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[Guess What8 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Guess What8]

I'm virgin and when the rare cases to have sex came I couldn't take them.
I thought it was the fault of the alcohool, but I can't do it even when I don't drink alcohool, and I couldn't have sex even with a girl that I were in a "term".
I can get hard alone, but not with women. I told about this to my doctor, and seems like I have a kind of depression or anxiety; so he told to me to consult a psychologist and I'm doing it.
I'm already trying to eat well and I do exercise almost everyday.


But I still have this problem, and voices run if this happens when I try with a girl who knows my friends. This is too embarassing.
I was thinking about buying something like viagra, or natural supplement in pills; i don't know if I can write names of products; but I know i can go ahead in these conditions.
Any tips?

[icemocha Member Find all posts View Profile Close icemocha]

Hey man its pretty normal to not being popping wood the first time with a girl. If you can do it solo (without porn?), you will be able to do it with a girl, its all nerves.

you can try

get naked with a girl if ya dicks not working, kiss her explore her body etc, ask her to play with her clit, and do some mutual masturbation
tell her it needs to be wetter, and get ya dick sucked
basically take the time to get comfortable, and address it if it doesnt work "oh give me a sec, come sit here i wanna suck your titties"

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Now that is great advice!

[Guess What8 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Guess What8]

Hey man its pretty normal to not being popping wood the first time with a girl. If you can do it solo (without porn?), you will be able to do it with a girl, its all nerves.

you can try

get naked with a girl if ya dicks not working, kiss her explore her body etc, ask her to play with her clit, and do some mutual masturbation
tell her it needs to be wetter, and get ya dick sucked
basically take the time to get comfortable, and address it if it doesnt work "oh give me a sec, come sit here i wanna suck your titties"

I already tried all of these. Licking her body, playing with boobs, let her suck me, mastubation, everything and still here. It is not I tried once.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

You just need to relax. It happens to all rookies. Oh and drinking doesn't make it better only worse.

[Guess What8 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Guess What8]

I cutted out drinking much, but the fact is I can't predict when I'll have sex.
And I tried to relax, but it doesn't seem working; it's like the 6th times that it happens; i'm just being humiliated again and again.
Are you sure there isn't some product online that can help me?

[NOWHARD Banned Find all posts View Profile Close NOWHARD]

Hi Its first night frights, lots of us guys have had it at some point in our lives, like you have been doing get naked and just enjoy the moment when your like this with a women, but just keep going and your get there but in all the time your there never think about your penis, just think about her all the time your with her, this is where your thoughts have to be.

Try some wine and candle light, its soft and just sip the wine don't gulp it, its just to relax you both, find a book called Love Play by DR David Delvin your find a cheap second hand one on ABEbooks.com and keep this next to your bed and just keep reading it, and if you want more go read on Dodson and ross site, all those question your afraid to ask, there you will find all your answers, its done in the way of letters to DR Betty Dodson and her answer which your find there very straight and she pulls no punch's doing so, this you should enjoy, have a look down the right hand side at her topics, your should find something about first time sex.

NOWHARD

[Guess What8 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Guess What8]

I can't do this big scene with a girl. I have not a girlfriend and when i'm going to have sex i am never at home. In the car, behind a tree or in a toilette.

[HansTwilight Retired ModeratorPE Gym Editor Member of the Month Jan 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close HansTwilight]

Happened to me on my first. Big Al's stop and start routine actually helped me with this, the more sexually confident you are the better you perform. It is a necessity. Practice sexual confidence. You have a mindset of worrying and instead you need to have a mindset of, "Fuck yea, I'm the man and I am going to fuck this girl and she's gonna love it." Sounds corny but that's what goes through my mind. Trust me, it's confidence that's the answer. Also no porn.

[MarchSalami Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MarchSalami]

And if you want a little cheat I would recommend L-citruline. It increases blood flow!

And don't stress it. It will all come together eventually.

[Ron NB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ron NB]

I'm virgin and when the rare cases to have sex came I couldn't take them.
I thought it was the fault of the alcohool, but I can't do it even when I don't drink alcohool, and I couldn't have sex even with a girl that I were in a "term".
I can get hard alone, but not with women. I told about this to my doctor, and seems like I have a kind of depression or anxiety; so he told to me to consult a psychologist and I'm doing it.
I'm already trying to eat well and I do exercise almost everyday.


But I still have this problem, and voices run if this happens when I try with a girl who knows my friends. This is too embarassing.
I was thinking about buying something like viagra, or natural supplement in pills; i don't know if I can write names of products; but I know i can go ahead in these conditions.
Any tips?

I've had the same problem back in the day, I struggled with this a lot. To me I think it was the disadvantage of being raised by prudish parents and a traumatizing childhood maybe.
My first time was the most difficult one, the only luck I had was my girlfriend who really wanted it and she was very patient.
I've tried some pills to boost my confidence, they did not help.
I can't explain why, but the only thing that worked for me was to do the first load by hand.
Masturbate and spray it in her mouth, on tits/chest area or back/butt.
I always had to do this to all my girlfriends before our first time. It was always kind of awkward to explain and do this.
In retrospect I would have done it in a more subtle way, after telling her about this, just give her a one hand back massage and spray the trail on her back.
That's the personal experience I can share, you gotta find your own method to overcome this barrier. I hope you'll succeed.

[Guess What8 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Guess What8]

How can I spray something if I can't get hard??

Anyway..
Just to be sure, I bought some natural pills.
Now I will try to stop with porn and masturbation too.
Confidence do not come out from nothing, and the fact that girls have a LOT of experience and that they are looking for 7'' size (at least), doesn't help me.

[Ron NB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ron NB]

You can't get hard from manual stimulation either ?
If you want to try pills, I would recommend naturals that make you relaxed.
If you are young, healthy and virgin, I think the stress is what stops you from functioning properly.
You must stop worrying about size, regular women don't care about it that much. If I were you, I would stay away from women who set penis size expectations, if you have average size, you should be fine.

[Guess What8 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Guess What8]

You can't get hard from manual stimulation either ?

No, with them.

If you want to try pills, I would recommend naturals that make you relaxed.
If you are young, healthy and virgin, I think the stress is what stops you from functioning properly.

It is something for the libido, for being relaxed I will try something like tea.

If I were you, I would stay away from women who set penis size expectations,

easier said than done

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Your issue is, by your own admittance, a psychological one. Stop putting so much unnecessary pressure on yourself, and only engage in sexual activity when you feel ready to and with a trusted partner. This will make the experience much more positive and worthwhile for you.