To leave or not to leave.

[CUSP82]

You know each day this place gets new members and a few others just decide to never show back up again. That's understandable. What if you're one of the regulars, you know the guys that come for pe, to give advice, or to shoot the breeze. Why all of a sudden do you just say goodbye? I mean afterall we're just a bunch of madeups names on some website somewhere but don't we get feelings for some of the people we have met here and fooled around with? Some of you guys that I wouldn't know if I tripped over you in real life I would miss if they just stopped showing up. Is life really all that busy that you can't spend a few minutes a week checking and saying hello? Hell I even miss some of the guys I kicked out; hey they were jerks but they were fun jerks. Guys like schlittle,PESkeptic, Coltar, and others add much to this place and would be sorely missed. Maybe I'm just a mush. Personally when my time is done here I'll still pop by to see what's happening and say hello. Your thoughts?

[VIPER]

I have often contemplated about leaving myself on occasions so i can understand why members choose to leave, but i think that they should have the decency to explain why. Perhaps it might be a good idea for the site to have some facility where members can put across their aggrievances, that way the mods can discuss things with them and get some feedback as to why they wish to leave. This will allow for any improvements to be made.

[ColtAR-15]

I have contemplated it numerous times. It's basically a love/ hate relationship. After a few of my recent posts I thought I would have been banned for sure abd was shocked when my log in worked. I had made up my mind that I would be banned and I didn't care. When I wasn't banned it did foster some renewed respect for the place though. Lately I have been on a semi "posting strike" . I think the place has just gotten old for me. There doesn't seem to be many interesting things being discussed nowadays. There are some other annoyances. The bootlickers, ass kissers and browny hounds. Those that always have to say the "right" or PC thing regardless of reality and they perceive themselves to hold the high moral ground. Then there's the arrogant braggarts who want to point out their superiorty at every chance. That one is really my kryptonite.

So basically it's the BS that shows up that I think is just wearing me down. Oh yea and that every other new member showing up seems to almost have porno dick is constantly making me have my doubts of what "average" really is and makes me feel smaller by the day. Hell I thought I had at least average girth before coming here now I really have my doubts regardless of what the outside surveys say. The starting survey here seems to confirm my doubts. Lastly, that I'm such a slow gainer while others seem to gain like weeds is the most depressing aspect and has further issolated me from the average member. Sorry for the rant Cusp.

[MrsLooking4more]

Well as you know I am new here and so far I like a lot of the people that are posting, I sure hope they don't leave I like getting all the perspectives about topics that are not usually openly discussed in the manner they are in these forums. I can see where people that are here to reach their goals would leave after they obtained them, I do like that some of you are paying it forward. I have learned a lot from all the posts, I read before I joined. I guess I will just have to enjoy you guys for as long as you are there.