PE Difficult Due To Constant Erections

[Jackson115 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jackson115]

Hi everyone! First post!

I read a lot of the material here, and have actually been doing PE lightly for a little while (maybe two months or so), but I feel I have a somewhat strange situation; I can get maybe 10 or so good jelqs in if I'm lucky before I cross the threshold of "too hard" to jelq safely (at least for a beginner), then I have to basically quit for a minute or so to allow it to recede, then start all over again...Stretching is difficult for the same reason, but even more so because I read you should stretch at as low an erection level as possible. This might be due to nofap which I think really increased my sex drive, which I am loving, but it makes PE difficult.

Is it ok to keep jelqing on and off like this throughout the day? I try to use a medium strength grip, and try for around 3-4 second per jelq.

Thanks!

[Leroyjenkins Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Leroyjenkins]

Do not jelq at 100% erection, not even 90% for that matter. My advise, ejaculate before. That's what I do, sometimes it can get too soft but I rather deal with it than a boner every 3 jelqs.

[Jackson115 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jackson115]

Do not jelq at 100% erection, not even 90% for that matter. My advise, ejaculate before. That's what I do, sometimes it can get too soft but I rather deal with it than a boner every 3 jelqs.

Yeah I stop before it reaches that point, I much prefer jelqing at around 50% or so.

But I do not want to ejaculate, being on nofap makes me feel great, even if it makes PE difficult. It just means I have to jelq/stretch for longer times throughout the day due to all the down time.

[Leroyjenkins Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Leroyjenkins]

No fap or no ejaculate?

[Sequoia Tree Senior Member Member of the Month July 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Sequoia Tree]

Don't worry, you'll get better at maintaining proper (lack of) erection levels as you become more experienced and comfortable with PE, and your brain learns to separate exercising your dick from masturbation/sex. Keeping your mind occupied with non-sexual thoughts helps keep your dick soft for stretches.

[Jackson115 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jackson115]

No fap or no ejaculate?

Both really

Don't worry, you'll get better at maintaining proper (lack of) erection levels as you become more experienced and comfortable with PE, and your brain learns to separate exercising your dick from masturbation/sex. Keeping your mind occupied with non-sexual thoughts helps keep your dick soft for stretches.

Ok, sounds good thanks