Problems with sexual function

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Hello all im new to the forums found them while searching for a solution to my issues and have started the basic routine. Before i get into my issues an questions heres a little info to help keep it all on track.

I am 20 almost 21 i have been with my wife and only my wife since 14 i have been sexually active with her since 16. I got a prostate infection at one point got it cleared up no more issues thought it kept coming back urologist said i had no problems and i had no infection.

My biggest issues are cases of ed and and pe. Pe not being major as its not completely uncontrolled just short sex unfortunately. Ed is the bigger one. I can get hard although not as hard as i like or used to however it takes a long time and without constant physical stimulation it goes soft almost instant which i believe is the biggest contributing pe factor is i have to get reerect multiple times during sex ruining my stamina for the actual act. What can i do to fix this?

Also on a slightly related note i cant find an answer anywhere and maybe someone here knows sometimes albeit not very often at all i will wake up with the biggest hardest most raging erection i could ever imagine and its incredibly difficult to get rid of unless i urinate but it seems impossible to recreate with sex masturbation anything...is there anyway to make it to where all my erections are like that?

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Hi, How much masturbating do you do now, or have done in the past, there's a little saying, what is done by the hand is remembered by the brain, even married men masturbate, and some over masturbate, and some on the quite do it to porn. Were do you think you fall or do you fall in any of the above?

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Hi, How much masturbating do you do now, or have done in the past, there's a little saying, what is done by the hand is remembered by the brain, even married men masturbate, and some over masturbate, and some on the quite do it to porn. Were do you think you fall or do you fall in any of the above?

I am an over MB. Since I was 8 I've been playing with my dick, jacked off to porn until about 4 months ago. I havent JO since my GF and I got together last month, and I still have problems just like he is having. I have yet to reach a 100% full erection like before with her...

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Well lets see havent watched porn since i was abt 14-15 i masturbated probably 1-3 times a day till i was 18 although somedays not at all since i moved in with my wife i rarely masturbate its pretty much just sex or nothing since its always sex if i want it i have a rather long refractory period and get very sore if i ignore it and erections are painful currently i masturbate about once perday because i am on a nine month long period of time where i cannot be with my wife unfortunately

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Well lets see havent watched porn since i was abt 14-15 i masturbated probably 1-3 times a day till i was 18 although somedays not at all since i moved in with my wife i rarely masturbate its pretty much just sex or nothing since its always sex if i want it i have a rather long refractory period and get very sore if i ignore it and erections are painful currently i masturbate about once perday because i am on a nine month long period of time where i cannot be with my wife unfortunately

So ok, you now masturbate daily, is this with a hard grip? the grip you need is a featherlight touch, your touch should simulate a vagina like your wife's, but you should also try masturbating just every other day, and see if things get better, for your PE look on site at edging, your find it under exercises, Good Luck

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Okay thanks

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Oops hit reply i apologize for the spam but i didnt start masturbating daily till i could not be with my wife so that couldnt possibly be the cause

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I am an over MB. Since I was 8 I've been playing with my dick, jacked off to porn until about 4 months ago. I havent JO since my GF and I got together last month, and I still have problems just like he is having. I have yet to reach a 100% full erection like before with her...

Hi If you have got this far, you need just to give more time, if you think of all the masturbating and porn watching you have done, its going to take some time, your g/f does she know your back ground, with both as it would be best if you tell her, as it would not be nice if she thinks its her, for you two things, its either time, just give it time, or go to frank talk, on there I have for post under general discussion, DRUGD VERSUS HERBS, HERBS MY CHOICE, same again but add daily intake, and two more on herbs for ED, Good Luck

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Oops hit reply i apologize for the spam but i didnt start masturbating daily till i could not be with my wife so that couldnt possibly be the cause

For now it just could be over masturbating, try taken a break, do you get nocturnal erections or morning woods, if not then take a long break, if they start coming back, then things are getting better. Good Luck

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Hi If you have got this far, you need just to give more time, if you think of all the masturbating and porn watching you have done, its going to take some time, your g/f does she know your back ground, with both as it would be best if you tell her, as it would not be nice if she thinks its her, for you two things, its either time, just give it time, or go to frank talk, on there I have for post under general discussion, DRUGD VERSUS HERBS, HERBS MY CHOICE, same again but add daily intake, and two more on herbs for ED, Good Luck

I havent always had this problem though. When I was married years ago I was in my early 20s, I did have problems then, but not as often. I am 35 now and in better shape than I was then. I smoked and drank in those days, and I've been off cigs and alcohol since 07. I lost 160+ lbs and I eat right, take my HERBALS too.

Yes, she knows about my past, and me hers and I told her a couple days before we hooked up that I have been having a problem getting it up and staying hard, and that its not the same size as it was(went from 7"+ to 5.5") She didn't care about that, and still doesn't. She says I complete her and I make her happier than anyone has ever tried, and that I have nothing to worry about.

