Edging without *ever* ejaculating. Good/bad?

[Rocksteady5052 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rocksteady5052]

So I am very new (literally 2 days ago) and because of all the props it gets decided to add edging to the end of my routine, "PESGs light beginner routine". During the edging I'm trying to work my kegels and reverse kegels throughout, using reverse to pull back and normal to deny orgasm.

In the 2 sessions of edging I've been able to deal pretty well with what I think the expectations are, especially for a first attempt and I feel like I'm actually pushing the pleasure around in a semi-controlled manner so seems good so far.

However, for more psychological/spiritual reasons, I've committed to a vow of no-cooming which I've been keeping at for about 3 months now. Which puts me in a wierd spot I cant seem to find anyone talking about so far.

Is it advisable to edge for 20-30m, 2 days on, 1 day off and *never* ejaculate? Is it unhealthy? Are there consequences for PE/EQ? Would I see better PE/EQ if I did ejaculate every once in a while? Would I just end up with a wet dream (never happened before to me, but different scenario now) rendering it all moot? What does a dry orgasm mean here? Are blue balls guaranteed? Is there anything inherently unhealthy about blue balls? Any other concerns?

Many questions, blue balls are activated, hard mode engaged.

I have autistic levels of discipline when I apply myself, if the commitment is "all edge, no coom, 6 months long" I might be crazy enought o pull it off.

I know I asked a plethora of questions, but the general idea is that I haven't seen anyone talk about this specific pros/cons of cooming/never coming, so any input is welcome.

Thanks in advance for any help jelq bros

[PE_Paul Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PE_Paul]

Hi Rocksteady - I don't think there's any physical / medical risk to not orgasming - presumably any unused semen just gets absorbed back into the body. There may be an argument around the release that it gives you (mental & physical) being advantageous, but I can't comment on that.

Personally speaking though, if I don't cum after edging it makes me 100x more horny afterwards, so there may be an argument to have a reasonably regular 'schedule' to let it out.

But I'm just a newbie, so I've probably got it quite wrong !

[Rocksteady5052 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rocksteady5052]

Hi Rocksteady - I don't think there's any physical / medical risk to not orgasming - presumably any unused semen just gets absorbed back into the body. There may be an argument around the release that it gives you (mental & physical) being advantageous, but I can't comment on that.

Personally speaking though, if I don't cum after edging it makes me 100x more horny afterwards, so there may be an argument to have a reasonably regular 'schedule' to let it out.

But I'm just a newbie, so I've probably got it quite wrong !

Hey, fair enough, I know that sperm/semen just gets recycled, but I didn't know if any other significant processes are in play

And yeah, it really hits afterwards lol

[madyogi Moderator Member of the Month April 2020PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close madyogi]

Hey, Rocksteady. Esoteric types would swear by not letting go of your sperm/semen ... something about chi or some other such energetic thing. I don't put much stock in that, honestly. I've tried it both ways, and for a time I thought ejaculating more regularly negatively effected my EQ, but I think the EQ issues were unrelated. For many, not ejaculating outside of sexual contact can lead to PreE, or at least, not being able to last as long as you like. Conversely, ejaculating too much can lead to less ejaculate, so not as much "fun" for those who like the visual of a big load on a lady's belly or wherever.

My general rule of thumb these days is to ejaculate 2-3 times a week outside sexual encounters, then once or twice more if my wife is feeling it that week. I have great EQ these days with that rough schedule. As far as I can tell, holding off doesn't really effect PE results, as I've had pretty consistent results both ways. For me, if you can dial in your EQ, last as long as you like, and shoot your wad in a way that makes you happy, cum as much as you see fit.

[Rocksteady5052 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rocksteady5052]

Hey, Rocksteady. Esoteric types would swear by not letting go of your sperm/semen ... something about chi or some other such energetic thing. I don't put much stock in that, honestly. I've tried it both ways, and for a time I thought ejaculating more regularly negatively effected my EQ, but I think the EQ issues were unrelated. For many, not ejaculating outside of sexual contact can lead to PreE, or at least, not being able to last as long as you like. Conversely, ejaculating too much can lead to less ejaculate, so not as much "fun" for those who like the visual of a big load on a lady's belly or wherever.

My general rule of thumb these days is to ejaculate 2-3 times a week outside sexual encounters, then once or twice more if my wife is feeling it that week. I have great EQ these days with that rough schedule. As far as I can tell, holding off doesn't really effect PE results, as I've had pretty consistent results both ways. For me, if you can dial in your EQ, last as long as you like, and shoot your wad in a way that makes you happy, cum as much as you see fit.

Hey mad yogi, thanks for the response

It's good to hear that there a bit of freedom on this both ways. Part of the issue for me is that I used to spend way too much time jacking it, so cold turkey was my answer lol, but then taking up a routine where I'm constantly massaging definitely conflicts with that lol

I'll think further on what kind of solution I want going forward, a fixed number might be a suitable middleground.