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[shoman Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close shoman]

Hi.
I am 24 years old. I masturbate almost regularly on sleeping bed before marriage while sexting with my girl friends. But now after marriage i left it all.
But now i am facing a problem i dont get full errection to enter into my wife. I do it forcefully with the help of lubricant.. Its not her vagina's tightnes. its because my dick get soft when i try to enter her. So i am having sex like this. Some times when i am alone i get full errection but not when i sleep with wife..
Tell me what should i do? is it psychological? should i take viagra?
another thing. i didnt get full rock hard errection which points towar sky.. it get errected very hard but curved and pointing 60 degree towards ground. Length of my dick is normal.. around 6.5 inches. my hieght is 6.3".

Any help will be appreciated.

[Glamissand1 Senior Member Member of the Month March 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Glamissand1]

It is most likely from masterbating prone on the bed. As long as you have stpped doing it, you will likely recover over time. The part that happens next is once the fear or doubt is in your mind it will cause you to get soft even though you are physically healthy. Best way to fight this is to not worry about your dick hardness while leading up to sex and during. Enjoy the sight of your new naked bride giving herself to you.

Jelqs and kegels will also help increase hardness, and erection frequency.
Check out JP90 beginner workout to get back your penis health and maybe even see some growth.

[shoman Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close shoman]

can i use viagra?? because i want it erected.. last night even my bride told me u cant do this..its not hard.

[Glamissand1 Senior Member Member of the Month March 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Glamissand1]

It is for your doctor and you to deside on. Just understand that at a young age it is bad to have to depend on it, and you will build a tolerance to it. By the time your old you will need a heavy dose to have little effect. If you need a boost try vitalikor or staminaRX. You will still need to stimulate an erection to get the blood flowing, even viagra needs stimulation to work. The bonus of using an over the counter penis pill is that they have libido boosting herbs to help get you started.

This is just to get you going for now, you still need to do jelqs and kegels to increase erection quality and promote penis health. Again check out JP90 for a starting workout. Happy Tugging!

[Looking4more Retired Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Looking4more]

Welcome to the Gym Shoman.
Do like Glamissands said. Stop masturbating, definitely stay away from the pills and do the JP90 or one of the other beginner routines. You will find them here along with lots of other good info.
https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html Also just relax when you are with your wife. You may be putting too much pressure on yourself mentally to perform. Like he said, enjoy your beautiful bride who is there giving herself to you and realize what a blessing it is to have a wife who loves you. If you have any questions at all, please ask. We are all here to help. The exercises will keep your penis healthy for years to come and you will be able to enjoy many, many years with your lovely bride. Good luck.

[shoman Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close shoman]

when i do kegel i feel my testes pulling upward.. am i doing kegel right?? i even look them lifting upward when i do kegel

[Thrill Drill Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Thrill Drill]

when i do kegel i feel my testes pulling upward.. am i doing kegel right?? i even look them lifting upward when i do kegel

Yeah it happens for some dudes. Go and take a piss. Then, in the middle of it, stop. Stop the flow of urine. That is a kegel. If your balls go up, it's fine.

[shoman Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close shoman]

how much kegels should i do in a single day. and can i have sex during these days while doing kegels in days.. and in night while sleeping with wife can i do kegel when i have an errection in her hand?

[robertpatrick Member Find all posts View Profile Close robertpatrick]

Hi.
I am 24 years old. I masturbate almost regularly on sleeping bed before marriage while sexting with my girl friends. But now after marriage i left it all.
But now i am facing a problem i dont get full errection to enter into my wife. I do it forcefully with the help of lubricant.. Its not her vagina's tightnes. its because my dick get soft when i try to enter her. So i am having sex like this. Some times when i am alone i get full errection but not when i sleep with wife..
Tell me what should i do? is it psychological? should i take viagra?
another thing. i didnt get full rock hard errection which points towar sky.. it get errected very hard but curved and pointing 60 degree towards ground. Length of my dick is normal.. around 6.5 inches. my hieght is 6.3".

Any help will be appreciated.

I think this may be due to performance anxiety my dear friend. You should consult doctor for this. If you are planning to take viagra then i would say you should take herbal medicine, but not viagra. As herbal medicine doesn't have side effects. Also you have use kegel. Try it it will sure help you.. Reply...

[shoman Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close shoman]

Thanks all of you. after doing kegel and jelq regularly ,i am now able to attain a good errection level. and i can now choose any position for sex. love u guys.
now i want to have a baby, how to increase my sperm count, as i think i squirt a very little amount of semen if i do sex regularly, but if i do with 3-4days break, it got more and seems nice. but for having a baby i think i should do sex regularly during ovulation.