4" in girth, will I ever please a woman

[yao Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close yao]

Hi guys

my size is 5.2" EL and 4" in girth.

I am 26, I had my first sex 2 months ago with a girl.
when I had sex with this girl, I could not feel anything when I was inside her. I kept loosing my erection due to the fact I was not feeling anything.
I dont think I have problem with erections, because I want everyday rock hard.
We decided to have sex again couple of weeks later, the same problem happened, I could not feel anything and could not come.
Now couple of months has passed, and she do not want to have sex with me anymore, I feel like my world has gone down.

I am afraid I will never satisfy a woman because of my small girth.
Is there anyone out there with 4 " in girth with normal sexlife with their girlfriends/wives?
if so, how is your sexlife, what techniques/positions works best for you?
which condoms do you use? i have problem with condoms slipping off all the time.

one last question
if I find a girl who is virgin, will her vagina still feel tight after months/years of sex with only me?

please help me with my questions
sorry for my poor english.

[HitraN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HitraN]

So here is my opinion ---> grab your penis and start PE-ing! I think u have a better chance to increase your girth with 1 inc than finding a 26 year-old virgin. Don't worry, don't loose your mind from that experience because if u go deep and let it feel u up it will cause some psychological problems with erection. The gym here is a proof that penis can grow and "Yes, you can" change your girth with some dedication and passion! Good Luck!

[RockstarParkingDude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RockstarParkingDude]

i was 4.5 when i started and never had problems pleasing anyone. don't worry so much about size, learn how to make the movements right and it'll feel better. also, if you get her off before you penetrate (oral is easiest) she be tight as a tiger no matter how may dudes shes been with.

its a misconception that virgins are always tighter. a girl with strong muscles is tight. period. i slept with a girl on the track team in college - mid distance runner - and she was very promiscuous with the black guys on the football team. she was one of the tightest i've ever had.

[ktc0905 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ktc0905]

just want to add a pm i sent him after he contacted me about this so others' can see...

yes i have read that here and lots of guys are smaller than you.
there could be many reasons why she does not want to have sex with you. Things like that happen to people all the time. maybe she was uncomfortable or something, unless she was a size queen i doubt she was thinking about your size.
if you couldn't stay erect it's no wonder you weren't feeling much friction. you were probably just nervous...that could also be the reason she doesn't want to sleep with you now, because she sensed you were nervous and couldn't get it up..knowing women, she probably thought it was her fault

[yao Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close yao]

thanks guys for your comments

Is there someone out there with 4 " in girht and with a normal sexlife?

there is big difference between 4 and 4.5 in girth.

[Mr McPenis Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mr McPenis]

yao, my friend, you are very capable of satisfying a woman without a penis at all.
A lot of woman get off more by oral sex. I would suggest you get a good technique, and the women will be coming back for more.
It's not unrealistic for you to be in the average range girth if you work hard work at it.
Main thing is not to worry about it, because you will ALWAYS have the ability to satisfy her, and there is no reason why you can't get your girth up to as much as 5"...and perhaps more
You'll be fine, stop worrying about it.

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

If you were a 26 year old virgin then it is safe to assume you masturbate regularly. The sensitivity of your penis has been reduced and it wouldnt matter how big your dick was you still would have problems feeling sensation. No pussy on earth can compare to the muscles in your hand. The good news is your not gonna have to worry about premature ejaculation. The bad news is you gotta stop masturbating so much.

[yao Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close yao]

If you were a 26 year old virgin then it is safe to assume you masturbate regularly. The sensitivity of your penis has been reduced and it wouldnt matter how big your dick was you still would have problems feeling sensation. No pussy on earth can compare to the muscles in your hand. The good news is your not gonna have to worry about premature ejaculation. The bad news is you gotta stop masturbating so much.

Hi phil

I think you are on to something

I have been masturbating at least once a day since I was 15.
when I masturbate, I do grasp my penis firmly. Do you think this has to do with it?
How do you know about the relation between masturbation and sensitivity during penetration.
I know plenty of guys who masturbate frequently and dont have problem with sensitivity, how do you explain that?

how often should I masturbate from now on?
thanks for the response

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

The closest I can some to explaining those guys is speculating that they take a day or two off every now and then. As for me I was a virgin pretty late as well and had the exact same problem. I try not to masturbate anymore then once every three days. You will also find the buildup really helps when talking/interacting with women. Much easier to articulate your thoughts and you just seem more confident.

[JCabral Member Find all posts View Profile Close JCabral]

I would just stick to the basics with stretches and jelqing at 75 % erection level. I feel blessed with average girth. I wouldn't worry about it and focus on penis excercises more than masturbation and worrying about satisfying a girl till you get in a relationship and focus on getting good at foreplay.

[yao Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close yao]

BUMP




is there anyone with 4 " in this forum


seems like we are very few

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

no there are lots of you, but people who lack confidence are less likely to post. So the forum is dominated by bigger members. Which just makes people feel worse cause it makes them feel alone, but thats the way it is. Trust me though your not the only one with the problem. Your probably more likely to get private messages from those people though.

[ktc0905 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ktc0905]

4" is a pretty common size, i've seen a lot of members who started at 4" including myself.

[lelouch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lelouch]

I am around 4.3-4.5" but that was with string measurement, with tape measurer i am 4" midshaft...i feel like i had less before PE if that is true and i was fine with my ex, dont worry too much and just make love like a king!

[toffeepeanut Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close toffeepeanut]

I am ~5.3-5.5 (not sure how to measure) and 4.25

I've been with a girl for over 2 years. Her old bf had the magic 8 x 6
So yeah...

She complained when i first met her because I guess she was used to bigger cocks. But honestly the main problem was me lasting longer.. not so much the size.. After a month of dating she stopped complaining about the size. And everything was great. Especially since I was good at the "other stuff" and learned to improve my performance overall.

Don't worry. Meet a nice girl and everything will be fine. And honestly, HONESTLY (i'm not just saying this because she's my ex) but she was A BITCH. And if she stayed with me in SPITE of my "small-average" cock, then i'm sure any girl out there will too.