PE for Married Guys

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I have a question for you married guys. How do you find the time to do PE? I live in with my fiance right now and it is difficult to find the time or place. I’m fine with her watching me warm up and do stretches and jelq’s and such, but I lose my concentration in edging (which is so important for me right now). Plus she has a hugemongus libido and is ready to throw down at any time – especially during PE.

I think I’m going to have to lock myself in the bathroom or something. I can’t exactly go to the gym and do this stuff. The weight bench is out and the bathroom stalls are no good since some guy will come drop kids off at the pool. AUGH!

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I have a question for you married guys. How do you find the time to do PE? I live in with my fiance right now and it is difficult to find the time or place. I’m fine with her watching me warm up and do stretches and jelq’s and such, but I lose my concentration in edging (which is so important for me right now). Plus she has a humongous libido and is ready to throw down at any time – especially during PE.

I think I’m going to have to lock myself in the bathroom or something. I can’t exactly go to the gym and do this stuff. The weight bench is out and the bathroom stalls are no good since some guy will come drop kids off at the pool. AUGH!

Dude!!!! What better way to do your edging than right inside her warm, moist peach?!!!!! God only knows how much I wish I had the same "problem" as you. Not only has my girl's libido been in the toilet since back in July/08 but if she ever found out about my doing PE, she'd probably walk the fuck out.

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Dude!!!! What better way to do your edging than right inside her warm, moist peach?!!!!! God only knows how much I wish I had the same "problem" as you. Not only has my girl's libido been in the toilet since back in July/08 but if she ever found out about my doing PE, she'd probably walk the fuck out.

I’m so sorry to hear about that, WMP. I didn’t mean to say that to brag or anything.

As fun as it is to edge inside her, you just don’t get the same amount of concentration. There’s so much going on to distract you. You have things like her cumming, her deciding to move her hips around when you’re close, her doing kegels to see how hard she can squeeze. Not to mention that if you accidentally move 1 centimeter when you’re edging you blow past the PONR. Plus doing edging on your own makes doing innercourse that much more satisfying because you last longer and blow a huge load.

I think that I’ll have to wake up real early in the morning to do my edging. Or do it in the car during lunch haha.

As far as women’s libidos go, I think I found the secret to happiness. Do you see those hot as hell mid 40’s women walking around? You know the ones that look like they’re still 36. They are crazy in bed and want it all the time. Plus they are so much fun to be around. Good times, man. Good times.

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I’m so sorry to hear about that, WMP. I didn’t mean to say that to brag or anything.

It's all good, man; no offense taken at all. In fact, it's good to know that (knowing what it's like to go without a lady for way too long) a fellow man has found a willing lady to make some good ole' whoopie just like God intended us to do. My girl is an awesome girl, is unfukingbelievable in the sack and is hot enough to leave a couple of Victoria's Secret models without a job. She just happens to have A LOT on her plate right now; between a super-stressful job that she hates and managing to keep straight A's in one of the top grad-schools in the nation (and the commute to school right in the heart of NYC is no picnic either), she's just drained to the last drop. She's graduating in May so hopefully the sex will get back to what it was in the good ole' days.

As fun as it is to edge inside her, you just don’t get the same amount of concentration. There’s so much going on to distract you. You have things like her cumming, her deciding to move her hips around when you’re close, her doing kegels to see how hard she can squeeze. Not to mention that if you accidentally move 1 centimeter when you’re edging you blow past the PONR. Plus doing edging on your own makes doing innercourse that much more satisfying because you last longer and blow a huge load.

I think that I’ll have to wake up real early in the morning to do my edging. Or do it in the car during lunch haha.

As far as women’s libidos go, I think I found the secret to happiness. Do you see those hot as hell mid 40’s women walking around? You know the ones that look like they’re still 36. They are crazy in bed and want it all the time. Plus they are so much fun to be around. Good times, man. Good times.

But anyways,... If your girl is cool with you doing PE, then you have the best solution right there. See, to have a solid edging session, you need to maintain the level of arousal as high as possible, which is key not only for learning how to control ejaculation but also to produce maximum engorgement which is gonna help expand and therefore grow the whole apparatus. When I edge, I just visualize some good times with my girl (or past girlfriends) and my favorite visualization for max arousal and engorgement, is to imagine my girl sitting right behind me, quietly caressing my upper body and laying little kisses on my back and neck. If you get your girl to do this for you for a good 15-20mins minimum, not only will you have the best edging sessions in the world, but it will also serve as one hell of a foreplay session, where by the time you're done with your edging, she's gonna be wetter and hornier than she's ever been in her life. This is a win-win deal for both of you. Plus, if you think about it closely...What a better way to practice ejaculation-control and holding yourself before the PONR than practicing with the very subject that's most likely to bring you to such blissful heights?