performance anxiety

[tec poll Member Find all posts View Profile Close tec poll]

hello all its been a while since ive been on here my pe has been great and have seen much flacid gain, and alot of fun nights but it seems with my new gf ive fallen in a bit of a performance anxiety issue. My plumbing is 100% fine ive goten tests done everything seems to be fine. My health is fine eating well and moving around i do smoke and drink not alot though and when ever i see other atractive women ill get rock hard on the spot but everytime im with this girl it just dosnt seem to work out how it should. I know its all in my head but are there any tips on getting rid of this anxiety that im facing?? thank you all

[blazinryanc Member Find all posts View Profile Close blazinryanc]

My advice man would be not to rush sex at all with this chick...get comfortable hugging, cuddling, kissing and feeling each other. Focus more on pleasing her without intercourse at first...when u take your mind off it and just relax it should help. I hope you haven't been masturbating to porn a lot lately...

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i have acualy but i no it seems as if sometimes when we make out and stuff its there then i think to myself hell yea its goin good then i rembember whats to come and i lose it i no its all in my head i just cant get it out thats y i need some more tips from you guys come on anyone im sure someones been threw this and got over it??? lets hear it

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Better grammar so we could read what you wrote may help. Think about it; if your brain is working like the way you just wrote your post than your're doomed. Relax, train your brain to get organized and relaxed and it may work fine.

[Callyman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Callyman]

lots of foreplay, eat her pussy and finger her, Rim her ass, get toys and play with her that away, find out what excites you. Don't worry about you and make it about her, maybe things will work out.

[blazinryanc Member Find all posts View Profile Close blazinryanc]

Realistically if you have been masturbating excessively, the only solution is to stop IMMEDIATELY ! I'm such an advocate for my "No Porn" campaign. I have been in the exact situation you have been in man. The best thing to do is too abstain from any contact with your penis. No masturbation, porn, fantasizing about women, PE, and if u need to to then temporarily put your PE supplements on hold also. This is a means of balancing your body again and trying to stabilize it. Do this for a minimum of 2 weeks then let me know if you have had any improvements.

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blazinryanc you deffinetly got a rep point for that one i deffinetly agree with you and as for the first comment im sorrry im foreign i still dont know the languege as good or how to spell word but i try to the best of my capability im sorry for any frusteration this may have caused to those who read this.

[propump Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close propump]

im kinda in the same boat. in the past year i heavily relied on porn and now, i dont know if its anxiety from not having sex in so long or that i watched so much porn, but i have a problem getting it up when im with a girl now.

im gonna try the no porn, pe, masterbation for the next week or 2

[sweetie52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sweetie52]

tec poll,
The first thought that came to my mind is that you must really want to please this lady, and that thought may be stressing you out. I agree with one of the posts suggesting you take things slowly-no pressure. Start over, as if you are on a first date. Before jumping to any conclusions, this may be just the solution you need to please yourself first, then your girl.

[VIPER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIPER]

Better grammar so we could read what you wrote may help. Think about it; if your brain is working like the way you just wrote your post than your're doomed. Relax, train your brain to get organized and relaxed and it may work fine.

Well said CUSP ! it really does annoy me when the grammar in the posts are so poor that you can hardly understand what they are trying to say.

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sweetie52
i see what your trying to say. Start over and take my time this time . I plan on doing that and seeing how everything goes.

[blazinryanc Member Find all posts View Profile Close blazinryanc]

Thanks for the rep point Glad I can help! Believe me when I say that I had a beautiful naked girl on top of me in her car and I couldn't get a hard on. Im cured now thank goodness, and I'm sure you will be too.