Couldn't get an erection!

[Sss535 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sss535]

Ok so I have no problem getting hard on my own and never did even with my ex even when I was drunk. Just last night I went to have sex and I had been drinking before hand. I couldn't get it up and this was the second time this happened with this same girl. Kind of embarrassing and I'm only 21 years old. I definitely felt turned on just my dick was well.... Being a dick to me. I know drinking can cause this but I've been drunk before and could get aroused fine. I have been stressed lately because of school and my ex that I was with for almost five years leaving me to date another guy kind of left me tore up. So I'm wondering hat you guys think about this situation? I honestly felt kind of nervous or anxious or overly excited when we started fore play. I'm trying to give as much details as possible.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Stress can do this,try to relax/

[eow. Member of the Month April 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close eow.]

You pretty much answered your own question. You are stressed over school, breaking up with your ex, and you were drinking.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Seems like you have already figured out your problem - alchohol. To some extent, alchohol can help reduce inhabitiions. However, it can also effect the necessary connection between the brain and the penis. Once you experience the alchohol induced disconnect, performance anxiety starts to rear its ugly head. Next time you get an opportunity to bed your new girl, limit your alchohol consumption and spend a lot of time enjoying erotic and sensual foreplay.

[boston_019 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close boston_019]

This thread begs the following question be asked of the experienced members of the site:

If human erectile capability is so easily defeated by alcohol, how is it that so many people hook up (or claim to hook up) while drunk?

[s_t_f Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close s_t_f]

Hey man, don't worry it happens to the best if us. I just recently broke up with my ex if 2 years. I thought i was going to marry her. A couple weeks ago I tried having sex and just could get hard enough to get in her. And when I did I was a 2 pump chump, and that rarely ever happened with the ex. I could always get hard with my ex under any circumstances. I believe it is just the stress of moving on while we know the one we love is with someone else.

[s_t_f Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close s_t_f]

And if you really like this new girl, just be honest with her. Let her know that there are some things going on in your life and you like her, but you need to slow things down. If she is a decent girl she will stick around. If she isn't, then she wont and you don't need her.

[billybrown Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close billybrown]

Welcome to the Whiskey Dick Club man! It happened to me a few times too, the most embarrassing being with a girl from school, she never came back for more . My reaction was and my advice to you is..... eeeeeeh fuck it, it will work next time!