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Hi guys,
Last November I split from my wife...pretty much a loveless relationship, sex once a month if we ever did it at all...i'm quite big, about 340lbs, no diabetes (seemed to have escaped it). I used to weigh far more, almost 400lbs at one stage, but losing weight
Always had a problem maintaining an erection during intimate encounters with my wife however I tended to "get off" more to porn than actual real life sex and masturbated daily to porn. Sometimes twice or more.
Since moving out in March this year this has kind of continued with daily visits to my favourite sites until I met a girl a few weeks ago and it's just now getting a bit intimate.
She totally rocks my world, is gorgeous, but I just can't get an erection of any kind...each time I look at her i'm properly turned on and in the mood but the little man just isn't interested at all.
I started reading this site a few days ago and discovered that as well as weight being an issue I need to reboot therefore I made the decision to not look at any porn sites at all. Can't work out though if I should be continuing the intimacy with my girl...? She came over yesterday and one thing led to another and that was that...but now feel that i'm back at square one again.
My weight isn't going to change instantly, it's a long term process that i'm dealing with slowly but surely. My girl has a high sex-drive and whilst my ED problem so far isn't causing any relationship issues I don't want it to in the future therefore I need to investigate options.
I never have any erection problems however when looking at porn, it's there ready to go each time so I did consider suggesting we look at porn to get me hard however I didn't want to give her the impression that I needed porn to get the engine moving
Any help you can offer would be fantastic...many thanks.
Last November I split from my wife...pretty much a loveless relationship, sex once a month if we ever did it at all...i'm quite big, about 340lbs, no diabetes (seemed to have escaped it). I used to weigh far more, almost 400lbs at one stage, but losing weight
Always had a problem maintaining an erection during intimate encounters with my wife however I tended to "get off" more to porn than actual real life sex and masturbated daily to porn. Sometimes twice or more.
Since moving out in March this year this has kind of continued with daily visits to my favourite sites until I met a girl a few weeks ago and it's just now getting a bit intimate.
She totally rocks my world, is gorgeous, but I just can't get an erection of any kind...each time I look at her i'm properly turned on and in the mood but the little man just isn't interested at all.
I started reading this site a few days ago and discovered that as well as weight being an issue I need to reboot therefore I made the decision to not look at any porn sites at all. Can't work out though if I should be continuing the intimacy with my girl...? She came over yesterday and one thing led to another and that was that...but now feel that i'm back at square one again.
My weight isn't going to change instantly, it's a long term process that i'm dealing with slowly but surely. My girl has a high sex-drive and whilst my ED problem so far isn't causing any relationship issues I don't want it to in the future therefore I need to investigate options.
I never have any erection problems however when looking at porn, it's there ready to go each time so I did consider suggesting we look at porn to get me hard however I didn't want to give her the impression that I needed porn to get the engine moving
Any help you can offer would be fantastic...many thanks.
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