Fighting depression about my size

[Newuser12 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Newuser12]

Im really depressed noq because im small at 4.90 inches erect and im tired of being small
This is hurting all aspects of life

I just want to be normal size at like 5.75 inches or 6

Im jelqing 30 minutes a day its been a week and i see no progress

I have a little hang but then it goes back to my small flaccid of 1 inch or 0.59 cent

I cant buy an ads because i live with parents so all i can do is jelq


Im really putting in time to jelq but i see no gains

Why is life so hard? Ive gotten laid before and had a gf

But now im single and insecure about my size this just really bugs me

I dont know if im jelqing right as i jelq 15 strokes take a small break and jerk off till im 80 percent hard and do 15 more strokes


I cant 200 strokes straight because my hand gets tires at 15

Idk if this is gonna get me size what to i do

I feel so down

Help

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

I'm going to break some tough news to you. If all you're doing is a few jelqs and you're complaining already you might as well stop. If you are sad because you haven't seen any results after 1 week, one week!, you might as well stop. Now if you're just saying this to get it out of your system and you are planning to put forth the effort and time it takes to get larger, we hear you loud and clear and are here to encourage you to keep on tugging and get the results that you want.

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

I completely get the desire to get a bigger cock. but, depending on what study you look at and what country you live in you could be around 94% of average - pretty close to normal. If you want to get longer faster, you're probably going to need to do more than jelqs. And BTW, one week is nothing. Measure yourself at two week intervals and hope for measurable changes after 4-6 weeks. Play the "long" game and be patient.

Can you get a PO box (they're cheap if you're in the US) or have a PE device sent to a friends place. A close friend's reaction is more than likely to be interest if it works than judgement that you're doing PE.

Chin up dude. You came to the right place.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

Devices are great and super helpful but it's entirely possible to get the results you want without needing one. Just stick to a solid routine and give it at least a couple months before you cry foul.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Hey #12. Welcome. Relax. Deep breath. Take it slow. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. You are young and have plenty of time to get safely where you want. I started around your size. I’m one of the smaller guys here, before and after my gains. It’s ok. I’m fine. You need to adjust your feelings about your cock. It isn’t any one’s fault that we weren’t blessed Genetics suck some times. In other words, stop blaming your self. Check out my before and after pics. About 5 years in the making. Deep breath.

[Bisquick61 Senior Member Member of the Month May 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Bisquick61]

I would recommend finding a routine like the JP90. It’s much more structured. If you don’t a case of serious arthritis, then you should be able to Jelq no problem. One week isn’t enough to see results. As it was summarized above, it’s a journey. Nothing new growth happens over night. Your unit shouldn’t be any different

[anderkl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close anderkl]

Why are you not doing manual stretches along with jelqing? What does you living with your parents have to do with being able to use an extender?

[Newuser12 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Newuser12]

Hey #12. Welcome. Relax. Deep breath. Take it slow. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. You are young and have plenty of time to get safely where you want. I started around your size. I’m one of the smaller guys here, before and after my gains. It’s ok. I’m fine. You need to adjust your feelings about your cock. It isn’t any one’s fault that we weren’t blessed Genetics suck some times. In other words, stop blaming your self. Check out my before and after pics. About 5 years in the making. Deep breath.

Well im not that young im 30 and want intimacy without feelung insecure

What were your before and after size gains

Im just doing jrlqing hoping ill gain at least half an inch in size and i will be happy

[Newuser12 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Newuser12]

Why are you not doing manual stretches along with jelqing? What does you living with your parents have to do with being able to use an extender?

Do you have a routine?

I cant buy one because of privacy issues, i dont own the mail or mailbox


Btw im 30 years old, yea i know a loser

[poqw Member Find all posts View Profile Close poqw]

I feel you man, can't get out even to the store because people laughing at your small bulge, anxiety and pushing away people , nervousness, desperation... i am there and it gets worse every summer - cuz you know every body is checking you out, its summer and everyone is having fun and sex and going to bars and clubs because they are not underdeveloped FREAKS with WORST luck ever. Now imagine to be 6ft3 well build with your same size..... it makes it worse... My birthday is coming and i hate it because i have never lived ... always in anxiety if someone is looking at me and laughing.... I go through that every day i know how are you at the moment.

I have been in PE for the 3th time every time 5months now and all i get is ligs stretch 1 inch lower exit point ... not real shaft growth ... now i can fake it to just to be small not pathetic and now i have some situation with the nerve in the penis , actually for the last 5 moths - gaining and losing. i can't figure out what the right method is and i am at least 6-7 hours a day reading in the forums.

I truly hope me and you will be lucky and figure out how to become upper end average/ big ... not huge.

[Bisquick61 Senior Member Member of the Month May 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Bisquick61]

Do you have a routine?

I cant buy one because of privacy issues, i dont own the mail or mailbox


Btw im 30 years old, yea i know a loser

You’re not a loser. A defeatist mentality is only going to harm you on this journey.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Well im not that young im 30 and want intimacy without feelung insecure

What were your before and after size gains

Im just doing jrlqing hoping ill gain at least half an inch in size and i will be happy

30? Not young LOL. I didn’t start PE till I was 52. I should be so young again.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

I feel you man, can't get out even to the store because people laughing at your small bulge, anxiety and pushing away people , nervousness, desperation... i am there and it gets worse every summer - cuz you know every body is checking you out, its summer and everyone is having fun and sex and going to bars and clubs because they are not underdeveloped FREAKS with WORST luck ever. Now imagine to be 6ft3 well build with your same size..... it makes it worse... My birthday is coming and i hate it because i have never lived ... always in anxiety if someone is looking at me and laughing.... I go through that every day i know how are you at the moment.

I have been in PE for the 3th time every time 5months now and all i get is ligs stretch 1 inch lower exit point ... not real shaft growth ... now i can fake it to just to be small not pathetic and now i have some situation with the nerve in the penis , actually for the last 5 moths - gaining and losing. i can't figure out what the right method is and i am at least 6-7 hours a day reading in the forums.

I truly hope me and you will be lucky and figure out how to become upper end average/ big ... not huge.

Wow. Really? Do you think people walk around all day checking out bulges? Gals and guys alike? Dude relax. The only guy/gal checking out my bulge is me. And I’d expect you are the only one checking out yours no matter how big you get.
‘Here’s an idea. But a big sausage in your pants and see if anyone notices. Let me know.

[Newuser12 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Newuser12]

30? Not young LOL. I didn’t start PE till I was 52. I should be so young again.

You never answered your size gains

I just want half an inch more

[anderkl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close anderkl]

Look up jp90. Do it for a few months then get an extender. Just check the mail before they do. And who cares if they see it. Fuck what they think man. Only a selfish and immature person would be condescending to a person who is insecure. And tell them just that if they ask why you bought. Also don't feel bad about being 30 and at home. Most you get people are because of the crap job market and inflation.