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So I suffered from erectile dysfunction ever since being a teenager. I finally made some progress this year. I quit watching pornography six months ago. I don't think that caused it but I agreed at a minimum it wasn't helping so I gave it up. I started taking medication to treat my ED which also helped. I met new partners and started to condition myself to be comfortable and respond to them.
It was going well. I regained confidence and thought I was putting the nightmare of erectile dysfunction behind me. But then the past two times I tried to have sex it didn't go so well. Both times I was able to get hard... eventually... but it took a lot of stimulation and it was embarrassing how long it took me to get an erection. And I was very into the people and in the mood mentally. It's true that during both of these times I may not have been on my best because I didn't eat well those days and may have been nervous, but I hate that my erection quality is so vulnerable where if even the slightest thing is out of whack then I can't perform.
I suspect that sensitivity loss from being circumcised is what caused this problem (not by my choice). I can hardly feel anything down there. I use foreskin restoration stretching techniques but those only have been going so far.
I just don't know what else I can do other than continue to abstain from porn and take the pills to treat ED.
It was going well. I regained confidence and thought I was putting the nightmare of erectile dysfunction behind me. But then the past two times I tried to have sex it didn't go so well. Both times I was able to get hard... eventually... but it took a lot of stimulation and it was embarrassing how long it took me to get an erection. And I was very into the people and in the mood mentally. It's true that during both of these times I may not have been on my best because I didn't eat well those days and may have been nervous, but I hate that my erection quality is so vulnerable where if even the slightest thing is out of whack then I can't perform.
I suspect that sensitivity loss from being circumcised is what caused this problem (not by my choice). I can hardly feel anything down there. I use foreskin restoration stretching techniques but those only have been going so far.
I just don't know what else I can do other than continue to abstain from porn and take the pills to treat ED.
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