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[Grendel08 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Grendel08]

^ not if done improperly!!( yuck!)

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Going to buy my lube tonight on the way to hockey. The adult store is on the way andmy women says shell try it again. We had tried before and once or twice it was OK, she has had an orgasm once but I always had to get out right away because she saidit had to come out and that it hurt, she said it felt good while we were doing it but immedialtely after she was not happy.
After I gained in girth she said never again but this thread has helped her to reconsider. I will be gentle caring and slow and i will have the right stuff. Hope it works but if not I know she has put the effort in and if she still doesnt want to after this I can live without it, its more important for her to like it then for me to get it just to say I did.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Perhaps I have my terms incorrect then, by "red wings" I meant doing while she was on her period.........if "red wings" implies giving oral during that time of the month, oh HELL no...........

I got my redwings, on fricken accident and I was not super happy, yuckity yuck yuck

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

if she still doesnt want to after this I can live without it, its more important for her to like it then for me to get it just to say I did.

Good man.

[Closed039 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Closed039]

Is there some protocol that a woman should undergo before engaging in anal sex. A cleaning of the pipes, so to speak. On one hand, you don't want to be stuffed to the brim with shit, but on the other, I imagine it would be less than optimal to have just recently defecated. So how goes it?

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Is there some protocol that a woman should undergo before engaging in anal sex. A cleaning of the pipes, so to speak. On one hand, you don't want to be stuffed to the brim with shit, but on the other, I imagine it would be less than optimal to have just recently defecated. So how goes it?

I would PRESUME you need to thoroughly clean the pipes..........especially if you're going to bang her anally and then she's going to take your dick in her mouth AFTER it's been up her ass..........

[sweetie52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sweetie52]

[QUOTE=MrBigDick;400435]I find it interesting that there is a special lube specifically geared towards anal sex. Had I decided to give it a go, I would've just gotten my normal bottle of lube out but from what I'm reading here, that may not have sufficed. Interesting.[/QUO

I was thinking the same thing. Question- Why would anyone want to use a lube with lidocaine in it-a topical anesthetic ? Isn't sex supposed to be enjoyable? When I have sex, I want to feel everything, being totally engaged. Lidocaine is numbing perhaps? Why would anyone want to be numb before receiving someone? Totally opposite in thinking, yes?

[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

The Mrs.has always refused to take it in her mouth--she would definitely not consider taking it up the arse. I NEVER minded intercourse while she was having her period. The blood just added to the lubrication. Guess you could call me a "bloody horned up bastard."

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Is there some protocol that a woman should undergo before engaging in anal sex. A cleaning of the pipes, so to speak. On one hand, you don't want to be stuffed to the brim with shit, but on the other, I imagine it would be less than optimal to have just recently defecated. So how goes it?

Google 'vinegar colon cleanse'

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

The Mrs.has always refused to take it in her mouth--she would definitely not consider taking it up the arse. I NEVER minded intercourse while she was having her period. The blood just added to the lubrication. Guess you could call me a "bloody horned up bastard."

Wow, you're wife wouldn't ever give you oral g4? My ex gave me oral once and it was half assed at best............in contradiction, my last serious gf couldn't keep my dick out of her mouth.....

I did it twice whilst my then gf was on her period..........I did ok as long as I didn't look down or think about it......otherwise, it was all over if I did......

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[QUOTE=sweetie52;401353]

I find it interesting that there is a special lube specifically geared towards anal sex. Had I decided to give it a go, I would've just gotten my normal bottle of lube out but from what I'm reading here, that may not have sufficed. Interesting.[/QUO

I was thinking the same thing. Question- Why would anyone want to use a lube with lidocaine in it-a topical anesthetic ? Isn't sex supposed to be enjoyable? When I have sex, I want to feel everything, being totally engaged. Lidocaine is numbing perhaps? Why would anyone want to be numb before receiving someone? Totally opposite in thinking, yes?

My understandng is that the lidocaine just helps get past the initial pinch but does not numb. Remember that the lidocaine works on him as well unless he is wearing a condom and a numb cock is not a happy cock.

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[QUOTE=Pirate;401377]

My understandng is that the lidocaine just helps get past the initial pinch but does not numb. Remember that the lidocaine works on him as well unless he is wearing a condom and a numb cock is not a happy cock.

The "initial pinch"??

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Through the first muscle in the anus, tightest part

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Through the first muscle in the anus, tightest part

All the more reason I'll take the pussy......

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Question- Why would anyone want to use a lube with lidocaine in it-a topical anesthetic ? Isn't sex supposed to be enjoyable? When I have sex, I want to feel everything, being totally engaged. Lidocaine is numbing perhaps? Why would anyone want to be numb before receiving someone? Totally opposite in thinking, yes?

I felt exactly the same way when I started exploring anal sex -- I wanted to feel everything, and did not like the idea of using an anal lube for the very reason you mentioned (that it might numb me and detract from the experience). However, I ultimately learned that I was wrong. The amount of lidocaine is small, and it in no way diminishes the overall experience. I am not aware of feeling numb at all when we use it. Because the lidocaine is combined with a deliciously slippery yet just-thick-enough lube, all it does is makes the initial penetration pain free. I don't think it has any major effect on the penis either. We don't use condoms, and my man has never complained about any loss of feeling at all. Indeed, he seems to love all the feelings of anal sex, as do I. And we us anal lube every time now.

I would also note that anal lube lasts a good long time. This is important, since there is no natural lube produced during anal sex (at least not inside). We use a lot of it, and find it lasts as long as we do.