She was around while I was married, she knows what my ex wife put me through, and she was there when I got married, and knows how bad it hurt me, I know she wouldn't ever hurt me like that...

I brought that up because for the last few days I have been kinda mean towards her. I am letting my past BS with the ex interfere with us. I have trust issues thatI thought I had fixed, but I guess I will need to work harder. Any advice on this?

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I havent always had this problem though. When I was married years ago I was in my early 20s, I did have problems then, but not as often. I am 35 now and in better shape than I was then. I smoked and drank in those days, and I've been off cigs and alcohol since 07. I lost 160+ lbs and I eat right, take my HERBALS too.

Yes, she knows about my past, and me hers and I told her a couple days before we hooked up that I have been having a problem getting it up and staying hard, and that its not the same size as it was(went from 7"+ to 5.5") She didn't care about that, and still doesn't. She says I complete her and I make her happier than anyone has ever tried, and that I have nothing to worry about.

She was around while I was married, she knows what my ex wife put me through, and she was there when I got married, and knows how bad it hurt me, I know she wouldn't ever hurt me like that...

I brought that up because for the last few days I have been kinda mean towards her. I am letting my past BS with the ex interfere with us. I have trust issues thatI thought I had fixed, but I guess I will need to work harder. Any advice on this?

Hi It seems then if you are putting these past things through your mind, its stressing you, and stress my friend is a sex killer, you say you need to work harder, but have you thought of therapy for some real help, for your stress you can google natural ways out of stress, now read down them and pick a way to go, but don't start one then mix it with another, or you can try meditation for stress. But its very good to have the relationship you have, as you complete her, then does she complete you? I do hope so, but be careful, sometimes relationships tread a fine line, hope this helps. See how you go, Good Luck

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You arent understanding that is not my issue there is no way overmasturbation could be my issue because i did not masturbate i recently started when i could no longer have sex with my wife because i am not home

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I havent always had this problem though. When I was married years ago I was in my early 20s, I did have problems then, but not as often. I am 35 now and in better shape than I was then. I smoked and drank in those days, and I've been off cigs and alcohol since 07. I lost 160+ lbs and I eat right, take my HERBALS too.

Yes, she knows about my past, and me hers and I told her a couple days before we hooked up that I have been having a problem getting it up and staying hard, and that its not the same size as it was(went from 7"+ to 5.5") She didn't care about that, and still doesn't. She says I complete her and I make her happier than anyone has ever tried, and that I have nothing to worry about.

She was around while I was married, she knows what my ex wife put me through, and she was there when I got married, and knows how bad it hurt me, I know she wouldn't ever hurt me like that...

I brought that up because for the last few days I have been kinda mean towards her. I am letting my past BS with the ex interfere with us. I have trust issues thatI thought I had fixed, but I guess I will need to work harder. Any advice on this?

Hi, Ok She says you complete her, the thing now is do you think she completes you, making you the round couple, with sex problems for you in that you have trouble getting or keeping it erect, The ex you now need to put her away, time to forget her, if she's still around try moving away from where you are, that's if you really serious with the relationship, and you working harder to clear things, you may think of some kind of therapy for that, it can be really helpful in what it can do for you. Your penis size try some PE here on site, with jelqing, with this it may help overcome your ED problems, one of the things this does is get blood further down your penis, so it should help two things your hardness and regain your size. do hope this helps, Good Luck

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Hi, Ok She says you complete her, the thing now is do you think she completes you, making you the round couple, with sex problems for you in that you have trouble getting or keeping it erect, The ex you now need to put her away, time to forget her, if she's still around try moving away from where you are, that's if you really serious with the relationship, and you working harder to clear things, you may think of some kind of therapy for that, it can be really helpful in what it can do for you. Your penis size try some PE here on site, with jelqing, with this it may help overcome your ED problems, one of the things this does is get blood further down your penis, so it should help two things your hardness and regain your size. do hope this helps, Good Luck

thing is though... I was happy with my size, until it started to shrink.... and I have started jelqing again, but I don't really have much time for the warm up and everything else. I only came here at first for better, longer lasting erections, not to get a bigger dick. I was happy with my 7''+5.5" dick. Now, its not that and I'm sick about it.... Help cost money, and I have none for that. All my money goes to bills and gas too, so there goes any help...

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You arent understanding that is not my issue there is no way overmasturbation could be my issue because i did not masturbate i recently started when i could no longer have sex with my wife because i am not home

Hi Sorry must be getting confused, two threads on one post can do this. So for 9 months you have not been with your wife, are we working away, or is it another reason? but not getting a full erections can come from masturbating, OK it drains the body, now if its not that then I suggest you try a cock ring, these hold the blood longer in the penis, hence we get harder erections, I know this as I'm an owner of a myhardwear ice, and boy do they work. Suggest you try one if you think it would help. Good Luck