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I am a fit 21 year old, I don't do drugs, only drink and smoke on some weekends I have always had trouble having a boner while drunk, most one night stands is a real struggle and so I kinda just avoid them now but I never had a problem sober until today, I have been friends with a really sexy girl for about 2 years we go out drinking together a lot, prior to this she had a bf so I only saw her as a mate as I don't **** with a guys gf's even though I always knew she liked me, but anyway one day we're talking she says she wants to become fwb and I am down.
She only has a couple hours but she comes over to mine, I was worried I wouldn't get a boner before she even came even though the past few days she had been sending me nudes and talking dirty and I had no problem then, as we get into the foreplay terror of terrors my dick doesn't even budge... I had heard tell of performance anxiety and so I decided I would simply just "Get into it" and just tried to enjoy it, even though I was admittedly nervous she even said as much, I could feel my adrenaline going and I was always thinking "Am I getting hard" despite trying not to, eventually I got hard enough for her to give me a brief BF before I said I wanted to **** her but by the time she was in position I was limp again.....
I played it pretty cool afterwards, we just chatted some **** and I pretended not to care, she thought it was her fault I just said I was nervous and it'll be different in the future when i'm more comfortable. In the past I have never had a problem ****ing girls, especially girls I didn't find attractive or really like so I am unsure why I did now she said we should try again later and was rather annoyingly understanding.
I am really quite annoyed right now, scratch that royally pissed off at myself I feel like I wanna break **** so perhaps some advice?
1) What might've caused this
2) How do I prevent this? (Without drugs/herbal-**** preferably)
3) What should I do with the girl now? I feel conflicted to bring it up as on one hand it's not very attractive and on the other it's ****ing annoying me. This happened to me before on a couple one night stands (While drunk) and the girls just cut contact.
I am a fit 21 year old, I don't do drugs, only drink and smoke on some weekends I have always had trouble having a boner while drunk, most one night stands is a real struggle and so I kinda just avoid them now but I never had a problem sober until today, I have been friends with a really sexy girl for about 2 years we go out drinking together a lot, prior to this she had a bf so I only saw her as a mate as I don't **** with a guys gf's even though I always knew she liked me, but anyway one day we're talking she says she wants to become fwb and I am down.
She only has a couple hours but she comes over to mine, I was worried I wouldn't get a boner before she even came even though the past few days she had been sending me nudes and talking dirty and I had no problem then, as we get into the foreplay terror of terrors my dick doesn't even budge... I had heard tell of performance anxiety and so I decided I would simply just "Get into it" and just tried to enjoy it, even though I was admittedly nervous she even said as much, I could feel my adrenaline going and I was always thinking "Am I getting hard" despite trying not to, eventually I got hard enough for her to give me a brief BF before I said I wanted to **** her but by the time she was in position I was limp again.....
I played it pretty cool afterwards, we just chatted some **** and I pretended not to care, she thought it was her fault I just said I was nervous and it'll be different in the future when i'm more comfortable. In the past I have never had a problem ****ing girls, especially girls I didn't find attractive or really like so I am unsure why I did now she said we should try again later and was rather annoyingly understanding.
I am really quite annoyed right now, scratch that royally pissed off at myself I feel like I wanna break **** so perhaps some advice?
1) What might've caused this
2) How do I prevent this? (Without drugs/herbal-**** preferably)
3) What should I do with the girl now? I feel conflicted to bring it up as on one hand it's not very attractive and on the other it's ****ing annoying me. This happened to me before on a couple one night stands (While drunk) and the girls just cut contact.
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