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  • Help! My girlgriend says my penis feels like a snail in her.

    Hello everyone. I am 28 years old and have been dating this girl (24 years) for a year and half now. The first time we had
    sex, it wasn’t as good as I would have loved because it didn’t feel tight enough. After we made love the second time, she told me she was feeling my penis inside of her as if it were a snail. She told me her ex-boyfriend was bigger and sex with him sometimes was painful. That really shattered me and prompted my search for a solution. I’ve never measured my penis before but when I did, it was 4.8” long (erect) and 5” around. That didn’t affect me much until she made the latest comment. She went on a holiday and stayed a month with an old acquaintance. When she came back, I tried kissing her two days later in her house and she refused, telling me the feeling was not there anymore. That was when I got mad and she explained, saying she had sex with his 45 years old friend (where she spent her holiday) and she had not experienced such pleasure for a very long time. To add salt to injury, the man called minutes later and they were talking like long time lovers. What I don’t understand is that when I got up and wanted to leave, she ran to the door and knelt down begging me not to leave saying she decided to tell me the truth because she taught that I won’t be so mad and I would still accept her. I love her so much and even up till now, I can’t stand her tears. We even had sex the next night trying all positions for two hours but it wasn’t tight enough. She acts weird because when she does or says an annoying thing and get me angry, she always comes back to plead and say sorry. I guess that is where I am having a problem because I always accept her when my anger subsides. We still act like we are dating and she taught that I am okay. The truth is I have never been at such a low point in my life as I am now.

    I have read conflicting things about penis exercises which increases the length and width of the penis. While some say it doesn’t work, others say it will make your penis bigger but you won’t be able to use it properly like before. I stumbled upon this site and the posts I’ve read so far have really given me courage. Please members of this forum, does penis exercise work? And if it works, does it have a side effect on the penis afterwards? Also, how long can it take to gain can I gain 1 inch in both length and circumference? Please, your genuine answers will be deeply appreciated.

  • #2
    well at basically 5x5 your about average +/- in girth or length and there is nothing wrong with that at all. If you want to improve on that you are definately in the right place. As far as the girl goes she needs to shut the hell up stay away from this other guy and appreciate you or move on with her own life. You guys are young and have plenty of learning to do sexually. The fact that she talked to this guy on the phone in front of you is very disturbing. I know nothing about you guys but from your post I think you should find someone else. If you want to keep her around to see if she comes around while you look elsewhere thats fine too. Dont put up with any BS from her from here out either if she is out of line man up and put her in her place. If she crys oh well. She needs to grow up.

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    • #3
      Do you think that you deserve to be treated well?
      If the answer is yes, get the hell away from this girl.
      If the answer is no, you need help (in that case you still need to dump her)

      You don't want to be around people that make you feel miserable. And from what you say she seems to be quite good at making you feel miserable and attached at the same time. That is NOT a good combination!

      Besides that, PE works. Noone can tell you how long it will take to gain a certain amout of length/girth.
      Look up the Beginner's Forum and start any newbieprogram!
      Lvl1 : BPEL 6,70" | EG 4,85"| EQ: 6-7 (current)
      Lvl16:BPEL 7,50" | EG 5,25"| EQ:8-9 (mid term)
      Lvl36:BPEL 8,00" | EG 5,75"| EQ:9-10 (long term)

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      • #4
        This girl seems very manipulative and insecure. My suggestion is get out while you can. I know it sounds harsh, but she cheated on you with a guy twice her age, and then told you how much better it was. That's not a red flag, that's a fog horn with bright flashing sirens. She now knows she can cheat on you and cry her way back into your good graces. She told you about the guy with the bigger dick, and consistently tries to one-up your ego.

        Get out, get out now. She will only try to hurt you further to better her own self-esteem.
        "If you want a log you need to keep a log." - Tinkerbell
        "I wish I was average height with average hand size." - thenewdude

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        • #5
          Basic abuse ,she may need to do kegels as well as get mental help. You need a better girl.

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          • #6
            Nasty business! PE works but it wont keep anyone from cheating on you my man. Next time she crys in front of you laugh at her and leave without saying a word. Well maybe you shouldnt do all that but you should definately stop seeing this girl.
            pterodactyl

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            • #7
              Make your life better and you will find a woman who makes you feel better and won't cheat on you ... also learn how to give women orgasms ... you're probably not very good at sex. It's not your dick. Your dick is fine, it's you who needs to improve and leave this bitch and make your life better.

