Heard about "coming-too-late" ?

[Lozan Member Find all posts View Profile Close Lozan]

Hey. I really don't know where to begin. Ok. I've been with a girl now. We've had some sex. She enjoyed it ALOT. But I..The problem is that I can't feel the pleasure. I do cum, but I can't feel so much of it BEFORE I do. I feel her all the way. The problem is deffinetely not in her, but in me. I am sure that the sensitivity of my penis is impaired. Which I'm scared off. This is certainly because of masturbation. With hard grip. I know that for sure. I just feel it going in and out when I'm doing her, nothing else. When I'm about to cum, it's heavenly. But. I need to fuck real hard and fast so I can feel it. Haha, it is actually funny too and it's sucks really at the same time Therefore I believe sensitivity of my penis is impaired.

Anyone. Please say to me that it is possible to recover the sensitivity. PLEASE. I don't know what to do. I feel awful. I know for sure that I won't be masturbating like that again. There's gotta be a way to fix my problem. Anyone. Please reply. I'm healthy as hell. Don't drink nor smoke. I train and eat healthy.

One more thing. As you can see my profile is one year old. I haven't PEed yet. I plan to start real soon. Would PE help me to recover my penis? Please say so..

Once again. I'm really scared and I wan't to enjoy it as much as she does...

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

How is your EQ?
I found that building up my PC/BC muscles put more blood into my erection and that kicked up my sensitivity.

[hirstwood Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hirstwood]

leave your penis alone for a while and concentrate on arousal more than sensitivity, as pirate said how is your EQ?

[blink2000 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close blink2000]

Stop doing the things that made you lose sensitivity & give it time. Some nerves can grow back after damage, but they wont if you keep doing the same thing that made you lose feeling in the first place.

I agree with Pirate, PE stamina work may help too.

[Lozan Member Find all posts View Profile Close Lozan]

My EQ is fine. I get hard erections. I get many of them too and my girlfriend is impressed actually, but my sensitivity. Damn it..I know that my EQ can get better but not that much.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

Follow what the other guys have posted - kegel profusely, keep your hands to yourself and your sensitivity will return. Since you're EQ is very good, it should not take too long to regain it.

[Lozan Member Find all posts View Profile Close Lozan]

Thank you all. I really appreciate it. Maybe there is a way for me to fix this. I want to start lightly jelging and kegeling next week and build it up. I remember when I did PE some time ago. It feelt great and I can't wait to have that feeling again

[Chuck6877 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Chuck6877]

Something that works for me:
When I want to ejaculate I hold a kegel as long as possible. Just keep holding kegels.

It sounds counterintuitive I know.... but I read a book on Premature Ejaculation and it talks about how people without their knowledge have Premature Ejacs when they inadvertantly keep their kegel muscle tightened.

I've cured my PE with this knowledge of relaxing the kegel muscle during sex, and found that I could ejac within 2 minutes of really trying by holding the kegel and tightening the PC(kegel) muscle.....

Give it a try....
Chuck

[Flanker6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Flanker6]

I have the same problem man. I can't even come from using a condom, and blow jobs can take a while also. My advice? Cut out as much masturbating as you can. Since you have a girl now, I'd say cut out all of it. Edge the hell out of your dick but DON'T come. When sexy time rolls around you'll be so horny it'll be hard for you to NOT come.

[Bandit Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bandit]

Hahaha! Awesome! I have this too! Well a bit anyway. I don't feel pleasure from cuming either, other than a few times. I think it's a brain chemical problem, nothing really feels good. But I also used a hard grip. However except for maybe 10 times if that, I haven't masturbated in the past 2 years or so. Stopping didn't do anything for me.

But, I still enjoy sex a helluva lot- I enjoy her reactions. Hell, I'm premature! Quite the impressive feat when sex doesn't actually feel good, eh?

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

But, I still enjoy sex a helluva lot- I enjoy her reactions. Hell, I'm premature! Quite the impressive feat when sex doesn't actually feel good, eh?

Impressive? A bit awkward and sad maybe ... so what sort of sensations, if any, do you feel?

[Lozan Member Find all posts View Profile Close Lozan]

I have the same problem man. I can't even come from using a condom, and blow jobs can take a while also. My advice? Cut out as much masturbating as you can. Since you have a girl now, I'd say cut out all of it. Edge the hell out of your dick but DON'T come. When sexy time rolls around you'll be so horny it'll be hard for you to NOT come.

Damn. I will cut all of it. I have to Thanks. I've done some edging before. A couple of times. It sure does make me horny as hell I will take edging in my program Thank you.

Hahaha! Awesome! I have this too! Well a bit anyway. I don't feel pleasure from cuming either, other than a few times. I think it's a brain chemical problem, nothing really feels good. But I also used a hard grip. However except for maybe 10 times if that, I haven't masturbated in the past 2 years or so. Stopping didn't do anything for me.

But, I still enjoy sex a helluva lot- I enjoy her reactions. Hell, I'm premature! Quite the impressive feat when sex doesn't actually feel good, eh?

You don't even feel pleasre from cuming either??? Maan..That's sad...and stopping didn't do anything? Damn it. I dont really know what to do now..

I do enjoy her reactions too. I almost cum because of that. When it comes to the last point. Not feeling anything?? That's sad. I want to feel it

Impressive? A bit awkward and sad maybe ... so what sort of sensations, if any, do you feel?

Im about the same, GettinThereOK. Sad if you ask me...

[Lozan Member Find all posts View Profile Close Lozan]

One more thing when it comes to the sensitivity. When I watched porn I used to grip my dick when I had on my pants and masturbated. Yes, I know, I shouldn't have. You may also think "What?! With pants on?! What's wrong with you?!" but I didn't do it that long. I believe bacause of being rubbed against my pants and underwear it doesn't feel so much of it when I'm having sex


Edit: Not jeans, but sports pants..They are so comfortable.

Edit2: Im certain that it is of my unusual masturbation. Damn it. You cant be any dumber than that!

[Flanker6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Flanker6]

One more thing when it comes to the sensitivity. When I watched porn I used to grip my dick when I had on my pants and masturbated. Yes, I know, I shouldn't have. You may also think "What?! With pants on?! What's wrong with you?!" but I didn't do it that long. I believe bacause of being rubbed against my pants and underwear it doesn't feel so much of it when I'm having sex


Edit: Not jeans, but sports pants..They are so comfortable.

Edit2: Im certain that it is of my unusual masturbation. Damn it. You cant be any dumber than that!

I used blankets a lot in my early years of masturbating and I feel like it calloused my dick quite a bit. Sure blankets are soft but it does cause friction because it ain't wet. Oh why didn't I use lotion earlier...sigh.

[steve123 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close steve123]

Hey,

1) clinical term is delayed ejaculation.

2) Do you take any medication? prescription or over the counter?