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  • For edging and jelqing.. not hardcore porn!

    I used HC porn for a long time to masturbate with before I started PE. To the point where I was getting ED. I certainly didn't want to continue to use HC porn, but it was tough to keep a 50% erection for jelqing, and I needed something for edging.

    I think I found a happy medium!

    It's enough visual stimulation, as the girls are mostly very hot, some do get nude, some even use toys and such in public. It has helped me to learn to use my imagination, and any hint of ED is all but non-existent.

    It's a free webcam site.. and not work safe I'm sure, but here is the link:

    Free cam site

    Feel free to browse it anonymously, or you can sign up to interact with the girls. I did, and most of them are very friendly.

    I use this site when I am jelqing and edging, and it's improved and almost eliminated porn induced ED. I get excited looking at naked women, not just naked women fucking!
    Starting: 4/1/10 - bpel 6.00 x 5.00 meg
    Current: 4/1/12 - bpel 7.30 x 5.20 meg, bpfsl 8.10
    Final Goal - bpel 7.75 x 5.75 meg
    If you just read this, do 10 quick kegels

  • #2
    Thanks for the site Stretch I'm sure many will find it useful

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Pry View Post
      Thanks for the site Stretch I'm sure many will find it useful
      Thanks Pry! It has helped me find women in general beautiful again. I find myself looking at other women on the street and getting turned on. And I'm not imagining them bent over getting reamed doggie style!
      Starting: 4/1/10 - bpel 6.00 x 5.00 meg
      Current: 4/1/12 - bpel 7.30 x 5.20 meg, bpfsl 8.10
      Final Goal - bpel 7.75 x 5.75 meg
      If you just read this, do 10 quick kegels

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      • #4
        In all brutal honesty, I love the twisted hentai and porn flash animations. I relish them!
        Not sure it's much of an addiction though if anything it feels "psychological healthy". I can explore my inner deviant in a victimless manor. It does not make my feel self-conscious or feel guilt for watching it. I still find women in real life just attractive as I always have and have realistic expectations. The stranger stuff I'm into makes edging such a challenge it's twice as fun for me.
        It's pretty good for erect kegels
        Last edited by Shyguy; 12-30-2010, 11:44 PM. Reason: incomplete

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        • #5
          this is god sent.. are there anymore similar sites? wanna map out my options as I might commit some real cash for fun lol.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by sEctor-D View Post
            this is god sent.. are there anymore similar sites? wanna map out my options as I might commit some real cash for fun lol.
            I found some similar ones when I was looking around.

            cam4free was probably the next best, livejasmin was ok.. there is a LOT less nudity in those 2, and I think they are clunkier overall..

            I put the one above in my sig,and it is hands down the best. Secretfriends used to be aalmost as good but they changed their rules, and ended up shutting down.
            Starting: 4/1/10 - bpel 6.00 x 5.00 meg
            Current: 4/1/12 - bpel 7.30 x 5.20 meg, bpfsl 8.10
            Final Goal - bpel 7.75 x 5.75 meg
            If you just read this, do 10 quick kegels

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            • #7
              Well if you can appreciate the entire woman i guess its a step towards normal sex....whatever that is.


              For I will restore health unto thee and I will heal thee of thine wounds, saith the Lord Jeremiah 30:17

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              • #8
                I know in my situation KP, I was no longer spoon fed visual sex and had to use my mind a lot more for my arousal. Over time something as simple as a thought could turn me on. This led me to focus more on other things about the girl in front of me, things I began to notice in other women again. Maybe the way they smile or laugh, maybe they don't have a pornstar body, just a normal free spirited girl with normal features. I now find less than perfect a hell of a lot more sexy that perfect.
                Starting: 4/1/10 - bpel 6.00 x 5.00 meg
                Current: 4/1/12 - bpel 7.30 x 5.20 meg, bpfsl 8.10
                Final Goal - bpel 7.75 x 5.75 meg
                If you just read this, do 10 quick kegels

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Stretch Armstrong View Post
                  I know in my situation KP, I was no longer spoon fed visual sex and had to use my mind a lot more for my arousal. Over time something as simple as a thought could turn me on. This led me to focus more on other things about the girl in front of me, things I began to notice in other women again. Maybe the way they smile or laugh, maybe they don't have a pornstar body, just a normal free spirited girl with normal features. I now find less than perfect a hell of a lot more sexy that perfect.
                  Sounds like your headed in the right direction.


                  For I will restore health unto thee and I will heal thee of thine wounds, saith the Lord Jeremiah 30:17

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                  • #10
                    Stretch, I understand your reasoning for providing this information and I believe that porn addiction is both very real and very destructive. However, I am concerned that these sites can lead someone into that addiction as well as out of it.
                    Pirate Diplomacy:
                    The art of telling someone to go to hell and having them look forward to the trip.

                    Remember: If done right, there is no such thing as safe sex.

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                    • #11
                      yes, I have read than men addicted to porn can suffer ED problems because the brain gets desensitized to regular stimuli with women. I guess it is well known : Computer + Internet Porn = Erectile Dysfunction

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Pirate View Post
                        Stretch, I understand your reasoning for providing this information and I believe that porn addiction is both very real and very destructive. However, I am concerned that these sites can lead someone into that addiction as well as out of it.
                        I would love to talk more about it in PM's. I know this is kind of grey area, but for someone who wants to get over their ED, they can either go cold turkey or find their own way to something to transition out of it. Without seeing this post, I am unable to help them, or at least, give them the option that worked for me. My wife is very thankful I found this

                        Maybe get some input from some of the people with porn induced ED, and ask them if they think this could help?
                        Starting: 4/1/10 - bpel 6.00 x 5.00 meg
                        Current: 4/1/12 - bpel 7.30 x 5.20 meg, bpfsl 8.10
                        Final Goal - bpel 7.75 x 5.75 meg
                        If you just read this, do 10 quick kegels

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                        • #13
                          http :/www.myfreecams.com/?baf=3835899

                          ?baf=3835899??
                          AP90 member.

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                          • #14
                            Thanks for sharing this Stretch, much obliged! I agree with all your points, especially finding girls on the street attractive again. If we keep seeing this picture of the 'perfect' woman in porn it paints a mental picture in our heads that now becomes the standard and anything less is not enough. But we all know that anyway thats why we're talking about this!

                            Funny thing is I think I've noticed myself recently becoming addicted to porn, I was looking for it for no reason the other day! Havent done that for over 20 years now!! But then again I've only been looking at porn again for the edging 'assistance' etc and the fact I'm currently single-I never needed it when I've been in aall the while I've been in relationships. I certainly dont need it for jelqing though, I have enough problem keeping the erection DOWN!!

                            Thanks again, very good site, just had a quick peek and its a real goldmine..
                            Start: 26/06/10
                            BPEL = 6.5"
                            MEG = 5.75"
                            Current (24/10/10)
                            BPEL = 6.75"
                            MEG = 6"
                            Short term goal 8 x 6 :D
                            Ultimate goal 9 x 7 :eek:

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                            • #15
                              Sometimes I view the borderline attractive ones, or even the less than attractive ones, just to further enhance my appreciation of normal beauty.
                              Starting: 4/1/10 - bpel 6.00 x 5.00 meg
                              Current: 4/1/12 - bpel 7.30 x 5.20 meg, bpfsl 8.10
                              Final Goal - bpel 7.75 x 5.75 meg
                              If you just read this, do 10 quick kegels

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