General Newbie Questions

[gains_hunter Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close gains_hunter]

Hello everyone

First, I wanna say its such a comfort to know that all of you guys out there are seeking the same goal and working towards it & that I am not alone

Second I just started my sex life and I am a bit of a noob on lots of areas so my questions are

1. CONDOMS!!?!?! I hate them I dont understand them AARGGGH!! first I am using those ones (Four Seasons Naked Larger) and I think something is wrong because it leaves marks on my penis as if you were wearing tight socks on your legs, exactly where the band is and it gets sore afterwards but the marks goes away in few mins. What can I do to avoid those marks ??? the nominal width is 58mm(2.28 inches)

2. Sleeping position??!?! My penis is curved up and to the left what is the best sleeping position for that to fix the curve and not to cause more damage. I sleep on my right hand side and curl my knees up to my chest, is that healthy??

3. Sex positions??!? Which sex positions should I avoid and which should I utilise more?? with that curve??

4. Orgasms?!?!? My gf does not orgasm with penetration at all is that in adequate penis size? (mine is 18 cm X14 cm)( 7 inch X5.5 inch) in adequate technique of thrust? I do lots of foreplay for more than an hour, but I need to rub the clitoris while moving in and out to achieve an orgasm is that normal??

5.Cervix??!?!? Sometimes I am asked to stop because I just touched the cervix how can that be possible????

6.Kegels??? I do them regularly and I can see the difference in performance but does swimming and cycling have any positive??negative?? effects on sex performance??

Thank You guys for reading, and your answers will be very much appreciated. May we all grow to be the men we aspire to be

[pterodactyl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pterodactyl]

I can only comment on the cycling. (Besides the fact that you have a large member) The saddle you use can have a huge impact on bloodflow. "Comfort" seats with cushions made from foam or some type of gel are terrible and will often make your whole area go to sleep. This can lead to erectile dysfuction. There are many saddles designed with a cutout for your perennial region which will fix this problem completely but man do they hurt the azz bones. You will get used to this if you ride enough though.

Hope tha helped a litte bit and good luck!

P.S. some girls can't orgasm through intercourse. At least that's what Dr. Drew says =)

[Raider Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Raider]

Hey hunter! Welcome to the gym

As for your condoms, you should look into a larger size, I use trojan magnums and my girth is 5-5.1. They're snug on me too.

I've never heard of a sleeping position fixing a penis curve and sleeping on your side is good for your spine. To fix your curve try jelqing against it.

Not sure about postitions to avoid but I know you have a great size!

Some girls just have trouble having an orgasm I believe, but what your doing, rubbing the clitoris while moving in an out, is normal but i don't think for that long.

Kegels should be done every other day so your PC muscle has time to rest. As for your last question, any physical activity can help towards a positive performance in sex.

Good luck with your PE man

[Yiagos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Yiagos]

My penis is curved up

Check this

Which sex positions should I avoid and which should I utilise more?? with that curve??

Do anything, don't care. I am right curve LEET Anna's favourite position is doggy style cos I push more via left place for corner intercourse...

Sometimes I am asked to stop because I just touched the cervix how can that be possible????

Generally speaking the majority of women do not want weapons over 8 inches (or 20cm). Read this
It is your choice if you want to be a 20+ cm in lenght man but you have to find the proper vagina = well IMHO

Kegels??? I do them regularly and I can see the difference in performance but does swimming and cycling have any positive??negative?? effects on sex performance??

Kegels are to control premature ejaculation (your sex lasts more time) and for better erections. On the other hand any gym like swimming, cycling, kick boxing, body buildying etc yeah helps for a good reproductive system.

[gains_hunter Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close gains_hunter]

Thank you for the replies guys they have been most helpful I really appreciate the time each one of you spent to read and reply to my questions THANK YOU!!! But may I ask you even more :P

SIZE???? I think my size is inadequate since I cannot deliver my lover any orgasms from just penetration, and she does not like the idea of my penis growing bigger, whenever I mention it to her that I am considering the surgery she says you don't need it. From my perspective she does not want to hurt my feelings because she loves me. My goal is to get him to 23cm length (9 inch) and 16.5 cm girth (6.5 inch). But I am thinking after your replies I should not do it and just maintain a healthy penis and not risking damaging what I have since I am new to PE, So please advise

CONDOMS??? I have looked for a larger one in every pharmacy but those are the ones available

PE & making love??? If I decided to start PE routine how should that fit with my making love sessions??? Does it enhance the PE routine ?? Hinder the gains ?? increase risk of damage since I already worked out the penis????

Ballooning/Edging?? I tried that technique and for some reason it hurts and my penis afterwards gets smaller in flaccid state and get sore abdomen and testicles and even sometimes failure to get errect as quick/hard as before. From the way I felt it, it was like filling the penis with semen and leave it this way but it felt wrong? am I doing anything out of the ordinary to get these side effects??

