Hi All,
I recently found y'all by reading up on Jelqing. As a backstory on me, I've never had trouble with getting women or pleasing them, but mostly because I trained my foreplay skills and ability to listen to what works for them. I'm a NBPEL 6" x MEG 4.8" so pretty normal if not a little thin on the width. I recently got compared by an ex-fling--who I hooked up with recently--to her ex. She revealed to me that her ex had a big one. I brushed it off and told her that that's cool, as I've had my whole life to become okay with my regular size cock, and that was that.
And the above is true. In HS I had insecurities as any young man does, not even knowing what is normal, but as I traveled the world and met lots of women, I stopped caring. I found a confidence all to my own with what I was given and to become okay with it.
Until now. The comment really hit me a certain way, activating old, weird patterns in me and making me look back at my previous interactions with women. So in my moment of weakness, I looked up jelqing because I had heard of it before. Then I found PEGym. I started reading your guys' stories. I saw the camaraderie and support and I really fucking rock with that. I want to support and inspire others too with my own gains.
I don't think that a larger cock means that I will be more complete or happy, or that I will change anything about myself that attracted women to me in the first place. We can do plenty already with normal sized cocks, and before we even get to the bedroom, we need to work on ourselves to be decent gents as is. However, with what I've gained in skill, perspective, and experience as a regular sized guy, I know I can amplify my performance and presence and power with a larger cock. Plus, once I meet that special someone as well, I can give her her deserved fill and truly worship that rare pussy.
Going to log my first weeks progress into the progress forum. Much love to all of you!
I recently found y'all by reading up on Jelqing. As a backstory on me, I've never had trouble with getting women or pleasing them, but mostly because I trained my foreplay skills and ability to listen to what works for them. I'm a NBPEL 6" x MEG 4.8" so pretty normal if not a little thin on the width. I recently got compared by an ex-fling--who I hooked up with recently--to her ex. She revealed to me that her ex had a big one. I brushed it off and told her that that's cool, as I've had my whole life to become okay with my regular size cock, and that was that.
And the above is true. In HS I had insecurities as any young man does, not even knowing what is normal, but as I traveled the world and met lots of women, I stopped caring. I found a confidence all to my own with what I was given and to become okay with it.
Until now. The comment really hit me a certain way, activating old, weird patterns in me and making me look back at my previous interactions with women. So in my moment of weakness, I looked up jelqing because I had heard of it before. Then I found PEGym. I started reading your guys' stories. I saw the camaraderie and support and I really fucking rock with that. I want to support and inspire others too with my own gains.
I don't think that a larger cock means that I will be more complete or happy, or that I will change anything about myself that attracted women to me in the first place. We can do plenty already with normal sized cocks, and before we even get to the bedroom, we need to work on ourselves to be decent gents as is. However, with what I've gained in skill, perspective, and experience as a regular sized guy, I know I can amplify my performance and presence and power with a larger cock. Plus, once I meet that special someone as well, I can give her her deserved fill and truly worship that rare pussy.
Going to log my first weeks progress into the progress forum. Much love to all of you!
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