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Hi,
Here are my stats:
35yo, non smoker, exercise every day, diet is good, relatively fit and muscular.
I take steroids on cycles. They changed my life around for the better and I never plan to stop them completely (I probably will have to be on TRT, which I dont mind).
Here is my problem: I get good 9/10, even 10/10 erections when I am making out/kissing the right girl. But after 2-3 minutes of sex it goes down to like 7/10, or even 6/10. I try very hard to keep focused and be hard and takes frequent breaks for blowjobs, which helps, but many times sex ends with me going completely soft, or goes for so long I get tired and bored. The only exception is when I am super excited (or havent cum for couple of days) and then I ejaculate in the first 1-2 minutes which is not good also.
So the goal is to maintain this high EQ throughout the whole game. What would be a good strategy/therapy to get there?
ps. - Several observations:
- My testosterone levels have small impact on my EQ. I can get hard with a test level of 130. The only difference is in libido and desire. When low test I dont think about sex, or have sexual fantasies. Just when the time comes and get to touch, feel, taste and smell the girl I get into it like a reflex. When test is high I think about it a lot and get random boners and sex is twice a day, 7 days a week.
- I see pressure on my penis has some influence on the EQ. It is like the harder the squeeze, the more I lose blood in it. It is worst in anal sex and best in blowjobs (no deepthroat)
- I took small dose of viagra every day throughout 2017. This year I take cialis 15mg every 3-4 days.
- I do watch porn, but not regularly, I have lost interest and stopped for years. I never masturbate, or get hard on porn. I use it for inspiration to do kinky stuff with my GF and friends (we are swingers, so a lot of group sex). My arousal is less visual and more about touch, taste, smell.
Here are my stats:
35yo, non smoker, exercise every day, diet is good, relatively fit and muscular.
I take steroids on cycles. They changed my life around for the better and I never plan to stop them completely (I probably will have to be on TRT, which I dont mind).
Here is my problem: I get good 9/10, even 10/10 erections when I am making out/kissing the right girl. But after 2-3 minutes of sex it goes down to like 7/10, or even 6/10. I try very hard to keep focused and be hard and takes frequent breaks for blowjobs, which helps, but many times sex ends with me going completely soft, or goes for so long I get tired and bored. The only exception is when I am super excited (or havent cum for couple of days) and then I ejaculate in the first 1-2 minutes which is not good also.
So the goal is to maintain this high EQ throughout the whole game. What would be a good strategy/therapy to get there?
ps. - Several observations:
- My testosterone levels have small impact on my EQ. I can get hard with a test level of 130. The only difference is in libido and desire. When low test I dont think about sex, or have sexual fantasies. Just when the time comes and get to touch, feel, taste and smell the girl I get into it like a reflex. When test is high I think about it a lot and get random boners and sex is twice a day, 7 days a week.
- I see pressure on my penis has some influence on the EQ. It is like the harder the squeeze, the more I lose blood in it. It is worst in anal sex and best in blowjobs (no deepthroat)
- I took small dose of viagra every day throughout 2017. This year I take cialis 15mg every 3-4 days.
- I do watch porn, but not regularly, I have lost interest and stopped for years. I never masturbate, or get hard on porn. I use it for inspiration to do kinky stuff with my GF and friends (we are swingers, so a lot of group sex). My arousal is less visual and more about touch, taste, smell.
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