Masturbation before PE ? Manuals or devices? i need info..

[RebellionBrown Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RebellionBrown]

im having trouble staying flaccid before stretches so i always come up with the solution of masturbating..
when i masturbate it feels like im getting the most out of stretches, i feel the tunica, ligaments and every move ( v stretches, helicopter shake etc ) i do is feeling like its breaking the tissues and gives the sense that PE is actually working

after i finish stretches jelqing in %70 erect state is very hard because of masturbation..
i dont need girth thus its already 5.5"
then i start to think,

im in a relationship that i always have to be up for a good sex but masturbation is killing it..
what if i buy a stretching device or just hang for the lenght?
should i stay on beginners routine? if so what can i do to maintain flaccid for stretches or how to get erect after masturbation for jelqing?

i need some info and ideas from experienced ones..
thank you.

[ThirdArm Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThirdArm]

Firstly, decide if you actually want to jelq or not.

If stretching is making you too erect, it's probably because you're contacting your glans, which is the most sensitive part of the penis. That, and the fact that you're used to touching being a sexual thing (aside from peeing), so you get erect. This is very common.