Low EQ and lack of sensitivity

[Koh Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Koh]

Alright, so yesterday I had sex with a girl I find to be quite attractive, but was experiencing some problems; I'm going to keep this as brief as possible.

Background info:

Last time I had sex was around this time 2011. I'm 21, a pretty healthy individual, and I try to run for 30 mins about 3 to 4 times a week.

I drink at least a gallon of water a day, and vary between 1-6 cups of green tea w/ honey and lemon per day. I don't get the most ideal hours of sleep: 5-7 hours.

My PE routine is:

10 min warm up
3, 1 min slow yet intense 10 o'clock, straight out, down, and A-stretch
10-15 min jelq @ 30-50%
5 min warm down

Going by a 2 on, 1 off, ratio.

I'm doing a kegel/reverse routine as well every other day. And I haven't watched porn for 17 days also. My general pelvic region is quite relaxed since I do yoga type stretches a lot.

Regarding lack of EQ:

My routine is giving me PIs, a larger flaccid, more noticeable veins, it's just my EQ falters after my routine so I don't try to edge that much.

It was my first time having sex with a condom, but the whole time I was about an EQ of 6, maybe 6.5. We still made it work though. Perhaps I've been overworking myself outside of PE exercises?

Regarding lack of sensitivity:

I was able to last a long time with the condom on, but I wasn't actually really feeling much pleasure while I was having sex. Not sure if it was become the condom or not, but I ultimately ended up reaching PONR via grinding my dick on her clit after taking the condom off.

Not sure what to do about this dilemma, I want my EQ to be much higher in our next encounter, I feel I'm cheating myself and this girl due to not having the best EQ.

[fartonmyface Member Find all posts View Profile Close fartonmyface]

Alright, so yesterday I had sex with a girl I find to be quite attractive, but was experiencing some problems; I'm going to keep this as brief as possible.

Background info:

Last time I had sex was around this time 2011. I'm 21, a pretty healthy individual, and I try to run for 30 mins about 3 to 4 times a week.

I drink at least a gallon of water a day, and vary between 1-6 cups of green tea w/ honey and lemon per day. I don't get the most ideal hours of sleep: 5-7 hours.

My PE routine is:

10 min warm up
3, 1 min slow yet intense 10 o'clock, straight out, down, and A-stretch
10-15 min jelq @ 30-50%
5 min warm down

Going by a 2 on, 1 off, ratio.

I'm doing a kegel/reverse routine as well every other day. And I haven't watched porn for 17 days also. My general pelvic region is quite relaxed since I do yoga type stretches a lot.

Regarding lack of EQ:

My routine is giving me PIs, a larger flaccid, more noticeable veins, it's just my EQ falters after my routine so I don't try to edge that much.

It was my first time having sex with a condom, but the whole time I was about an EQ of 6, maybe 6.5. We still made it work though. Perhaps I've been overworking myself outside of PE exercises?

Regarding lack of sensitivity:

I was able to last a long time with the condom on, but I wasn't actually really feeling much pleasure while I was having sex. Not sure if it was become the condom or not, but I ultimately ended up reaching PONR via grinding my dick on her clit after taking the condom off.

Not sure what to do about this dilemma, I want my EQ to be much higher in our next encounter, I feel I'm cheating myself and this girl due to not having the best EQ.

Interesting read.

I, myself, am 21 years of age and have some similar EQ issues. So I'm going to speak for myself here, but maybe you can derive something good out of it.

Before my partner and I had sex, I told her about my erection issues, and she was quite confused. I said I just couldn't maintain a full erection unless I had some sort of rubber band over my penis, which is true. Again, you can imagine her confusion. But truth is I can't get a full erection without using some type of light cockring, nothing as extreme as a clamp, but something a bit tight enough to help some blood stay in my penis. This issue that you and I experience is because the smooth muscle in our penis doesn't fully block off the blood from exiting the penile chambers once we get aroused. My sex is great if I use a rubber cockring. It doesn't inhibit bloodflow enough to cause damage, but helps me maintain 100% EQ. And with 100% EQ, your sensitivity goes through the roof. Just bring it to her attention and try out a cockring. It can't hurt to give it a shot.