Just had sex, can't get fully hard?

[anythingrandom Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close anythingrandom]

I know FOR A FACT it is performance anxiety

I take 10g arginine everyday
healthy
was able to get 100% erection AFTER she left


When we were having sex, I felt like I had a case of sausage dick and the only way I got up to 40% hard was stroking it. I took 3/4 of a cialis pill and got 60% hard. When we had intercourse, my penis would keep bending (flimsy) and I did not enjoy it.


What could I do to fix this? Help!

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

I coppied this from an earlier post I made on this same topic:

I always recommend that guys experiencing psychological ED should plan for an evening of erotic touching and feeling without focusing on orgasim or possibly not even penetration as the end result. The idea is to get to know each other's naked bodies without the need for orgasm This will allow each partner to feel relaxed and comfortable. If penetration becomes inevitable, try and do it without thrusting in slow erotic movements. If you achieve a happy ending, all the better. If not, nothing lost and you will feel more comfortable with each other the next time.

[anythingrandom Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close anythingrandom]

I coppied this from an earlier post I made on this same topic:

I always recommend that guys experiencing psychological ED should plan for an evening of erotic touching and feeling without focusing on orgasim or possibly not even penetration as the end result. The idea is to get to know each other's naked bodies without the need for orgasm This will allow each partner to feel relaxed and comfortable. If penetration becomes inevitable, try and do it without thrusting in slow erotic movements. If you achieve a happy ending, all the better. If not, nothing lost and you will feel more comfortable with each other the next time.

She is a friend with benefits, we only use each other to get rid of sexual frustration. Thank you though. We do however, have like 40 minutes of foreplay in regards to touching.

[IdealPenis Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close IdealPenis]

not2big gave you a great solution, that may work wonders.

If that is not an option, try a specialist.

Other solution can come from your own experience. If in other moments you have great erections, see what are the differences. What you do/think/feel different and adjust your strategy.

Cheers