              -Dance
              EL: 5 3/4", EG: 4 7/8" | 2020

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              • #8
                If she really loves you, she would not have sex with old friends and then tell you, behaving as if you should just accept it.
                You deserve better than her. I don't know how deep are your feelings for her, but you deserve much more than this shitty behaviour. I can tell from your post that you treasure her very much, and would do anything for her. Unfortunately it seems to be one-sided.
                Get away from her as fast as you can. It will be painful, but you'll feel better in the end.
                I wish you luck and happiness.

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                • #9
                  I can't say anything that hasn't been said before but I also can't stress it enough.

                  The girl is bad news no matter how much you love her. Her way of treating is going to do nothing but bring you pain that will be detrimental to your health (physically and mentally). And if you were to start PEing with the thoughts of staying with her, it could lead you into rushing into an injury because of how she makes you feel inadequate and needing fast results. That, sadly, would be the best case scenario as women can drive men to the brink of doing unthinkable things and wind up in jail or dead.

                  There is an old saying, once a cheater always a cheater.

                  Take the advice given by the gents above. It's time to find a new woman. This one sounds like she wants to keep you attached while getting her kicks off too elsewhere.

                  IMO, if you do stay with her and she makes another demeaning comment about you, don't hold back and give her a taste of her own medicine.
                  I had a girl tell me something like that once and she didn't like what I had to say back to her. The truth can be painful (talking about what I said to her) and she was a lot more hurt than me at the end of the day.
                  5/27/12: BPEL 6.25 EG: 5.125
                  6/04/12: BPEL 6.50 EG: 5.500 (think from EQ gains only)

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                  • #10
                    Let this girl go and find a nice lady somewhere else.
                    01/14/12 BPEL:7.4" EG:5.0"
                    03/04/13
                    BPEL:8.2" EG:5.5"BPFL:6.8 BPFSL:8.8"pics

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                    • #11
                      Welcome to the gym.
                      Your penis can grow.
                      Your side effects will be a bigger dick.
                      Your girlfreind is an inmature tramp ( sorry)
                      Dump her now.
                      Welcome to the gym.
                      Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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                      • #12
                        As everyone said before. You should leave her. She is clearly abusing you.

                        Oh and I belive this video is appropriete in every relationship thread. How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ - Pornhub.com
                        Start(11.24.11) BPEL 6 7/8 EG 4 7/8
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                        • #13
                          Wow, I can't even believe you are still with her after all that. What exactly do you love about her? The way she puts you down, or the way she cheats on you? Your relationship seems toxic and way the point of repair. Dump her now and move on. There's no real shortage of women on the planet, for you to put up with her crap. She obviously enjoys hurting you and making you feel inadequate, since there is no other point to bringing up past lovers and relationships. And to top it off, she cheats on you.

                          I think the reason she begs you to stay with her is because she knows no other guy would be insane enough to put up with her.
                          Starting (02/21/12): 4.81 BPEL x 4.31 mid-EG
                          05/23/12: 5.68 x 4.43
                          08/22/12: 5.81 x 4.43
                          Short-term goal: 6.0 x 4.5

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                          • #14
                            I seem to be in the minority when I say that a girl is entitled to prefer a larger penis just as I'm entitled to prefer a prettier face, larger breasts and a tighter pussy. You can use her words for motivation but you really should commit to PE for yourself and only yourself. I think it's very empowering and rewarding for me (and my wife is just the added beneficiary).

                            As for relationship advice, it may seem painful to end a relationship with someone you love today BUT it's infinitely better than marrying someone like her. People make the mistake of getting married despite certain obvious problems but they invariably get divorced because of these obvious problems which only get magnified with the enormous pressures of adulthood (children, mortgages, affairs, mid-life crises, career stress, etc.).
                            11/20/2011: BPEL: 6", MEG: 4.75" (goal BPEL: ~7", MEG: 5.25")
                            2/18/2012: BPEL: 6.375", MEG: 4.875"
                            5/9/12: BPEL: 6.5", MEG 5" (goal BPEL: 7.25", MEG: 5.5")
                            7/3/12: BPEL: 6.5", MEG 5 3/16"

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                            • #15
                              This is one of the most disturbing stories I've read on this site. She cheated on you, wouldn't even kiss you, told you she cheated on you, and then chatted on the phone with the guy? And then expects you to stay around? That is scary my man. I can't think of any reason to stay with her.

                              Originally posted by jd10021 View Post
                              I seem to be in the minority when I say that a girl is entitled to prefer a larger penis just as I'm entitled to prefer a prettier face, larger breasts and a tighter pussy. You can use her words for motivation but you really should commit to PE for yourself and only yourself. I think it's very empowering and rewarding for me (and my wife is just the added beneficiary).
                              Lots of people agree with you but that's not really what this story is about.
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