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    What steps for correcting ED Anythould include wife anything llike hot chat,playing for her benefit (remove pressure to get hard on) or toy shopping for new toys for her or maybe full body massage for both but aree non sexual but if it happens so be it. Anything helpful to include her?

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    Whatever the issue, having a trusted sexual partner can be extremely beneficial for treatment.

    Can you elaborate on your specific type of ED?
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    • #3
      Great communication is the biggest key. She will think that it is somehow her fault, that she is not sexy enough. You can also talk about what gets you really excited and see what she is willing to do to help. Dirty talk, lubes, and trying new things. Also talk about what excites her and gets her going. I know for ZZM and I, if one of us is getting the other all hot and bothered it increases the arousal level of the one doing the teasing. We are always trying to out tease each other.

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      • #4
        As for what type,beats me.(not literally ). Stress,lack of wife body being part of anything sexual for ver y extended time,MArriage stuff happens and then it don't.Family has history of diabetes. With wife not playing and use some porn for masturbation (a lot of images of her also) .I have found out internet porn might cause issues,dropped that.Hell my wife is hot enough to give me inspiration for getting nut. Pretty sure she know not her causing problem I tell her how hot she is and what a turn on she is.

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          Are there any scenarios where you function perfectly fine?
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          • #6
            Glad you dumped the porn, especially given your wife is hot to begin with and you know it, and probably she is devoted too but unsure whats happening.. Porn is overall a nasty business, IMO it doesn't need support by anyone already devoted to someone else, especially. I know of peoples lives ruined by that stuff. To each his or her own but that's my view.

            I had some ED after retiring, no apparent reason except perhaps something psychological over not going to work/lifestyle change/ getting older etc. So, a couple of years of that and I took my penis into my hands so to speak. Upped the supplements, added afternoon black tea with herbs, learned how to multi O ( it's nice to be super erect when orgasming but not essential), and most recently started a light penis workout, which I'm 6 weeks into, this time. Things seem to have greatly improved. But though My wife is supportive and that helps, I think she thinks I've turned a bit weird. We always had a hot sex life, still she isn't quite understanding this orgasm with no ejaculate stuff and so she is a little gun shy, first if I will actually stay up, and then confused with it's hard now but doesn't blow off. All you can do is keep the communication open. Meanwhile you might try and do a little penis workout yourself. It's far better than porn, you might gain some erection health and if you work on it enough, learn to multi O too.

            But I think it's very important for a guy to know his wife is fully on board, will stick by his side and also for the wife to know that this whole thing isn't her fault.
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            Last edited by pinkie; 07-16-2017, 03:52 PM.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by TheZZWoman View Post
              Great communication is the biggest key. She will think that it is somehow her fault, that she is not sexy enough. You can also talk about what gets you really excited and see what she is willing to do to help. Dirty talk, lubes, and trying new things. Also talk about what excites her and gets her going. I know for ZZM and I, if one of us is getting the other all hot and bothered it increases the arousal level of the one doing the teasing. We are always trying to out tease each other.
              very much agree with this. I had ED for five years before I started Viagra. She thought it was her fault. 'I'm just not attractive to you anymore ". BS of course. I just couldn't stay hard and then anxiety over it after her crying made it worse. Very dark days.

              Kinda like these days but for much more serious reasons.
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