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I had my first sexual experience about 5 weeks ago, and I couldn't get it up. I've been fearing something like this for a short while since I haven't been as hard while watching porn lately. I've been watching porn for about 13 years, and I obviously started very young. Since the incident I've stopped watching porn, and I need a benchmark to see if what I'm going through is normal while on the road to resetting.
Within the first week I was back to full erection size, and I was getting morning wood. I couldn't really help myself though, and the longest I've gone without cuming is only about 12 days. I get spells of horniness, and they're literally crippling. However, after the 12 day cycle I decided to masturbate more frequently to try and reduce the spells, and I seem to be right back to where I was. I was told that I should be able to get aroused from simply touching myself - no mental stimulation at all. And I couldn't do that yesterday. I had to fantasize, and when I did, I didn't get fully erect. I also seem to have massive erections at inappropriate times with no stimulation - like during the day at work.
It's all very frustrating. I'm both annoyed by my erections during the day and unconfident with my erections during the night. Has anyone else had similar experiences and how did you try to overcome it?
Within the first week I was back to full erection size, and I was getting morning wood. I couldn't really help myself though, and the longest I've gone without cuming is only about 12 days. I get spells of horniness, and they're literally crippling. However, after the 12 day cycle I decided to masturbate more frequently to try and reduce the spells, and I seem to be right back to where I was. I was told that I should be able to get aroused from simply touching myself - no mental stimulation at all. And I couldn't do that yesterday. I had to fantasize, and when I did, I didn't get fully erect. I also seem to have massive erections at inappropriate times with no stimulation - like during the day at work.
It's all very frustrating. I'm both annoyed by my erections during the day and unconfident with my erections during the night. Has anyone else had similar experiences and how did you try to overcome it?
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