Moaning by your girl????

[UYN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close UYN]

About 4 days i only just started!!! Hahaha. ..... And Batwoman..... I cannot begin to tell you how much I appreciate your answer because I have the exact situation where me and the girl Im seeing both feel we arent enjoying each other when we meet up... (which isnt so often cuz of a difficult situation)... She seems to not be into me when we meet. I am puzzled at times that she seems to make an excuse just as we are about to get down to it! Then we make love about 2-4 times and only THEN does she seem to get into it, by which time I'm spent and tired out! Haha. And yes i DO spend time on foreplay before u ask! Lol. But only then she says she is horny for it, and I feel im not any good then. But she swears blind im her best and biggest (which im not sure about) and that mine feels better than anyone elses ever! Ive been paranoid about what u discussed Batwoman so thank u for helping me out!

IKzX.... Whqt does this girl look like?? A pic??? Hahaha.

Did you asked her if you were her best and biggest, or did she willingly tell you?

-UYN-

[jonfree5555 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jonfree5555]

Actually, weird things were said which she admits she doesnt know why the hell she said them in drink and anger! The situation means we are unable to be together properly, which makes us both paranoid and insecure and when we do meet there is pressure to pleasure each other or make the most of our time together! Obviously since things were said ive questioned it but she has reassured me that in fact Im her best, and things said were heat of moment arguments. That I'm her best is of course partly due to the feelings she has for me, she says she has never felt such a thing for anyone before and because of the overall situation I believe that! Biggest though? Im slightly above average maybe, but I dont think she honestly cares even! Lol.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

A word about moaning -- a lot of guys here seem to think that if a woman doesn't moan, she isn't *really* liking the sex somehow. I think this is a misconception that guys get from porn, where the girls always seem do fake moaning the whole time (yuck). Yes, some ladies do moan in the throws of passion. But guess what? Not all of us do!

I have never been a moaner. I might make noise sometimes or whisper to my lover about how much I like what he's doing, but I think that when I am having the BEST orgasms I sometimes make the LEAST noise! Really! Maybe it's because I get so into the feelings that wipes everything else away, I'm not sure.... but anyway, that's the truth.

So please, don't think that your lady has to moan or you're not satisfying her somehow. Or that if she moans more, that means that she is experiencing more pleasure. It just isn't always that way.

And don't say things like "Didn't you like that, honey? You didn't moan very much!" because then she's going to think she has to fake moan all the time for you to make you happy. That sort of pressure can really detract from a sexual experience!

Once again i completely agree with Batwoman

[iKzX Member Find all posts View Profile Close iKzX]

About 4 days i only just started!!! Hahaha. ..... And Batwoman..... I cannot begin to tell you how much I appreciate your answer because I have the exact situation where me and the girl Im seeing both feel we arent enjoying each other when we meet up... (which isnt so often cuz of a difficult situation)... She seems to not be into me when we meet. I am puzzled at times that she seems to make an excuse just as we are about to get down to it! Then we make love about 2-4 times and only THEN does she seem to get into it, by which time I'm spent and tired out! Haha. And yes i DO spend time on foreplay before u ask! Lol. But only then she says she is horny for it, and I feel im not any good then. But she swears blind im her best and biggest (which im not sure about) and that mine feels better than anyone elses ever! Ive been paranoid about what u discussed Batwoman so thank u for helping me out!

IKzX.... Whqt does this girl look like?? A pic??? Hahaha.

LOL i cant just put a pic of her up man, that would be fucked up, but shes about 5'4, blonde as anyone could be, eautiful, average boobs and THE BIGGEST and best amazing booty you will ever see

[jonfree5555 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jonfree5555]

IKzX..... I was kiddong aboit the pic, pulling ur leg mate!! Well it sounds like she likes ur member now anyway! Nice one ! Lol