Last night my wife finally initiated sex, with oral!!! What turned her on was apparently when she helped to measure my penis, she says she didn't realize just how much she missed playing with it.

Although the experience was nothing like it use to be we both still enjoyed ourselves. She is still unable to take the full length but we accommodated that fact and I was able to keep her satisfied with more shallow thrusts. When I tried to go in deeper she basically jumped off of it and told me that was too deep. Used a great deal of lube to keep the friction down, we figured otu since the hysterectomy her depth isn't as much as it use to be, but the more and more she got turned on she was about to fit more in, and everything was smooth sailing once I got down just how much she could take.
All in all she did not get that big orgasm that she usually get, just a series of shallow ones, which was great considering all that we've been through and at least she finally got turned on enough to want sex.
This lasted for about an hour because she began to tire out and asked me how much longer before I was done and I told her I can cum when she's ready, lol, she told me to try it from behind, just don't be rough and dont go all the way in. From this position I was able to get her off again and she told me when she was near so we came together and it was quite strong. She even got another during my spasms and commented on just how much more semen i'm letting out now since starting all the PE exercises.
Still got other things to work on but she's finally putting in the effort of trying to get back into sex, and for that I am very happy.
~Abe

Hopefully we addressed it early enough before it actually became a serious problem in our relationship, it seems to be better since the atmosphere has changed and everything is more playful now.
~Abe