really really fed up now

[fedupwithitall Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fedupwithitall]

Hi Guys

I really am at my wits end. I have been watching porn for 10 years and can get it hard while watching porn but i cant get it hard with my wife when shes watching. I go hot and start to get palpatations.

Wtf is going on? Im age 46, weight train and have a great body with 10 percent or so body fat. My erections have become weaker for the last 2 years but im not sure if its porn or just me aging.

I can still cum buckets and have big balls etc and my muscles are ripped without steroids, so must have plenty of testosterone still and im quite agressive in life and take on anyone!

Whats going on guys, does every man lose erections at 40+? Why does this happen? And why can i get hard at porn? Although sometimes i cum before its hard.

Im lost, it seems im ok when im on my own. I thought about viagra but people say its dangerous, but why would men over 40 need viagra? Surely something cannot go so wrong so quick in the blood flow of a man?


Today i came over my wife, but it was flaccid because the bastard wouldnd go up!!!

Thanks for listening.

[Satures Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Satures]

You should stop watching porn, that alone would help a lot.

Besides that, maybe quite masturbating and just focus on intercourse.

[fedupwithitall Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fedupwithitall]

You should stop watching porn, that alone would help a lot.

Besides that, maybe quite masturbating and just focus on intercourse.

Ok but why has it caused this please? I cant even get erections in the morning anymore and masturbate sometimes 4 times daily. I didnt think this was that much? It also seems my mind is disconnected to my wife but not to porn which excites me greatly. Im confused, my naked wife in fornt of me and i cant do shit! Put a naked wife on the tv screen and i can get hard.

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

Im suicidal and fed up.

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[fedupwithitall Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fedupwithitall]

This forum is not equipped to handle suicide-oriented discussions, and it is not appropriate that we do so. Please understand that we all want to be helpful.... but this sort of thing is best dealt with by professionals.


To any member in need: if you are having thoughts of suicide please call [US] 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or visit National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - With Help Comes Hope for immediate assistance.
Lifeline

A list of suicide prevention hotlines for each region and country.
International Association for Suicide Prevention (IASP) - Resources: Crisis Centers

My bad, didnt mean it literally. Taken off

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Read about porno induced erectile dysfunction. You are a porno addict. Your brain gets it's dopamine from digital and doesn't want to spend the energy using your penis anymore. Yourbrainonporndotcom is a good resource.

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

1. lose the porn
2. no masturbating, limit sexual experiences to (you and your wife).
3. This:

My erections have become weaker for the last 2 years but im not sure if its porn or just me aging.

Discuss this with your doctor; put that at the top of your list.
4. Possibility of something with Pelvic floor, maybe because of your weight lifting ? Perhaps fellow Admin Pegasus can offer an opinion.
research by reading the sticky posts in this forum and include this one:
https://www.pegym.com/forums/erectil...-problems.html

to the forums too !

[fedupwithitall Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fedupwithitall]

1. lose the porn
2. no masturbating, limit sexual experiences to (you and your wife).
3. This:

Discuss this with your doctor; put that at the top of your list.
4. Possibility of something with Pelvic floor, maybe because of your weight lifting ? Perhaps fellow Admin Pegasus can offer an opinion.
research by reading the sticky posts in this forum and include this one:
https://www.pegym.com/forums/erectil...-problems.html

to the forums too !

Thanks and love shaun the sheep too!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Looks like porn is the most likely culprit to me.

[HansTwilight Retired ModeratorPE Gym Editor Member of the Month Jan 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close HansTwilight]

4x a day is over 9 times as much as you should be masturbating in a given week. That's a porn addiction. Quit porn for 90 days, stop masturbating for 2 weeks, and only have sex with your wife and report back.
I used to be a porn addict (3x a day) and my erections were shit, Now after half a year, my erections and libido is great. Trust me, it;s the porn.