Sex toy and suddenly penis is dead :(

[noivce101 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close noivce101]

Hi everyone, this is such a great place to get help. I hope I will be helped on this problem too.

I'm 25 and four weeks ago I bought a sex toy (artificial vagina, lol). It was very tight. I masturbated with it like 2-3 times. It was way too tight and I think I was too eager to experiment. I jerked really hard. Suddenly the very next day, I stopped getting erections. Even watching porn didn't help me and still doesn't. I was able to masturbate but with hardly half erection. I thought that I should give it some rest and the problem will get cured by time. Now it is almost a month, now I even got another problem of having "no" desire to have sex!

I don't know what happened that day. before that my sex drive was crazy I could even masturbate like 6 times (long sessions) a day without getting much tired. And now no sexual desire and no erection. Have I broken some important nerve in my penis? I can get the erection but it is not like it used to be plus no sexual desires that worries me more I have been doing kegal exercised for the last 10 days, no result.

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

There are valves that control the blood flow into/out of the penis, enabling the erection to occur. I don't have enough knowledge to say much more than that. I hope some one will have some info to pass on to you, that helps.
I'd say, STOP all PE. Read up about using heat/warmth on & off through the day.
Somethings need time without much physical manipulations to heal. Keep an eye on morning erections for improvements.

[noivce101 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close noivce101]

Ok Dangler, I didn't know that morning erections could be a sign of improvement. I will watch for it. let's see someone else gives me more info.

[flex Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close flex]

I had a similar thing from overtraining that took a good 2 months to resolve. Same thing with the sex drive going down. That's because your body knows how to heal itself, including shutting down your drive when your unit needs to be left alone! So just give it what it needs--rest. Might take a few more weeks or another month, but you will recover.

[deleteduser Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close deleteduser]

Great post Flex. I think sometimes we forget that our body has the ability to heal itself even when we want to keep going.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

Are you taking any supplements like Ginko in order to help with circulation? This could help - it certainly wouldn't hurt.

[noivce101 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close noivce101]

wow I see some hope. i thought it was dead forever. What is Ginko supplement? Can I buy it without prescription?

[noivce101 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close noivce101]

I had a similar thing from overtraining that took a good 2 months to resolve. Same thing with the sex drive going down. That's because your body knows how to heal itself, including shutting down your drive when your unit needs to be left alone! So just give it what it needs--rest. Might take a few more weeks or another month, but you will recover.

Thanks flex. I will give it a more time then.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

It's an over the counter herbal supplement. Any GNC or WalMart or any pharmacy has it. Full name in Ginkgo biloba.

[noivce101 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close noivce101]

It's an over the counter herbal supplement. Any GNC or WalMart or any pharmacy has it. Full name in Ginkgo biloba.

cool I'll definitely going to try it. Thanks!

[Restoring Tally Member Find all posts View Profile Close Restoring Tally]

What is Ginko supplement? Can I buy it without prescription?

Read the The five G's for big erections post for more info on Ginko and other good supplements. These supplements are available over the counter and promote a healthy penis.

[alan020 Member of the Month Jan 13 Find all posts View Profile Close alan020]

I don't know what happened that day. before that my sex drive was crazy I could even masturbate like 6 times (long sessions) a day without getting much tired

Looking at that above, i think it could be a lot of your problem. Regardless of your sex drive masturbating that often is extremely unhealthy in my opinion. 3 - 5 times a week is more than enough, anything above this and it may become an addiction. I would rest as much as possible i.e stop masturbating and as quoted earlier use plenty of heat to help heal anything. I would doubt though you did much damage. Best of luck.!

[noivce101 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close noivce101]

Read the The five G's for big erections post for more info on Ginko and other good supplements. These supplements are available over the counter and promote a healthy penis.

Thanks a lot. I have already bought Gingko 60mg and started taking 2 daily. I'm going to buy others tomorrow. You guys are really helpful.

[noivce101 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close noivce101]

Looking at that above, i think it could be a lot of your problem. Regardless of your sex drive masturbating that often is extremely unhealthy in my opinion. 3 - 5 times a week is more than enough, anything above this and it may become an addiction. I would rest as much as possible i.e stop masturbating and as quoted earlier use plenty of heat to help heal anything. I would doubt though you did much damage. Best of luck.!

Well, I got update on this issue. I have a tight foreskin and never saw my penis without it in my life. That day, (because the toy was tooooo tight) my foreskin retracted little bit, not much but enough for me. Now yesterday, after 2-3 days of tries, I was able to retract my foreskin (without erection, of course) and I could see the whole head of my penis without foreskin. It was little scary for me because it looked too sensitive. (I can't imaging I can have sex without foreskin). But right after that my penis felt like dead again. It is the exact same feeling that I had a month ago. I've been doing some kegal exercise for the last 10 days and now it looks like I've to restart again. Has it do something with my foreskin issues? It looks like whenever I try to pull my foreskin back, something happens to penis and it becomes inactive. Please let me know if anyone got some info on it.

[alan020 Member of the Month Jan 13 Find all posts View Profile Close alan020]

Well, I got update on this issue. I have a tight foreskin and never saw my penis without it in my life. That day, (because the toy was tooooo tight) my foreskin retracted little bit, not much but enough for me. Now yesterday, after 2-3 days of tries, I was able to retract my foreskin (without erection, of course) and I could see the whole head of my penis without foreskin. It was little scary for me because it looked too sensitive. (I can't imaging I can have sex without foreskin). But right after that my penis felt like dead again. It is the exact same feeling that I had a month ago. I've been doing some kegal exercise for the last 10 days and now it looks like I've to restart again. Has it do something with my foreskin issues? It looks like whenever I try to pull my foreskin back, something happens to penis and it becomes inactive. Please let me know if anyone got some info on it.

It could take quite a while to retract the foreskin at first and yes it will be ridicolusly sensitive for a while but after a few months you can walk around with it retracted and have sex and its ok, but trust me it may take a while. Cant help you though on why it is becoming inactive if it continues i would seek medical help though!