Edging Question?

[Cantona7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cantona7]

Hey Guys,
I just got done with my 3rd edging session. My first session was a disappointment because i came after 17 mins when i had planned not to, but after this session I think that was a better session than the following two sessions, the reason I am saying that is I reached PONR 11 times before ejaculating in the first session. I have a few questions for people with some experience in edging:
- The last two session I didn't reach PONR in first 20 minutes ( that's very surprising because I know that's not my stamina). My question is do i need to stroke it in a certain manner?
- Secondly, should i TRY to get to PONR as quick as possible, because i know i can do that, but I am trying to achieve the opposite, so it'd be a contradiction. ( I know i can cum within 2 minutes if i want to but that's not my goal)
- Also, Last two session I barely had 3 PONRs in the span of an hour and a half. Could anyone tell me what am i doing wrong?
additional info - I edge with songs playing or other distractions ( Would a 20 min "peaceful" session be a better choice than 70 min session like this?)
I don't touch my glans as it is advised to do so to the beginners. ( I seem to reach the PONR a lot quicker when playing with my glans, should i start doing that or stroking is an important part of the session?)
I seem to fluctuate my pace a lot. ( Should i just keep doing it at a constant pace? If yes, what would be that pace? medium? slow or fast?
What is the goal of edging? to reach as many ponrs as possible or to train yourself to not to reach a ponr? I am kinda confused here a bit, I hope someone gives me a good advice.
Thank You
Cris

[wigwambam Member Find all posts View Profile Close wigwambam]

That's a good post man, I will be keeping an eye on this thread as I'm intrested in the reply's, keep up the good work!

[walker Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close walker]

That's a good post man, I will be keeping an eye on this thread as I'm intrested in the reply's, keep up the good work!

So am I.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Edging is masturbation with a goal other than just geting off . There are many forms of edging useing many techniques and the goal can be whatever you make it.
That said it is not usually a good idea to rush to ponr, unless you have male multi orgasm edging in mind.
It sounds like you are relaxing your pelvic floor and lowering kegel activity ,this is a valid edging form, that result in taking a long time to ponr ,no glans stimulation will also slow progress to ponr. I suggest at some point you should use glans stimulation as this will occur in sex.

Ask yourself what your goal is and how you want to go about attaining it . If you just want to increase stamina then your current path has some validity. If for instance you wanted to become male multi orgasmic then you would have to change your training.

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May I ask what the difference is between the two? I mean I know they are different but how so? I.e. what does MMO mean per se?

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

Multiple Male Orgasm

The ability to have several orgasms in a row, this is achieved by separating ejaculation from orgasm, thus they are often referred to as "dry orgasms"

[Cantona7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cantona7]

@pegasus
Thats exactly what my goal is. I want to increase my stamina up to 25-30you mins. Does that mean i should not have my first PONR in first 25 or so mins? My session typically lasts 20-25 mins. I am getting better at it session by session, but would you change anything? Anything you suggest? The way i go about it is, I don't stimulate my glans in the first ten minutes, so i dont reach PONR. In the second half i start stroking it a little faster to reach my first PONR. I get about 5-7 of them in the last ten minutes. Should i not stroke it fast? And just rely on glan stimulation to get to my first PONR? For some reason, i just feel the need to up the pace of my stroke. Should i rather stick with slow strokes? And would it be okay if i dont even reach a PONR in first 2O mins? I also try to keep telling my mind how i should not cum, i believe there is psychological side to it as well.

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Well chris you don't need permission from me ,you seem to have found your own path which is different from mine. If you wish to increase stamina ,delaying the first ponr is a valid way to do it. You seem to make this work ok for masturbation, there remains the question of transfer to sex ,which can be difficult regardless of method.
My method /path is mmo and this results in great stamina, but the method is totally different. Most guys find mmo takes considerable training to achieve. Within this site are many guys using methods similar to yours to increase stamina, they can be more helpfull to you than I can.
I suggest when you see posts on similar methods to yours you pm or post to that member.

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May I ask what the difference is between the two? I mean I know they are different but how so? I.e. what does MMO mean per se?

Ok so in 'standard "stamina training you slow progress to ponr, or as you approach ponr you stop or pull back using a variety of methods generally arousal is very controlled.
In male multi orgasm you go through ponr to have a dry orgasm , as this can be done repeatedly there is no requiorment to avoid/delay ponr .

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@pegasus
Thank You for the info. And yes transferring it to sex could be real hard. I will give it a try and let people on here know. Another thing, does dry orgam means nothing coming out? So its just a few moments of pleasure?

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@pegasus
Thank You for the info. And yes transferring it to sex could be real hard. I will give it a try and let people on here know. Another thing, does dry orgam means nothing coming out? So its just a few moments of pleasure?

A dry orgasm is similar to a wet orgasm except you can have far more of them.

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Here is an excellent post ftom Minuteman,
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As I said somewhere premEjac people have a tendency to over-worry and over-analyze, just do what you think you should do. The point of most edging sessions is to try and to listen to yourself and to learn how to decide based of the things your body tells you, rather than expecting somebody to guide you trough all the steps. In return you will better understand yourself and that will mean that in the unpredictable situations you will not be prone to much anxiety and panic, which in return will make you more confident, which will then again in return make you last longer.

I mean I don't mind answering to bunch of your questions or anybodies questions about PremE for that matter, but the fact is that you will learn much much more if you decide it for yourself.
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[adiavroxos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close adiavroxos]

I edge now and then. Im not following a strict routine, I just edge because I like the way it feels. I will surely edge when Im awake before my alarm clock goes off and keep going for as long as it goes off. Today I edged for about 20'. Used a medium pace and maybe slowing down or going really fast and arousing now and then to mix things up. I dont use any particular method, I just do what I like and what feels great. For me, stroking along with the foreskin feels best, applying light pressure under my penis. I do that as it feels nice, it stimulates my entire penis (glans, foreskin, shaft) equally and is also really close to having sex when someone is uncut as I am. I never rush to the PONR as I dont like it that way, and of course its not right. Do what minuteman suggested and follow what your mind and body tells you. If you like it this way, then do it. Dont force yourself too much as its pretty discouraging and morale plays a great role in sex (effects EQ, stamina etc).
And to give you more courage, I can assure you that I had a serious case of pre-e a few months ago. Now Im almost cured and sometimes can enjoy sex sessions that last up to ah hour. Listen to what experienced people tell you here. They know what they're talking about.

[Cantona7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cantona7]

@adiavoxos thanks for the comment, i really appreciate you encouraging me. Yes I do have a bad case of pre e too, but i am following what my body is telling me. I hope i can say the same about my situation a few months from now