Troubled beginner...

[Seph13 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Seph13]

Hello, I've had an account made for a while now, but, I never really made a post...
Recently, I turned 18 (May) and now more than ever the size of my penis has been bothering me.

I'm 5 1/2'' Erect... I havent measured my girth, but, I can only barely get my fingers around my dick, if that gives you an idea. And, I was kind of at ease with this...until a few months ago. Well, here is how the story goes.

I was at a party with friends and family (Mainly guy cousins, luckily I have a lot of family my age) and plenty of beautiful ladies. There was of course a lot of drinking and all that, beer pong and card games etc.

In the middle of the party, we were playing strip poker, and here I'll fast forward... There I was, only in boxers... and the 4 friends I was playing with (well, 3 were cousins) were all naked... Through an odd series of more unfortunate events, I found out that I was the smallest out of all my closest cousins and friends. And not "I'm close to there" smallest either.

I've been insecure about my size for a while, and until now, I was saying "I'll have to live with it, I guess" But, I finally want to do something about it. When it comes to sex, I have a lot of stamina. I could go for a while... And, I love it. I prided myself on that. I always wondered, though "If I could go this long... If I had a big dick, I could do even better." It always bothers me when something isn't fair. When things aren't balanced... But now that I found that I can even the playing field, I feel much relief. I really do.

I posted this because I was looking for motivation... Something that you could say, or something you've done that could somehow shed some light on my cause.

I'm glad I'm finally part of this community... And, I'm looking forward to become a Bigger... Stronger man.

Thanks.

Edit: I figured I should have added this. My lot is 6:00 and I've done the 90 day beginner's routine... I feel much different down there. And, when I first started, I was slightly smaller in length, I was about 5 1/4" So, I gained a fourth of an inch. Which isn't bad. Its something at least, but, I wasn't utilizing edging, and I'd like to make my sessions longer now.

[PESG Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PESG]

It's unfortunate to go through a situation like you did. Trust me. Been there, had to deal with that. It's not fun - it's downright painful. The only good thing about it is that it's an awesome motivator. Keep working at it Seph. This is a long process but with enough time and dedication, you'll grow well. Do you have a progress log? You should create one.

[Seph13 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Seph13]

Actually, I didn't create one yet. I'll get on it. And you're right, it is an awesome motivator.

Thanks!

[hooded Member Find all posts View Profile Close hooded]

Seph,
Stay focused with the goal clearly in your mind and don't waiver. Success of anything only comes to those who endure. I was radically circumcised as an infant and once I learned the harmful results, I restored my foreskin. This took 2 1/2 years but it paid off in spades. In my opinion it looks, feels and functions better. Point is, set a goal, in steps, and go after it with the determination of a bull. Your get huge rewards. Keep pulling and NEVER give up. In time you'll pass up your peers with a willy to be proud of.

[hopethisworks Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopethisworks]

Seph....

I'm only 5 1/4" erect.... but my wife can barely take that. She told me the other day that if I we're any bigger "I'd probably rip her crotch out".

Anyway... I do PE hoping to gain length and girth anyway... as I know it will make me feel better, and when I do make gains, I'm sure my wife's body will also adjust to them. (Vagina's can stretch - alot).

I guess the point of my post is this: You have nothing to be ashamed of.... your penis is perfectly functonal as it is, and very much within "average" range. There are guys on here (such as myself) that would love to be 5 1/2".

(Is the 5 1/2 Bone pressed, or none bone pressed?)

[Mattyluv Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mattyluv]

Yeah, Having the smallest in the room sounds like it really sucks... not sure I've ever actually had to face that but I could imagine adn if I was naked next to a bunch of dudes...chances are. But have you wondered if maybe the others in the room we're showers and your the only grower??? Your about average so unless big ones run on that side of the family. you should be about in the middle.

just tryin to help...

[tabqwerty Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close tabqwerty]

If neither of you were erect, it wouldn't be possible to tell.

[ron628 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ron628]

I agree with tabqwerty, flaccid sizes vary alot, there's no definite way to tell who's the smallest/biggest without being erect, so you shouldn't feel bad

[DailyAffirmation Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DailyAffirmation]

I just measured how big "barely get my fingers around it" would be, and at least for me it's 7". If you've got 5 1/2 x 7" there's not many girls that would complain about it being too small around, which is what really really matters.

[Cult Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cult]

I wish that I could barely get my fingers around the girth of my cock seriously.

Weird how the grass is always greener....

[Seph13 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Seph13]

Well I should add in that I'm 5'5'' and my hands aren't that big. And, I'm not really sure what bone pressed is.

And, on my father's side of the family, including my father (And bro) there's a legion of above average penis's. I was hoping that I would grow into it, even into my height. But I haven't grown in height since I was 16 or grown down there since about then either. My brother is 6'1'', which is totally unfair =P I think I got the genes from my mother's side of the family. Shes short, about 5'4'' while my dad is 5'11''

Anyway, I've come to terms that either I'm going to have the latest growth spurt ever (unlikely) or the body I have now is what I'm stuck with. So, its time to harness my energy and create my own "Growth spurt"

Thankfully, I have done something like this before. I was overweight 2 years ago, I was about 189 pounds. I was always blessed with a body full of muscle, even though I'll proudly admit any day of the week I'm a "nerd" before an athlete. Muscle always seemed to come extremely easy. Today, after being on a light diet and workout routine, I weigh 168 pounds and feel wonderful. it took me about 3 months to lose 30 pounds, I then gained ten when I started building muscle.

From what I understand though, training your penis may not be as exhausting, but from what I can tell its going to be longer for me to reach the desired length and girth of my penis. I have no problem with this, and luckily, since i have worked out before I understand what it's like to be under routine.

A lot of the success stories on here are amazingly motivational. And I hope to one day have a success story of my own up.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Well your not short your average. But it sounds like your girth may be huge if you can barely wrap fingers around it.

[cockmasterflex Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cockmasterflex]

Was everyone erect at the party? Because you wouldn't know if you had the smallest there.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Was everyone erect at the party? Because you wouldn't know if you had the smallest there.

Very good point.

[Seph13 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Seph13]

Not everyone was erect there, I've seen 2 out of my 6 friends and family that I did see erect, the rest were flacid.