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So I realized recently that I was doing kegels before I knew what they were-since I was maybe 12 or so.
My nocturnal emissions (before being sexually active) produced so much semen that I'd wake up and still be ejaculating. My underwear would sag as I sneaked to the bathroom, trying to keep it in.
In my 20s and 30s I could have sex for a very long time, pretty much control when I ejaculated. I mean I could pretty much just clench a bit and it wouldn't happen. When I did cum, I ejaculated in enormous quantity for several long spurts, to the point that I remember a long term girlfriend being shocked the first time she saw what happened.
My orgasms were intense; to the point I would sometimes go into spasms-and I mean spasms where I would collapse or at least be hardly able to move voluntarily. I used to be able to orgasm like this and then keep going for easily two more rounds (with less ejaculate but still some). Even after that, I would still be rock hard, but too sensitive to touch for a few minutes.
Yeah, I know it was a lot to do with my age: now I'm in my early 50s and of course it has greatly diminished. But I don't think it should be this much.
I have been experiencing what seems like "hard flaccid". My penis will be about 5" long lying in bed when I wake up: very soft. But when I get up, by the time I get to the bathroom it's 3-4" and rubbery. Sometimes it will shrink even more. Sometimes my testicles will shrivel, sometimes not. When I pee sometimes I feel a burning: sometimes mild, sometimes intense. I get the not fully drained sensation. and sometimes it leaks a few drops: can be very embarrassing.
Doctor says I have prostititis or however the hell its spelled. Recently did an exam and I am clear of cancer etc.
Erections have been difficult to maintain, and I ejaculate fast. Haven't noticed morning wood. It is impossible to enter my wife unless I clench my kegel hard and also the base of my penis to get it somewhat hard enough-and that's with plenty of lube and still very difficult. Before it was still difficult to get in fully hard, but not because of the penis flexing-just because of fit. Not a bad thing, because she likes that it is difficult to get in. But again, now I can't get in because it's too soft and the resistance.
Before, my penis would fill up the 2" wide tube in about 20 minutes at about 5, to thepoint that it was difficult to remove the tube.. Then I could switch to the 2.25" tube and it would swell even more: almost 7" in circumference: I'd say. about 6.7".
Now it isn't filling the 2" tube anymore and this is all happening. The head does swell more though.
I have been air pumping and think I overdid a session without warming up. Got careless and maybe I am paying for it now. Also, maybe all the years of kegling? I'm also under lots of stress right now.
I have read of different solutions, and one of them has been touted as working very well and fast: the one that you stick in your butt and move it around. I don't treasure the idea of sticking something in my butt. BUT... if this is the way to fix this... maybe??? I read it doesn't go in deep like some sex toy, but just barely, which is good, if that's true. Are there better ways that don't involve the butt prodding?
Anybody have advice? I am frustrated beyond words!
Thanks in advance!!!
My nocturnal emissions (before being sexually active) produced so much semen that I'd wake up and still be ejaculating. My underwear would sag as I sneaked to the bathroom, trying to keep it in.
In my 20s and 30s I could have sex for a very long time, pretty much control when I ejaculated. I mean I could pretty much just clench a bit and it wouldn't happen. When I did cum, I ejaculated in enormous quantity for several long spurts, to the point that I remember a long term girlfriend being shocked the first time she saw what happened.
My orgasms were intense; to the point I would sometimes go into spasms-and I mean spasms where I would collapse or at least be hardly able to move voluntarily. I used to be able to orgasm like this and then keep going for easily two more rounds (with less ejaculate but still some). Even after that, I would still be rock hard, but too sensitive to touch for a few minutes.
Yeah, I know it was a lot to do with my age: now I'm in my early 50s and of course it has greatly diminished. But I don't think it should be this much.
I have been experiencing what seems like "hard flaccid". My penis will be about 5" long lying in bed when I wake up: very soft. But when I get up, by the time I get to the bathroom it's 3-4" and rubbery. Sometimes it will shrink even more. Sometimes my testicles will shrivel, sometimes not. When I pee sometimes I feel a burning: sometimes mild, sometimes intense. I get the not fully drained sensation. and sometimes it leaks a few drops: can be very embarrassing.
Doctor says I have prostititis or however the hell its spelled. Recently did an exam and I am clear of cancer etc.
Erections have been difficult to maintain, and I ejaculate fast. Haven't noticed morning wood. It is impossible to enter my wife unless I clench my kegel hard and also the base of my penis to get it somewhat hard enough-and that's with plenty of lube and still very difficult. Before it was still difficult to get in fully hard, but not because of the penis flexing-just because of fit. Not a bad thing, because she likes that it is difficult to get in. But again, now I can't get in because it's too soft and the resistance.
Before, my penis would fill up the 2" wide tube in about 20 minutes at about 5, to thepoint that it was difficult to remove the tube.. Then I could switch to the 2.25" tube and it would swell even more: almost 7" in circumference: I'd say. about 6.7".
Now it isn't filling the 2" tube anymore and this is all happening. The head does swell more though.
I have been air pumping and think I overdid a session without warming up. Got careless and maybe I am paying for it now. Also, maybe all the years of kegling? I'm also under lots of stress right now.
I have read of different solutions, and one of them has been touted as working very well and fast: the one that you stick in your butt and move it around. I don't treasure the idea of sticking something in my butt. BUT... if this is the way to fix this... maybe??? I read it doesn't go in deep like some sex toy, but just barely, which is good, if that's true. Are there better ways that don't involve the butt prodding?
Anybody have advice? I am frustrated beyond words!
Thanks in advance!!!
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