal I got was in my head, anticipating the prostate orgasm, which I hear is "all that".

[Rando Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rando]

I've tried with fingers on myself with pretty much no results. The key is you have to be incredibly relaxed, and it's tough to do so while you're all contorted. That's what makes the Aneros so nice, you just put it it in, lay down, and let your PC muscles go to work. You also have to go into a session with no expectations b/c it seems like the more you try to will yourself to a prostate O, the more elusive it becomes. It does take a lot of patience though, occasionally people will get amazing results in their first couple tries, but more often it takes 1-3 months or maybe more. Aneros has a forum that covers pretty everything you'd want to know. Just approach it with the same vigor that you do PE and I promise the results will be crazy.

If I had to compare my best ejaculatory orgasm to my best prostate super orgasm, I'd probably say the latter was approx. 20x more intense. Imagine about 30 minutes of full body intense waves (compared to the more localized 15-20 second traditional O.

Honestly, being ok with prostate play just introduces so many more ridiculously pleasurable ways to have fun with a female partner. I haven't been able to try these yet, but at the top of my list: fucking her while wearing an Aneros (which I hear is great), fucked by her wearing the Feeldoe, a double dildo that vibrates so we can both potentially have crazy orgasms, wearing the Feeldoe myself (in my ass) and using it to penetrate her ass while I also penetrate her with my cock (so we're both being DP'ed essentially) and on and on. I mean every session doesn't have to be about anal play b/c I think a lot of women might not be into that (although I wouldn't mind at all if they were cool with this), but it just gives you so many more options.

Fuck, I need to find a steady girl that's cool with this.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

I don't think I could stay with a girl who wasn't at least open to discussing stuff like this.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

Final tip: buy some good anal lube, too. It is very much worth it, and will make it much easier for both of you.

Bought some the other day and tried it out yesterday. It was amazing, I could fuck her that way pretty much as if I were in her pussy instead, which I've never been able to before. She said it didn't hurt at all, either during or after.

I have to say, when I saw the stuff contained lidocaine I just assumed it would be a topical anaesthetic like cocaine or novocaine, and was a bit worried it would simply numb us both, but it's much cleverer than that - it stops it hurting for her without reducing any of the good sensations for either of us. It's got just the right kind of slickness, too, much better than vaseline, which is what we'd always used before.

Thanks for the tip, Batwoman!

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Glad it worked well for you, Ivor. Your experience sounds just like ours. Anal lube really is wonderful stuff! It's opened up a whole new world for me and my man, that's for sure.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Ya know my wife and I tried anal and it went pretty good a couple of times but not so well a few others. I didnt force it, we just couldnt do it because it was not easy for her.
I showed her some of the posts her in this thread and she andi have decided to actually get some proper lube for the occasion. it may not go well and we may never do it but she is actually willing to try with the anal lube. Thanks BW.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

BigO, the kind I bought was called 'Anal Lube Slick Sensation' and is made by a company called Adam & Eve (oddly enough, I don't remember the bit in Genesis where Adam fucks Eve up the arse, but then I didn't have a religious upbringing...). I don't think it works instantly, so don't just put some on your dick and go charging in - apply some to your wife's bottom, gently rubbing it in with your finger for a minute or so, then apply a little more to yourself and ease yourself inside her.

My GF and I were both pleasantly surprised at how much of a difference it made.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

oddly enough, I don't remember the bit in Genesis where Adam fucks Eve up the arse, but then I didn't have a religious upbringing...

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

A&E Anal Lube is what we use, too. I love that stuff!

One other thing about good anal lube is that beyond how well it works for one-off events (so to speak), it can help with future ones, too. What I mean is this: because of my great lover and as a result of the pleasure and lack of pain I've experienced using A&E anal lube, I believe that my body has now learned that anal sex feels good and isn't scary or painful or something to get all tight about. As a result, I find it very easy to relax my ass and open up to accept him. He has noticed this -- relaxing and preparing me, which used to take a long time when we were first exploring anal sex, now goes quickly. When he first starts to push into me, I used to close tight (not something I could control) and require coaxing and patience to relax. Not anymore -- now, when we're ready, he can plunge all the way in with a couple of strokes. He loves it, and I love it. Very different from our first experiences!

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

thanks for the info Ivor and batwomen, i will be giving it a try

[Yiagos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Yiagos]

For all straight men:
In every way you should ask your girl (must for your woman) if she wants anal sex. It's a not a game or something just for fun

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

A & E ? Isn't that the arts and entertainment network? Wrong entertainment I guess.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Why, do you know a better brand?

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

A&E Anal Lube is what we use, too. I love that stuff!

This made me laugh...in Britain, "A&E" is the Accident and Emergency ward in a hospital, like "ER" in the US...the idea of a special anal lube used in "A&E" is kind of gruesome yet hilarious...

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Why, do you know a better brand?

Try pineapple coated with honey dust!