Edging 101

[solidlength Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close solidlength]

So how many edging sessions per week?

I did last month edging for 30 minutes 4 times per week with a strong death grip.
I had sex yesterday, and I had a problem getting an erection at first, it was rly great that I lasted longer than I ever thought but I felt it kinda numb tbh. But.. my penis got very easily very hard again very fast after we had sex for the 1st time, so the refractory period seems like is shorter than before?

I will probably not use the death grip anymore, but it seems promising, even if just for 1-2 sessions per week max.

And the OP doesn't say if when we reach the PONR we hold a strong kegel or not? I believe we do?

I'm going to answer with the dreaded "it depends" and give you my personal experience.

I tend to find that if I go a week without ejaculating my brain tends to only focus on sex (e.g. annoying my wife). If I add edging on top of this I have actually ended up causing myself internal pain. Moral of the story, don't withhold and edge for too many consecutive days.

When I can regularly ejaculate due to sex or otherwise I will typically edge for 20-30 mins a day if I can find the time. If I can't guarantee that I won't even attempt to edge.

I have also experienced the 'initial erection problem' and have begun intercourse with a 70% erection at times but find that it quickly subsides when I get into it. I have largely attributed this to my PE routine as I've only experienced it on training days. Also, like you, I have found that when I haven't ejaculated in several days and have been regularly edging, I have a short refractory period after my first orgasm.

Personally, I have never had much success in trying to hit the PONR and kegeling through it, I haven't been practicing long but all I've found is that this just causes me to feel the wave of orgasm for several seconds before feeling a 'low-enjoyment' release. Maybe I need to practice more. When I edge I don't try to get 'close' to the PONR, I usually stop when I know the PONR will be withing a few more strokes.

Also, your term of 'death grip' makes me worried about how hard you're gripping your shaft. I grip firmly for Uli's but wouldn't call it a death grip.

[chinarider73 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close chinarider73]

Damn I just read this entire thing over the course of a week. It could have been 50 less pages if people just read the beginning and omitted asking the same questions over and over again. I admire people like pegasus ability to answer the same questions over and over again.

I have a question. What is edging? Haha Jk...great info in this thread. I have been edging for a little over a week and can already see a pretty big difference in EQ happening. Also doing so without porn and working to reconnect mentally to my dick.

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Tell me if I'm over thinking things..

I edged today using a light grip, slow strokes and stroked the glans while avoiding the frenulim. I lasted 15 minutes before getting the first PONR, then another 10 before the second for 2 PONRs over the course of 30 minutes. Reading through the thread it seems like 4-5 PONR per 30 mins is the standard. Is the point of edging to see how long you can last before the PONR or training yourself to stop ejaculation with a strong kegel and multiple PONRs? I'm thinking it's the second and I need to quicken the pace. Is this logical.. how do you pro's edge?

in this paper you can read about male animal bulls , which can perform 36 ejaculations per hour . ( page 5 = 753 ) .
https://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdo...=rep1&type=pdf
the body of a human male can be forced and frustrated by 18 totally unsatisfying partial ejaculations without any real orgasm in 1 hour , when edging balloning is practiced and the male body is experienced by iron will and much practice .

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Damn I just read this entire thing over the course of a week. It could have been 50 less pages if people just read the beginning and omitted asking the same questions over and over again. I admire people like pegasus ability to answer the same questions over and over again.

I have a question. What is edging? Haha Jk...great info in this thread. I have been edging for a little over a week and can already see a pretty big difference in EQ happening. Also doing so without porn and working to reconnect mentally to my dick.

Basically a form of masturbation where ejaculation is not the goal so it is a large area of study.

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in this paper you can read about male animal bulls , which can perform 36 ejaculations per hour . ( page 5 = 753 ) .
https://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdo...=rep1&type=pdf
the body of a human male can be forced and frustrated by 18 totally unsatisfying partial ejaculations without any real orgasm in 1 hour , when edging balloning is practiced and the male body is experienced by iron will and much practice .

Umm why the hell would you do that ? A better result is 18 plus satisfying dry orgasms followed by a super satisfying wet orgasm. Just a note here I could through a couple of partial orgasms in there but umm why?

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How to:

1: Get an erection. Your goign to be at it a while so privacy and no destractions are the best conditions to start an edging routine.

2: If you are a two second man ejacualate first, wait for the return then proceed to edge. (masturbate)

3: Use a good lube, KY jelly is is to drying use a good hand lotion.

4: Stroke the base of your erect penis slowly move up toward the frenulim. The frenulim is the trigger this is what makes you cum to soon, avoid the frenulim unless you feel it is time to cum. Remember edging teaches you to be in control not your biological sensations.

5: If you feel the urge start to move back down to the base again. Keep the strokes slow at first don't stroke fast until you have mastered edging.

6: When you feel like you are about to cum(PONR) stop edging until the sensation leaves then resume edging (Masturbating)
PONR means point of no return. At this time you can play with your nuts. Explore for the "G" spots you did not realize you had in this area untill the sensation to ejaculate subsides.

You will learn when your shaft is loading up with cum to ejaculate. When you feel it in the base you can stop jerking off at this point instead of waiting for it to travle higher up the shaft.

After a few months of doing this those stopages will become dry orgasms. (ejaculating without cumming) This is a very spiritual expierence.

Adendum added 7/7/10

Now, eventually once you have mastered base stroking and you can last 20 minutes your edging session should now include the entire shaft of the penis. Stimulate the entire thing from base to tip and back again. When you can delay ejacualtion from stimulating the entire shaft for 20 minutes then you would likely start lasting longer during vaginal sex.

very good description of edging with totally unsatisfying partial ejaculations .