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So I posted the other day but I feel like I'm still dealing with this issue. I have a new partner I'm extremely attracted to in every way, not only physical. When we hang out I'm able to have sex and perform well. But that's about it.
After the first round I find it nearly impossible to go again without a multiple hour wait period. I didn't used to be like this. Even last year I was able to have sex with a girl and go again maybe a half hour later or an hour at the most.
This is distressing to me because the girl I'm with has a very high sex drive. She say she's okay with whatever but I know we'd both be happier were I able to perform more frequently.
I've also noticed that I don't have morning wood every day. It seems like most days I do, but definitely not every day. And when I do it's not exactly rock hard. I've also been a bit stressed lately, coming off a long period of unemployment and just started a new job. In addition I am slightly overweight, I smoke, and have a history of drug usage including cocaine, most recent use was a month ago. At that time I had used cocaine while masturbating and watching pornography, and due to the vasoconstrictive effects I lost my erection and ejaculated while going flaccid. I also have a history of regular alcohol usage, usually drinking at least a beer or two most nights of the week.
I've decided to quit drinking and smoking marijuana, and I'm working on quitting the cigarettes.
I'm just very upset over all of this. I'm usually pretty bad w women and in general do not get to have a lot of sex. I finally have a partner who wants it all the time and I couldn't be happier with her for the most part. Really I just want to be able to get hard and have sex at least 2 or 3 times when she's over. Furthermore I worry that since im only 26 this will get worse with time. I've looked into some herbal supplements and the like, but really don't want to have to take Viagra or cialis or something like that at such a young age. I've also had a fat boil on my inner thigh that comes and goes but has been somewhat constant for a couple of months.
I know my situation sounds unique but I'm just wondering if there's hope that I can recover and get back to normal in a natural way. Are there any men here who have experienced a similar decline in libido and performance and came back from it? Any advice is appreciated. Thanks for reading
I can provide more info as well. I have dealt with ED due to anxiety/mental issues in the past after a drug binge more or less and things came back after 6 months. This time feels kind of different.
After the first round I find it nearly impossible to go again without a multiple hour wait period. I didn't used to be like this. Even last year I was able to have sex with a girl and go again maybe a half hour later or an hour at the most.
This is distressing to me because the girl I'm with has a very high sex drive. She say she's okay with whatever but I know we'd both be happier were I able to perform more frequently.
I've also noticed that I don't have morning wood every day. It seems like most days I do, but definitely not every day. And when I do it's not exactly rock hard. I've also been a bit stressed lately, coming off a long period of unemployment and just started a new job. In addition I am slightly overweight, I smoke, and have a history of drug usage including cocaine, most recent use was a month ago. At that time I had used cocaine while masturbating and watching pornography, and due to the vasoconstrictive effects I lost my erection and ejaculated while going flaccid. I also have a history of regular alcohol usage, usually drinking at least a beer or two most nights of the week.
I've decided to quit drinking and smoking marijuana, and I'm working on quitting the cigarettes.
I'm just very upset over all of this. I'm usually pretty bad w women and in general do not get to have a lot of sex. I finally have a partner who wants it all the time and I couldn't be happier with her for the most part. Really I just want to be able to get hard and have sex at least 2 or 3 times when she's over. Furthermore I worry that since im only 26 this will get worse with time. I've looked into some herbal supplements and the like, but really don't want to have to take Viagra or cialis or something like that at such a young age. I've also had a fat boil on my inner thigh that comes and goes but has been somewhat constant for a couple of months.
I know my situation sounds unique but I'm just wondering if there's hope that I can recover and get back to normal in a natural way. Are there any men here who have experienced a similar decline in libido and performance and came back from it? Any advice is appreciated. Thanks for reading
I can provide more info as well. I have dealt with ED due to anxiety/mental issues in the past after a drug binge more or less and things came back after 6 months. This time feels kind of different.
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