[Yiagos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Yiagos]

whenever I mention it to her that I am considering the surgery she says you don't need it.

If you decide to do this you MUST find an expert surgeon. Keep in mind surgery costs much $$$. Thus it is up to you.

CONDOMS??? I have looked for a larger one in every pharmacy but those are the ones available

I live in a different country so I cannot help you.

SIZE???? I think my size is inadequate since I cannot deliver my lover any orgasms from just penetration,

18cm is a size over average. Therefore if she has not any orgasms perhaps it is a hormonal problem of your girl. Contact to a doctor for more info. I am shorter in length from you but my previous girls were happy in orgasm. The current is crazy in love. So the problem is not yours...

Ballooning/Edging???

Sorry I have no idea about this.

[Sue Denim Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sue Denim]

Woah!!! I would not be considering surgery if I were you. Firstly you member is larger than most...there are many people on this site trying to get to your size...Think about it, your saying that you member isn't big enough to satisfy her...yet you need to buy bigger than average condoms??? doesn't add up does it?

you said you were new to sex, is she also? it may be that she just doesn't know what she likes yet. Talk to her, ask her what she likes. you said you spend an hour doing fourplay...do you just dive straight in to eating her pussy, or do you take the time and work up to that.

Lastly don't feel that you are inadequte there is no need to, you are just two people learning about each other. plus if she knows your thinking that you are inadeqaute, she will be putting more pressure on her self to orgasm...which in turn will make it harder for her to orgasm...and then you have a nasty cycle.

[Yiagos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Yiagos]

Dude have you seen this poll yet???
It is about BPEL size.
See this survey also.
I repeat your problem is not your size as Sue Denim said above. You must learn each other to have better sex and orgasms by her.

[gains_hunter Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close gains_hunter]

WOW thanks guys for the confidence boost I got from you!!! I really feel different now As for surgery thats out of the window heheheh I wont do it. But I am considering doing the JP's beginners work out But I still don't know how making love and PE mix together. Should I time it that I make love on my exercise days or my OFF days??? I really dont want to risk injury and most importantly I want to keep pleasing & satisfying the girl I love. So Please advise on that Thank you I am lacking the words to express how thankful and grateful I am to have found you guys!!!!

[Yiagos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Yiagos]

From Morepenis manual (I am a member there) I am pasting the following texts:

We've noted the methods that we've found to be the most successful for our customers, but you need to find the methods that work best for you. We're not saying that you should do EVERY exercise in the book. As a matter of fact, we DISCOURAGE this. For best results, stick to the daily workout program that we recommend OR make up a workout schedule of your own comprised of the main exercises we've given you.
Performing this workout 5 DAYS A WEEK should work wonders for you. But again, don't OVERDO it! Devote the required daily time to your workout, but don't wear yourself out trying to make up for lost time (or in this case, "lost penis"). Practice safely, and in good time you will see INCREDIBLE results.
Finally, feel good about yourself. Attitude is everything... even more than penis size. You're already taking the right steps to enhancing your physical assets. Be sure to keep your mental outlook on life in check. Possessing the biggest penis in the world does nothing for a man without self-confidence. Keeping a positive frame of mind will help you achieve ANYTHING you desire. Having a "big dick".... well, that's just icing on the cake.

I lead an active sex life. Does this hinder or help my workout routine?

Your sexual activity certainly doesn't hurt your daily growth rituals. If anything, it probably helps you because frequent sex keeps your libido up and running. By the same token, if you're a man who really likes to masturbate, this can't hurt the workout process either. The more exercise your penis gets, the better. Remember the Golden Rule: An active penis is a happy penis!

Good night time to rest my body and my girl's best friend

[Swan Member Find all posts View Profile Close Swan]

is the more penis manual good? worth it? Im also considering Big Al MECoach...

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Let's see getting a very well written book that can teach you far more than you can learn here and having a great teacher as a personal instuctor, hmm, I bet ya it's worth it.

[Raider Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Raider]

is the more penis manual good? worth it? Im also considering Big Al MECoach...

From what I've heard, you can't go wrong with either....I kinda want to buy the book as well. And I've heard nothing but great things about Big Al's MECoach.

Raider

[Yiagos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Yiagos]

Swan since I have read some of manuals here and in other sites all of them based on the same philosophy.
By the way you can download for free videos and tutorials here

[gains_hunter Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close gains_hunter]

Hi Guys I have important question now!!!!, it seems that me and the Mrs went crazy and hurt my tool while making love. it feels sore on the sides and it was a result of thrusting before she was wet and she was very very tight so he got injured but not badly. ( I think its the bloody curve) so the question is what is a quick healthy way to restore my penis to its original condition :P Thank you very much guys I LOVE YOU!!!!!

EDIT:
why does Edging cause me abdominal pains and pains in the balls?