Issues reaching orgasm

[bambamm89 Member Find all posts View Profile Close bambamm89]

I've read a few different articles about Start-Stop routines for helping with premature ejaculation, but what about people who simply have a hard time getting to ejaculating? I've been watching porn for a long time and it has negatively effected my erection quality. I often times find myself having a hard time keeping my erection throughout sex or masturbation and can sometimes go over 40 minutes before I even feel close to reaching some sort of climax. While I am cutting back on the porn, what can I do about improving my erection quality and stamina, without making it take even longer for me to ejaculate. For quite some time now, my orgasms have felt extremely weak, almost lighter than simply clearing my throat. Sometimes I get a really light twitch in the pelvic region, but I don't ejaculate at all.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

So is this about eq or about about DE.

[bambamm89 Member Find all posts View Profile Close bambamm89]

So is this about eq or about about DE.

It's about both. A lack of EQ could be causing the lack or orgasm, or just the excessive amount of time that it takes to orgasm. It's not delayed ejaculation, I'm literally not releasing anything at all sometimes. Even hours later, I'm still dry.

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Delayed ejaculation is a name given to difficulty with orgasm , often you will have sessions where you don;t orgasm .

I would quit porn .\

So 2 things typically come up with this overfirm grip and anxiety . Porn can be implicated .

In your case a hormone test is warranted post the numbers here .

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I'm sure porn is probably the main cause, but also I've asked about my testosterone levels before when getting blood work done. I was simply told that it was on the low side. I've never seen a specialist, and honestly not sure where I would go to speak with someone specifically about sexual health issues. My primary doctor isn't really helpful in this department. I've tried reaching out to a urologist before, but was told situations like this aren't really their department. And when I called a fertility clinic, they seemed more interested in talking to people that were trying to reproduce. Not just people that have a hard time orgasming.....

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I suffer with ED (diabetic) and need to use a VED and A tight tension band in order to Generate and maintain an erection. The diabetes causes peripheral neuropathy and the tension band results in reduced sensitivity. As a result, I find it difficult to orgasm. My wife is extremely understanding so when I rub my dick against the outside of her vagina, she rubs her fingers along the bottom of my shaft which after five or six minutes brings me to orgasm. Works for me, could work for you.

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Ok so you should get the actual numbers . But we can assume they are low and that you would benifit by increasing by natural means .

Would you like info on natural increase ?

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I suffer with ED (diabetic) and need to use a VED and A tight tension band in order to Generate and maintain an erection. The diabetes causes peripheral neuropathy and the tension band results in reduced sensitivity. As a result, I find it difficult to orgasm. My wife is extremely understanding so when I rub my dick against the outside of her vagina, she rubs her fingers along the bottom of my shaft which after five or six minutes brings me to orgasm. Works for me, could work for you.

Is this something that you have to do everytime? My erection quality comes and goes. Some days I can get and keep a full erection without any issue. On other days, half of my time is spent trying to achieve a solid erection.
I guess my real question is, is ED intermittent, or is it more, once you've got it, you've got it?

Ok so you should get the actual numbers . But we can assume they are low and that you would benifit by increasing by natural means .

Would you like info on natural increase ?

Absolutely. I'm needing to lose weight as well, so I'm trying to be more active and make healthier lifestyle choices to improve overall quality of life.

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Ok so just posted relevant threads to this members query .

https://www.pegym.com/forums/erectil...ssible-ed.html