1) My penis is probably made of iron, and so is yours! While most PE practitioners are either injury free, or develop relatively minor injuries that heal with a bit of rest, some folks run an OK Grip over their cock two or three (usually three) times, and their dick never works properly again. If you don't have permanent ED after jelqing 3 times, you are probably Jelq Compatible. Congratulations on your new hobby!

2) Less is more. Except when more is more. It seems reasonable to follow the important safety advice found in various stickies all over the forums. But it's way easy to make excuses if you tend towards laziness. I'm not advocating that anyone ignore safety advice, but don't use it as an excuse to procrastinate. The folks who can claim impressive gains are quick to point out that they didn't happen overnight. It takes a lot of time and a lot of work to get results. I have to remind myself every day that if I am not getting negative PIs, I have no excuse not to train today.

3) Take this shit seriously, participate in discussions, read, read, read, participate some more, read...sensing a pattern? It's unbelievable how liberating it can be to discuss your penis with strangers. I am totally serious, even if it sounds ridiculous: there's little else more empowering to a man than becoming an authority on his own penis. Knowing that I can sit down for coffee and have an intelligent conversation about dick makes me more confident in my ability to handle my own. Society, at least the one I live in, has really screwed men on this subject. You just don't hear guys having this conversation on line at the supermarket:

"Hey, nice to see you again. How's that blister on your glans coming along?"
"Oh, thanks for asking, it's much better. Been hot wrapping and taking some supplements."
"Cool buddy! I was worried about your cock. Glad to know it's alright. Any girth gains lately?"

If shit like that took place with no worries, performance anxiety would probably be very rare.

4) Speaking of which! Performance Anxiety, ED, PreE, and a bunch of other things, are embarrassing issues, but they are way more common than one might think. Especially if you suffer from any of them! That you're not alone is always a tiny bit comforting when dealing with personal issues. But when you realize that there are lots of people not only dealing with some version of your particular soul crushing nightmare, but fighting it like a champ, and fucking winning, it's hard not to feel inspired!

5) I have learned a lot of things from from The Passionate Wife thread (HERE: https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/654...nate-wife.html ), and here's just a few: There's a big scary guy called CUSP82 around here, he carries a large, heavy, hammer. Not saying he's killed anybody, but he probably knows where some bodies are buried. There's a guy called Toadstool too, and his favorite color is POON! There's a Mr. and a Mrs. Looking4More and they're both very nice, but if they offer you something they call "punch" it's probably not Hawaiian, and it would probably melt lead, just run, you can't handle the punch! Oh, yeah, and JonPop will call the cops if you make too much noise.

Finally (for now): There's a whole lot more to life than the size of your penis, but if you're going to try growing yourself a bigger one, you couldn't ask for a better bunch to do it with than you'll find here.