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[crofty Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close crofty]

Been in a relationship for 18 months and sex has been great, in the last few weeks I have had erection problems, foreplay and pleasuring her I have a good solid erection, but when its my turn to have an orgasm either by entering her , oral sex or by hand my erection disappears I can still ejaculate but am only semi erect.
I have been training and reading this forum for about 5 months now with some good results, any suggestion ? Thanks in advance.

[crofty Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close crofty]

Hello, anybody have any ideas ? seems to be getting worse. many thanks

[Shangai Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Shangai]

Your problem is in your head. Peoples ideas wont help much when its a mental problem. The battle is inside your head and only you can win it to get back to what you were before the problems started.

[hunghigh Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hunghigh]

I agree Crofty. Its in your head. Recently have evaluated my ED due to sexual anxiety. My erections are fine up until that moment of penetration. A lot of thoughts entered in my mind. Do I please her, is my dick big enough etc....... the list goes on and on. I have conquered this by accident. I injured myself last week and had a hard flaccid up till two days ago and left it alone. Since then has subsided and had sex with my girl. We were on the same routine for 2 years. She works nights and when she got home from work we would do the same thing time after time. Well that's boring. I wasn't even trying to have sex when we did 2 days ago and it was the best sex I have had with her up to that point. The reason I know this is because my train of thought was different. So there for my erection was stronger than it ever has been. I would suggest to relax, do more foreplay, and put your mind on her rather than think of yourself. I proved to myself that my brain is very powerful and had an effect 100% of my performance. This is effecting you the same way. Your anxiety has taken over your thought process and that's all you can think about. It will always be there until your sub- conscious tells your brain to stop thinking this way. It really is easier said than done I know. good luck to you and hope things work out for you! Ill check back to see your progress. You see we are all here to help each other out because our goals may be different but at the same time we want to achieve the same thing. Best of luck to you Crofty!

[User235 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close User235]

You really owe it to yourself to get it checked out, just to completely rule out any injury issues (some ED problems due to injury come and go). Most likely it's a stress issue and/or circulation. Get on the 5g's big time, exercise hard (weights and short high-intensity aerobics to boost androgens) and do something for your brain - meditation, visualizations, etc.