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After stretching, I get ready to do my jelqs. I don't use anything but physical stimulation and maybe some fantasizing of my girl. Although obviously I don't want to get to 100% for standard jelqs, when I want to transition to edging, it takes be at least a few minutes to get aroused to 100%, i.e., if I start stimulating myself from flaccid, with a bit of fantasizing, unless I am especially horny, I kind of have to force myself into arousal, which takes at least maybe 3-5 minutes of stimulation. Also, whenever I get random erections throughout the day, they are not 100%, but maybe 50%-85%. So is this normal? My gut feeling, no pun intended, is that if I am simply not in the mood when I want to edge, it's normal to expect a little while before my dick hits the max.
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Its normal not to be able to achieve a full erection easily right after stretching, maybe you can try to stretch long before you jelqing/edging sessions or after them.
In order for edging to help with gains, you need to maintain the highest erection level for the whole session.A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it -
10-4. Asides from the stretching though, if I'm simply not feeling particularly horny, is it still normal to take a few min to get up to 100%?Comment
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Yes.
Why edge if you don't feel horny, try to enjoy it, Edging shouldn't be a burden. If you don't feel like it, don't do it.
But if you don't get horny A LOT, I think you may want to investigate that.A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_itComment
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Well I recently (2 months now) stopped watching porn since I started dating this girl (lost my virginity to her), and since then my sexual thoughts have turned from porn to sex. I get horny every time I talk to her about certain topics (sexual), but for now we are in different cities (though I'm seeing her again soon). Unless I am already aroused by conversation with her or thinking about her randomly during the day, I'm not particularly horny- I mean, I don't walk around thinking about fucking 24/7, but it feels like it's getting there. Recently in edging, I go from zero arousal when I start to insane arousal. I'm not sure if it is because my brain is readjusting or because I'm just not used to sex, but I feel like my sex drive is slowly growing.Originally posted by MrB8 View PostComment
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Congratulations on your first relationship! (I know I'm 2 months late)
From what you're describing, I believe you are heading in the correct direction.
Maybe mentally recreating those intimate scenes raise your libido for a session, but I wouldn't worry about it. Your brain needs time to readjust.A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_itComment
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Thanks, MrB8! I had a starter thread a month or so ago about my first time- it wasn't amazing obviously but it also wasn't too bad at all, for a first time :-).
When I think about getting intimate with her, I start getting pretty aroused quickly. I've recently been under stress from school and some money issues, so I think that's probably contributing a bit towards why I'm not thinking as much as I'd like about sex. Anyways, I'll keep up my exercises- I've been doing the basic stretching/jelqing/edging for the last 3 months and have gone from nbpel 5.5 x 4.5 to nbpel 6.1x4.75- don't know if that is mostly improved EQ but I hope to get to my 7x5 goal by summer!!Comment
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Stress temporarily lowers libido, try to control it and find a way to shake it off and you shall get back to normal, so overall, you are perfectly normal bro nothing to worry about.
Your gains are wonderful!
EQ is where its at, anyway EQ or not, a gain is a gain although I think they are actual growth 
keep up the good work!!!
Last edited by MrB8; 11-17-2013, 12:30 AM.A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_itComment
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Thanks! I think there is growth there too, but the I'm most excited about the improved EQ! For me, the best way I to deal with stress is just to work- solving one problem and moving methodically onto the next just keeps the burden manageable, though sometimes it just piles on too fast. Will post updates in the near future- appreciate the advice and info :-)Comment
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*sorry about the grammar- I'm on my phone and can't seem to find the edit button :-/.Comment
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